How do you identify the smart people around you?

When I was a child, the definition of intelligence was to be obedient enough, not to cry or make noise, and to be a good child quietly.

When studying, the definition of intelligence is that the grades are good enough, no matter how crazy you usually are, as long as you can get a good score in the exam, you can attract the envy of everyone.

After that work, the definition of smart has become very broad, no longer like before, there is only a single dimension, some people say that they can make money is smart people, some people say that they are very philosophical people who are smart people, and some people say that the old slippery head who is very proficient in human affairs is a smart person ......Different people have diametrically opposed definitions of smart, and with the factors of the times, it is very likely that what seemed like a smart decision at the time may not be the right one later

At the beginning of the 21st century, "smart international students" went abroad to study and pan for gold, while the stupid graduates of the turtle went to the BAT, and after a few years, the BAT went public, and those turtle graduates became winners in life, so who do you think is smarter in the end?

However, although it is difficult to define smart, it is still possible to distinguish the smart people around you to a greater extent from some clues:

1.Smart people care about facts, not right and wrong.

Some people discuss issues not with the facts, but with whether they can prove themselves right. Even if he is very wrong, he still persists and stubbornly argues that he is right.

And smart people don't, what they care about is the facts, and they bravely admit their mistakes without delay.

2.Smart people are humble enough to learn from those around them.

Some people have some talents, will become arrogant, no one in their eyes, in fact, the capable as a teacher, everyone has their own place to learn, if too arrogant, like wearing a pair of colored glasses, can not see things clearly.

In a general sense, in addition to dividing people by gender, we will also divide people according to their intelligence.

Many people will divide a person from the appearance of whether they are smart, the appearance is relatively dull, and those who do not like to talk are easy to leave a stupid influence on others, on the contrary, those who can speak well will naturally be divided into smart people, at least high emotional intelligence. <>

Actually, I don't quite understand what kind of person the so-called smart means, the type of scholar, and the IQ is too high? I can still speak well. Someone with high enough emotional intelligence?

In my opinion, a smart person needs to have at least the following conditions:

First: have his own independent thinking ability, and will not easily change his opinions because of the public's thoughts, because this shows that he will use his brain, rather than blindly obeying others.

Second: there is no need to talk too much nonsense. Strong initiative and self-control. It's not that he doesn't talk to other people, it's that he knows what to say and what to do when, and that's what a really smart person is.

In fact, whether a person is smart is to consider many aspects comprehensively, and cannot draw conclusions because of one aspect.

There is a saying that "dogs that bite people don't bark", and those smart people in life are like those "dogs" in the animal world who don't bark, silently watching things from the sidelines, and only when the right time does they really do it.

In fact, if you are new to a person, if that person is enthusiastic and open-mouthed, you can first judge him as "generally smart".

And when you meet him, he speaks in an orderly manner, and his words are just right, and he gives people a very comfortable feeling when he gets along with him, you can basically put him in the category of "smart people". And the smart people in my mind are the top students, especially those who are super good at math.

Fools never admit that they are stupid, just like smart people don't really say they're smart, and I like people to compliment me on being smart.

Maybe it's not very smart, I can accept others calling me black and ugly, but I don't allow others to say I'm stupid and fat, if anyone wants to call me together with these two things, then I will become a grudge-holding villain, at least I have to ignore him for a day.

People with a strong sense of curiosity

To be curious is to keep an inquisitive mind. People with strong curiosity generally have strong thinking skills, people who are curious about things around them have a higher chance of socializing, and meeting people with similar interests will have more emotions in life.

Thoughtful, non-conformist, likes to be alone

Being assertive is also a great characteristic of smart people. They never change their firm minds because of gossip, and they also have their own specific brain risk control system. People who are alone pay more attention to their own hearts, and being able to get along with themselves is a real art.

Good at observation, cherish words like gold

People who are good at observation are more able to make objective and rational understanding and analysis of things. Observation is a strong cognitive ability that manifests itself in verbal perception rather than emotion itself. We often say that the big guy always speaks last, and he is always concise and to the point.

It is also due to this reason. Smart people will analyze and judge problems more rationally, and will not be in a hurry to say something that is not perfect when others have just expressed a few words.

Strong affinity, flat personality

Smart people don't put too much thought into chores, understand the importance of being in the world, and know how to maintain the relationship between colleagues and neighbors. They don't exaggerate, they don't show off, most of them have low-key personalities, and they know how to sympathize with people of the same kind. Really smart people regulate their emotions and know when it's time to control their temper.

They also have a very flat view of things like money and fame. knows how to lose, but also can enjoy ordinary happiness in the ordinary.

There is a sense of boundaries

A sense of boundaries means that in interpersonal relationships, individuals are well aware of the scope of their responsibilities and powers and those of others, and protect their own personal space from being violated and not encroaching on the personal space of others. Having a sense of boundaries is a good cultivation that will make others feel extremely comfortable.

Have a plan for life and know what you want

A planned life is life, and a life without a plan can only be called living. A person who knows himself well enough is very aware of his goals and directions in life, and this kind of person can be regarded as living a clear life. He will not be stopped by trivial matters and immediate troubles, because if a person knows where to go, the whole world will make way for him!

Great wisdom is foolishness

Small wisdom is not smart, big wisdom is. They are willing to suffer a small loss in life in exchange for some peace. Generally, the performance of wise and foolish people in life is to make themselves appear less intelligent at all times, never self-righteous, have principles in life, and always have a sense of tranquility and far-reaching.

Smart people listen more and talk less, and are good at thinking. As the saying goes: "If you say too much, you will lose", a smart person often speaks less, and listens to others more, so that he can use everyone's opinions, after some thinking and judgment, and then summarize and screen out more correct experience and conclusions.

The advantage of this is that you seem to be respectful of others, and you can get a lot of information from others to inform your own thinking.

Smart people are quick-witted, curious and competitive. Bright people have a very flexible mind and are quick to respond to things and problems, which is what is often said to be a quick brain, and they are more curious and competitive. Especially for more complex new things, smart people will be very interested, and can recognize and use in a relatively short period of time, compared to ordinary people, slightly higher, as people say, IQ and EQ are relatively high.

Smart people are low-key and high-profile. Generally speaking, smart people are more low-key and unassuming, but when they do things, they will be more high-profile. In fact, this is the cleverness, because being a low-key person can give people a good impression of a humble gentleman, and doing things in a high-profile manner can make people see more of his achievements and achievements, so as to fully affirm his talents and merits.

Wise people are hidden and self-aware. As the saying goes, "real people don't show their likeness, they don't show their real people", as the so-called great wisdom is foolish, really smart people are easy not to show on the surface, but to show their intelligence when necessary, and most of the smart people are self-aware and self-aware, and can do good things, he will take the lead and charge into battle, if he can't do or do bad things, he will never go to the strong and lose face.

The essence of intelligence is to be aware of things and to accurately recognize and grasp the connections between things.

It encompasses five aspects: curiosity, responsiveness, insight, fine reasoning, and open innovation.

01 Curiosity.

Curious people are interested in the things around them, have a strong desire to learn, and like to analyze, generalize, and summarize.

Be curious about the causes and laws behind the phenomenon.

If a person doesn't even have curiosity, doesn't bother to think at all, or is superficial and superficial, I'm afraid it's hard to be considered a smart person.

How do you assess a person's curiosity?

See if he likes to be exposed to new things or new challenges.

See if he likes abstract concepts or analyzes the reasons behind things.

See if he has the courage to take risks and try new methods and ideas.

Or to put it simply: just look at his usual time spent on **, entertainment stars who watch soap operas every day generally lack rational thinking and analysis skills, and their curiosity is probably TV series and idols.

It's not that it's black, but I've found that many little girls who haven't gone to school since graduating from junior high school really like TFBOY.

It's not that if you like tfboy, it's okay, but, brainless fans, crazy star chasing to seriously affect life, a monthly salary of 3,000, and spending 3,000 to buy 380 fake tickets, I think it's still a bit stupid.

02Responsive.

Whether you are willing to think or not is one thing, and whether you can react quickly when you think is another.

This can be roughly deduced from getting along with each other.

How does he react to some problems and tasks, whether he can't find ideas and methods for a long time, or can he react relatively quickly and form some solutions, steps or solutions.

Especially for some general problems, there is not much professional knowledge or technical threshold, and it is most difficult to see the speed of a person's thinking and the agility of his reaction.

Responsive people are able to:

Learn and understand new or complex things quickly.

Able to perform logical analysis and reasoning quickly.

03 Insight.

Some people like to think about problems, but they are all thinking about it, and they can't figure out the logic and the key.

I can't grasp the key to analyzing problems, I can't properly arrange and arrange things, and I am like a headless fly in slightly more complicated things or tasks, and I am constantly busy.

If you want to learn, but you can't always grasp the essentials of learning, take a certificate today and participate in a training, in the end, most of it is not of much use.

Perceptive people:

Accurately analyze, define and judge things or tasks.

Good at refining and summarizing new experience.

A wise man has a wide eye, a wide heart. Smart people are more calm, or they are more mature and stable when they do things, and they can manage relationships with the people around them, so they are more powerful. The interpersonal language skills are very strong, the mind is flexible, and the aura is strong.

How to recognize the intelligence of the people around you? Smart people are very self-disciplined, and they think about the cause and effect of everything they do, and they have a high degree of tacit understanding with each other. Do things generously and decently.

How to recognize the intelligence of the people around you? Smart people are very self-disciplined, and they think about the cause and effect of everything they do, and they have a high degree of tacit understanding with each other. Do things generously and decently.

If you want to distinguish whether the people around you are smart, you can see from their usual work, ability to do things, speech, and conduct in the world, the more capable people are, the smarter they are. How do you discern the wise? First of all, we have to know what kind of person is smart and what the standard is.

I think a person is very smart, which is what everyone often says is a person who is very "capable". However, the understanding of smart people is also "the benevolent see the benevolent, and the wise see the wise". In general, it is a clear mind, quick thinking, knowledge and wisdom, and strong ability to deal with things.

Specifically, it means that the brain is fast, the memory is good, the work efficiency is high, and the vision and foresight are high. Speak in a measured manner and do things in a measured manner. But how do you identify such a person?

This requires careful observation of each person from the daily life and work around you and discovers from it. Approximately from the following points: 1- Distinguish from the language:

A wise man does not generally speak much, and generally does not talk exaggerated (except for orators), but in a word. They are generally very humble and wise. Don't be clever.

There will be no jealousy. Two: Braiding from the style of conduct:

Smart people are assertive. Careful, bold, steady and thoughtful, when it is time to shoot. Three:

Smart people are informal, start big and think small, and pay attention to results. Four: Smart people have high IQ and emotional intelligence, good self-control, self-harmony, do not do too out-of-the-ordinary things, and have good interpersonal relationships.

Smart people never talk much, they only show their abilities with actions, because they understand that no matter how much they say, it is not as important as doing something, so smart people never boast. Smart people can be seen by their speech and demeanor. It can be seen from how they handle things.

Some smart people are good at talking, speaking with a clear mind and quick thinking. Some smart people don't say much, but at critical moments, they are rational and brave. There are a lot of smart people around, each with their own characteristics.

I admire them very much.