The older we get, the more confused we become, how can we counterattack?

I've heard a saying before, saying that there is no time to be quiet, but someone carries the weight for you. In the past, when we were young, our parents or relatives carried those weights for us, and we could see the world without pressure. As we grow older, our parents may no longer be able to take on all the pressure for us.

We are also more and more exposed to the bad side of this society, and we have begun to face the old and the young, and it is our turn to carry the weight forward, but we find that we are so small and our ability is not outstanding. And so we began to be miserable and confused. But does it work?

If you don't change him, the days will still be the same? What to do? Simple, be your best self!

Set yourself a goal and work towards it, and when you do your best to achieve it, you will find that you have no time to be miserable and confused!

To put it simply, this kind of pressure, this kind of confusion, belongs to heart disease. Heart disease still needs heart to be treated! We should read more books, read more newspapers, have more heart-to-heart conversations with relatives and friends, take a correct view of the problems we face, establish a correct outlook on life, strengthen physical exercise, and be strong.

Self-confidence, self-reliance, self-improvement. Be content and happy, face difficulties, put the pursuit smaller, and do things well. There is no knot that cannot be untied, and there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome.

In this way, we can get out of the confusion!

The older you get, the more people you meet and the more things you experience. I used to feel simple, kind, hard-working, and beautiful to treat everyone, and at that time I felt hopeful! When you grow up little by little, go through the society, go through all kinds of jobs, face all kinds of people, and then you have to do all kinds of things!

Sometimes you wonder what you thought at the beginning, and you feel that no matter how you do it, you can't be perfect! It doesn't matter, life is like that, you always have to face a lot of things, come on, try to adapt! It's good to be strong yourself.

Adapt to the environment, see or feel uncomfortable people and things, don't take it to heart, don't take it too seriously, and get by. As long as it doesn't get in the way, don't care. At the same time, on the road of your own growth, find things that are as suitable for you as possible to do, and let yourself like to be happy to fill your conscious behavior.

Lost because there is no purpose in life. Set a goal for your life, and have a short-term goal every year, such as how much money you want to earn this year, and grow each year compared to the previous year. Don't be too easy to target.

Explanation is a good thing, you are going uphill, look away, want to lighten up, find a few books to read, although reading books can not help you bring wealth, but it can definitely improve your ideological level.

1.Position yourself: According to your interests and hobbies and areas of expertise, clarify your own positioning and find your own direction. Cover annihilation.

2.Set goals: Set an achievable goal based on self-positioning, and break it down into specific small goals to achieve them gradually.

3.Study planning: Plan your own learning, understand the knowledge and skills you need to learn, clarify your learning goals, and make a reasonable learning plan.

4.Participate in activities: Participate in various activities, expand your social circle, increase your social experience, and improve your overall quality.

5.Learn self-discipline: develop good living habits, regular work and rest, insist on exercise, learn time management, and arrange time reasonably.

6.Ask for help: If you are feeling lost or struggling, you can seek help from teachers, counsellors, parents or classmates who can give you some advice and guidance.

In short, to get rid of confusion, you need to make a plan, determine your goals, take positive actions, constantly adjust your mentality and behavior, believe in yourself, and work tirelessly, you will definitely be able to find your own direction and realize your dreams.

As a freshman, you may face a lot of new challenges and confusions, but don't worry, it's normal. Here are some tips to help you get out of the rut and adjust to university life:

1.Set goals: First, you need to be clear about your academic and career goals. Learn about your major, think about what you want to do in the future, and create a plan to achieve your goals.

2.Establish good study habits: College courses are different from high school, and you need to learn self-discipline and self-management. Make sure to schedule a certain amount of time each day to study and develop good study habits.

3.Join clubs and organizations: Joining clubs and organizations with similar interests can allow you to meet new people, expand your relationships, and enrich your life outside of school.

4.Building relationships: Learn to communicate with others and build friendships. In college, you will meet people from different backgrounds and try to get to know them and share each other's stories and experiences.

5.Ask for help: Don't be afraid to ask for help when you have a problem. There are many resources in the university, such as mentors, counselors, seniors, etc., who are all happy to help you solve your problems.

6.Learn to balance: College life is not just about studying, but also about learning to balance all aspects of studying, socializing, hobbies, and more. Arrange your time wisely and maintain your physical and mental health.

7.Stay positive and optimistic: Maintain a positive and optimistic mindset in the face of difficulties and challenges. Believe in yourself and face Qi Xun bravely, and you will find that university life is full of fun and opportunities.

8.Have the courage to try new things: College is a great time to explore and try new things. Try out different courses, internships, volunteer activities, etc., to broaden your horizons and prepare yourself for future development.

9.Self-reflection and growth: Regularly conduct self-reflection, think about your strengths and weaknesses, and strive to improve yourself. Learn to learn from your mistakes and become a better person.

10.Enjoy college life: Finally, don't forget to enjoy college life. University life is a precious time to enjoy this rare experience, make friends and enrich your life.

It's normal, it's been the last month, but it's even more difficult ......

This is the case with a lot of things, and it often falls short at the last minute. At first I always thought it was a headache. I would now like to share with you a sentence that I saw, which was said by Yang Liwei, in a book he published, which reads:

When something gets to the point where you can't stick to it, it's often close to success.

Compared with the college entrance examination, I think it is much more difficult, the college entrance examination is more about fighting with difficult problems, everything is arranged by the teacher, but the graduate school entrance examination is to fight with yourself, everything depends on yourself. It was a lonely trek. So keep at it, and it's almost a success.

As for the interest you mentioned, I think you can put it aside for the time being, I just saw a news "Doctoral students of the Chinese Academy of Sciences give up scientific research and become a middle school mathematics teacher", you can search for this news, I think it should be enlightening: the question of interest will not be too late to be raised when you have the ability in the future. And maybe you don't know which direction you want to go in the future of the major you are applying for, you just don't like it when you review, but review is boring, and application is the most colorful.

As for your current situation, it is recommended to reduce the intensity of revision a little, rest more, relax more, do some things that you plan to do after the graduate school entrance examination, adjust it for about a week, and then make up for the missed progress later.

I'm too sleepy, I don't want to say too much, I stick to the graduate school entrance examination, whether it's economics or law, it's a good major, I have a stable job after graduation, and then standardize my values, *** I also love to draw but I have to fight. That's all there is to it.

This year, I am twenty-seven or eighteen, with a salary that is less than the upper and lower than the bottom, and I live a quiet life, after a long time, I really think that I don't need a man anymore, and I am too good, but when I see him, there are still ripples in my heart.

He was still as handsome and excellent as he had been seven years ago.

He sat on the edge of the bed, the computer in front of him was open, the coffee in his hand had bottomed out, I knew that he was better than seven years ago, but this excellent person had nothing to do with me, it should be said, it never mattered.

I still remember seven years ago, I confessed to him, I actually said, with you, I will work harder to program, become a programming witch, he looked at me, couldn't help laughing, why are you a junior or so naïve, programming is not appropriate.

Just a few words, euphemistically rejected me, I knew it wouldn't work, I wanted to know my heart before he graduated and left.

Seven years ago, he was an excellent senior, a handsome senior, a hard-working senior, it is precisely because I met such a person that I can have my current achievements, it is by relying on his admiration that I have insisted on coming to this point, a bit like the little thing of first love, there is such a person who will always inspire you.

He took a break from work, his head twisted to the traffic outside the window, and when I saw him again, I didn't bother him, I knew that I was still not as good as him, even if I was better than him, but it still had nothing to do with love.

So thank you for his appearance, which did not give me love and gave me the direction and motivation to struggle.

I messaged my best girlfriend and I saw him and he was still so handsome.

My best friend was about to sigh, thinking that I was determined to hang myself on a tree, but I didn't expect me to say that I was finally no longer stubborn, I could look forward, after so many years, what I wanted was to see this side again.

I waited until I was twenty-seven or eight, and I could finally wait for my love, and even though I was twenty-seven or eighteen, I still wanted to wait for my love.

<> first met Liu Tong through watching the popular show "Job-to-Job". In the show, Liu Tong looks delicate, thinks quickly, and talks properly. At a young age, he became the vice president of Guangguang Media, what kind of ability did he rely on to make such a young man stand out and appear on the talent stage to recruit talents for the company.

So, "Whose Youth Is Not Confused", "Your Loneliness, Although Defeated", and "Towards the Light", as soon as they were published, I immediately started and read them all night. I have to say that the years that my brother experienced after graduating from college are exactly the period of confusion that young people are experiencing.

After reading these works, what I want to recommend to current college students the most is the book "Whose Youth Is Not Confused".

It tells the story of Liu Tong, a young man who graduated from college, who successfully counterattacked through ten years, dedicated to those who are in trouble, looking forward to getting out of the trough, and restless.

Liu Tong used his own experience and his own efforts to tell everyone: everyone has the confusion of adolescence, and people in the confused period can only face the reality, recognize themselves, and continue to struggle, and have the opportunity to counterattack. Liu Tong's past ten years have symbolically embodied a period of confusion and hesitation that young people must go through.

Liu Tong said: "It's right to feel lonely, it's right to feel confused, whose youth is not confused?."Therefore, young people should not be afraid of the thorny road ahead, but think about not hitting the south wall and not looking back, and go all out.

When we look back, we will find that in our youth, there are tears, sweat, joy, chagrin, and pain, but we do not regret it, every step in our youth is very thick, every heavy rain in our youth is very magnificent, and every face in our youth is the most lovely.

Thanks to Liu Tong, thank you for "Whose Youth is Not Confused", for taking me out of those hesitant years.