Asking for help, emotional problems, I really can t solve it, I don t communicate well, I don t unde

Let's be honest, I think quarrels are also a way to communicate Why quarrels Explain that there is a contradiction So take advantage of the quarrel to say all the unhappiness in the hearts of both parties The most taboo is to walk away when there is a conflict Hang ** Do you think you are escaping a war You will only make more resentment accumulate without concealing it and cause greater dissatisfaction So I think two people who love each other might as well quarrel happily when they quarrel After reconciliation, throw that contradiction in the last unpleasantness Don't keep chasing that burden and not letting go If you really love each other, I believe you will find a path that suits you, don't break up because you don't work hard, and put the blame on the incompatible personalities.

It's obviously an inappropriate character. Even if you can sit down and talk about it, you probably won't change much. I guess you've been around for a long time, and it's dependence and inertia that sustains you.

It's not that you don't love each other, but that your personalities aren't suitable. Many times, in love, but the personality is not suitable, it will be very painful for two people.

There is too little communication between you, if it happens often, it's best to agree that both parties will tolerate it, and if you love someone, you have to learn to tolerate more, so that it can last for a long time, if you always feel that you have a reason to quarrel, you will be tired in the end.

My relationship used to be the same as what you said, and the final result was a breakup, of course, I didn't mean to persuade you to break up. According to my experience, there is a lack of tolerance between you, and communication, if you really love each other, you must learn to tolerate each other, even if it is the other party's fault, if necessary, you must compromise, bowing to love is definitely not a loss of face. When two people are together, they can talk more about things when they are in love, so as to keep the love fresh.

If you don't work in this way, your personality is incompatible, and then you can only follow the same path as me.

Putting all the problems out when you're happy actually boils down to communication. Now that you know that there is such a problem between you, ask him if he is also aware and how he wants you to respond. Be calm when you say this, and being angry will never solve the problem.

Learn more about each other's lives, so that they will naturally know what the other person is unhappy about, and even if they can't solve their problems, they can comfort and share them. Don't always think that you can't bow your head, know that he loves you, what can't be reconciled.

In my experience, I feel like he likes you, not "loves you".

If a person loves you very much, he will accommodate you, love you, and care for you, and will not let you be hurt and wronged at the top.

You say "he loves you very much", but you both have a bad temper, and since he loves you very much, why not change it for you? Is this what is called "he loves you very much"? I hope you can think about whether he really loves you.

Also, since you are boyfriend and girlfriend, if there is anything you can share together, why do you share your thoughts. People often say that three stinkers are still on top of one Zhuge Liang, what can't be done, as long as the hearts of the two of you are in one place, and you can tolerate each other, there is nothing that can't be passed.

There are some things that you don't have to break the casserole to ask if he wants to tell you that he will tell you without you asking him and don't always chase him so that he will find you annoying, so be a listener and listen to his thoughts when he wants to say ...

It's not a long-term solution to go on like this, you must sit down calmly and talk about it, if it's suitable, you'll be together, and if it's not suitable, you'll be separated early, and it's good for both of you."

Lack of communication Mutual understanding, respect, humility...

Summary. Good evening, dear, it's an honor to be able to answer for you, if you can't effectively communicate and solve the problem emotionally, you should analyze your own reasons, see if it is your own reason that causes poor communication, just change your own problems, if it is not your own reason, then don't care so much, the other party's reluctance to communicate is his problem, you live your own life, emotional things will go with the flow, don't worry so much, I hope mine can help you, I wish you a happy life.

Good evening, dear, it's an honor to be able to answer for you, if you can't effectively communicate emotionally to solve the problem, you should analyze your own reasons, see if it is your own reasons that cause poor communication, just change the problem of your own letter, if it is not your own reason, then don't go to the slippery balance so much, the other party's reluctance to communicate is his problem, you live your own life, the emotional thing will go naturally, don't worry so much, I hope my can help you, I wish you a happy life.

It should be my state key's own fault, I don't know if I should quarrel with her or what! There are some questions that I don't want to suspect, but for the evidence, the basic state is almost missing, and I want to ask but I'm afraid that she will be annoyed, so I don't ask myself. Besides, she has been working for a day, and I really don't feel authentic when I ask her about these troubles, I am really afraid of wolves and tigers.

Do you suspect that she is with others outside, and if there is evidence, you don't dare to say it, so it's really annoying to cower, I think you find a time when she doesn't go to work, sit down and communicate well, and talk about your own frank doubts, so as to effectively solve the problem of stool reputation, and it's not a way to hold it all the time, the key is to be afraid of annoyance.

Don't be afraid of trouble, your wife doesn't want you anymore, what are you afraid of, say it boldly, just say anything, so that you can feel more comfortable.

Uh-huh. You should enlighten yourself and face life with a positive and optimistic attitude, so that you can have the courage and confidence to face your wife.

The first point is that your girlfriend may be really annoying and tired at work, and the second point is that your girlfriend may have other people, and the long-distance relationship is the most likely to have problems, and there is that you usually spoil her too much, and everything depends on her, so he is spoiled, and there is that you come to him too much, because you always hit him, so he thinks you don't care.

Solution 1, find a time to talk thoroughly in person, ask him the reason for this, call him ** at the appropriate time, don't let him feel that you can't live without him, and occasionally cold him to let him sober up.

Solution 2, then you just chill him for a while, see when he will contact you, you are talking to him when you contact you, don't contact him before that.

The third solution is to break up, because he may have someone else in his heart, and it is not suitable for you to be together, because you are often not around, and what she wants is to live with you every day, and it just so happens that the woman is a sentimental animal and needs the comfort of others, whether it is mental or physical.

And my personal testimonial, since it is not suitable, don't force it, that will not lead to results.

It can be seen that the landlord cares about her very much, only you know whether she is good to you or not, I think that like you, you can let go, even if you love her, don't show it, so maybe you will be happier. If she really loves you, she will change the ...... for youI hope the landlord will adopt it. I wish you a lifetime of happiness.

in the relationship; Always have more than one side; It's also love; If she cooperates with you in anything; It won't be the person you love right now.

To put it absolutely, if you love her, follow her, if you feel that the feelings are weak, you can let go appropriately.

See how much you say and give you a suggestion.

Actually, your main problem is that there is a lack of communication, "face-to-face communication".

Find more things that interest him and communicate with him, and then surpass him in that regard, don't listen to him, although you love him very much, but not 100 out of 100, afraid of him, women rely on coaxing, in women with character, there will be a vulnerable side, maybe you don't find it.

He's assertive and not afraid, so you can pretend to be very unassertive, but you must be assertive about important things, and you two have more "fun".

Look at these suggestions you can use and don't want you to be happy.

As the saying goes, time and space create beauty. Some things and some words do not have to be answered on the spot, when the two sides are not happy, they can fork the topic and put it away, change the tone and change the environment, even if they walk in nature, the feeling will change immediately, or the man will be generous to go to the restaurant to have a meal together, and then discuss each other's requirements and feelings after two or three days, and point out each other's shortcomings. And as a big man--- you have to do more self-criticism, if you don't take it too seriously, what do you say?

Two people who love each other have difficulty communicating, so how can you continue to be together in the future. Couples shouldn't have a lot to talk about, how can such a problem arise? Communication is the most important thing in love, just like an adolescent child, you need to communicate with your parents in order to get along happily.

But then again, if you and your rice noat boyfriend have more and more incompatible views, then you will definitely talk very little together, and slowly the two of you don't want to communicate. There is no common topic between them, so what else do the two of them have to say? <>

However, this month's phenomenon is also normal, and I think most couples will be tired all day long, and there will be a lot of things to say. Just like yesterday, when we were practicing driving, we saw a couple walking over and walking past, and they were talking and laughing all morning, and they really didn't feel tired. They also have no IQ for lovers in love, so they probably don't have any ideas other than being happy.

But you and your boyfriend have been together for a long time, and the shortcomings of the two people are slowly exposed. This begins to dislike each other, and when you can't run in no matter how you run in, isn't this a sign that your love is about to end, because no one likes to be with someone who has no common topic. Two people don't talk every day, what happiness is there in such a life.

A classmate of mine in the second year of junior high school, this girl's personality doesn't know what's wrong anyway, it's quite strange, and she's hot and cold to her boyfriend. Once it was almost the New Year, this girl began to talk endlessly with her boyfriend on her mobile phone every day, and every night during the holidays was like this, and she herself felt that she couldn't finish talking to her boyfriend. But when she went to school at the beginning of the school year, she didn't have a word with her boyfriend, so it was difficult to communicate.

So her boyfriend was very distressed so he told her about it, and she also knew that she had snubbed her boyfriend and thought that you must talk to him. But the next day it was the same again, and in the end her boyfriend couldn't stand it anymore and broke up.

It's not terrible for couples or couples to quarrel. It's scary to hurt each other. A moderate quarrel.

Not only will it not affect the relationship between the two. Instead, it will enhance the relationship. In fact, sometimes quarrels are also a kind of communication.

If you are usually ashamed to say something, you will say it when you quarrel. At least the other party knows why you are angry. But such quarrels must not come at the cost of name-calling and insults.

That would hurt each other's feelings a lot. Generally, people can endure the trivial things that can't twist chopsticks. Slightly larger questions should also be said calmly.

Don't impose your ideas on the other person. Seek common ground while respecting differences. Each is allowed to keep its own opinion.

Deal with the conflicts and problems of two people and their respective families rationally. There will be a lot less fighting. How to handle the relationship well!

How to avoid a quarrel between people who love each other First of all, reflect on yourself Think about why you are angry, and if a calm exchange of opinions can solve the problem, why bother? Think about the other person When a fight is about to happen, think about putting yourself in the other person's position. You should think about why the other person is unpleasant?

When the flames of war are about to burn out, you might as well retreat and wait for the other party to calm down, and then find out the reasons and exchange opinions, so as to avoid quarrels. When a quarrel between husband and wife inevitably occurs, it is necessary to take matters into account, and never prove yourself right by exposing each other's secrets, or use this to make each other submit. Otherwise, it will intensify contradictions, deepen differences, and hurt feelings.

Don't compare yourself to someone else's husband or wife when you quarrel with each other. That kind of approach will not solve any problems, but will hurt the self-esteem of the other party. Don't involve relatives Husband and wife quarrels are purely their own household affairs, and do not involve other relatives.

Not only will this not be helpful, but it will also make the other person's affection for your relative disappear completely. Don't be judged by outsiders When husband and wife quarrel with each other, don't say what the other party is wrong in front of outsiders, and don't let outsiders judge who is right and who is wrong. This will make the other party feel that they have lost face and will expand the conflict.

Reconcile as soon as possible After a husband and wife quarrel, it is important to reconcile as soon as possible. After a quarrel, no matter who has a reason, you should take the initiative to apologize to the other party.