Why is it always my fault that I treat my friends with my heart?

Everyone's measure of things is different, what you think is right others may not think is right, you should understand the communication skills, the lack of skills in communication may make your sincerity become a burden to others. Why do you say it's always your fault, this fault has different understandings in different situations, I can only say try to be yourself, don't live in someone else's world, everyone has their own position, there is no clear right and wrong. Hope it helps.

Because others are jealous of you. Smile at everyone around you every day, and I'm sure there will always be someone who will smile at you too.

Because the mind is the individual, that's why the world is not universal.

Everybody has their own thoughts, and you can actually talk to them honestly, and you may not get the answer, but you will realize that there are many kinds of friends, and true friends are what we want.

The more you work hard, the more you hurt, you have to see, if you are a true friend, then you have to be attentive, if the other party doesn't care about you, then leave.

If you feel worthy of your heart, it's good! After all, there is no strict right or wrong in this world!

It means that your friend ignores you.

Let time prove your sincerity.

You think you will get the same reward for your efforts, and your friend upstairs is right, as long as you are sincere, you will be rewarded.

I've also tried, empathy hemp!

Maybe it'll be fine after a while, after all, you're friends.

That girl is so disgusting. Maybe you can solve this problem by making friends with her and communicating with her.

Or as the old saying goes, time can solve everything ... I really can't stand the gossip and go out for a walk, it's good if I can't hear it... As for what others think of you, it's really a good idea.

Don't be too accommodating to be friends. Tell her that some jokes are okay and some are not. You can think of him. Why can't he miss you. That's why you get angry.

Everyone in the world is different, and everyone has their own way of dealing with problems.

I'm sticking with you. Personally, I think it's difficult to have sincere communication with girls.

Silence should be the most convincing. A wise man knows who a gentleman is at a glance.

Hehe, this is a very normal problem, no one in the world can please everyone, you just need to let the people you care about and like you understand you, in fact, when you go backwards, you will find how naïve these problems will seem in the future I just experienced it, so give you a suggestion, vent it, and then ignore him, of course, if he continues, the appropriate counterattack is due, because this society is strong, the last word, not to mention who will rely on whom in the future, why should I always be the one who is angry.

Learn to let go, don't think about it so much.

If you think about the problem from the perspective of others, then many contradictions can be resolved.

It's normal to joke about things, there's no need to be so angry, and you don't need to be silent and there's nothing wrong with that. Go your own way and let others do the talking.

I'm faint, she probably hates you, a girl, if you hate a boy, it's not easy to handleYou take the initiative to admit your mistake

Girl, too, is very face-saving.

In fact, no matter what age group people are, they may "quarrel" when they joke between friends, which is the so-called "raising the bar". Especially when it comes to the topic of "taste and personal cultivation", everyone will be different, and you must know it. And everyone is young, and they also want what they appreciate to be approved by others to show their vision.

So, he doesn't care what you care about; You don't care about what he cares, and this is where the contradiction arises.

For 16 and 17 students, conflicts with each other usually choose to be distant and cold to each other. Because at this time, everyone understands that there is no point in arguing, but it is not broad enough to communicate. In my own opinion, not explaining or arguing with him is that I am "generous and pure", but perhaps the other party who is angry will think that this is your contempt or even contempt.

As a result, perhaps a small misunderstanding will slowly grow into an uncontrollable situation.

Once you've adjusted your mindset (making sure you don't get irritated by a word or two), you can ask him to talk to him alone (or a text message, or this note). Tell him that the initial unhappiness between you is just a personal difference in position, and there is no need to develop into this. And expressed the hope that he would not spread some of the more personal information between you.

If the other party is nervous, you can also make it clear whether your chat is suitable for external publicity).

If his condition does not improve after your explanation, then congratulations. You've eliminated a person who doesn't fit the right friend. And make your own explanations that are clear but not insulting (to your classmates).

A woman's mouth is already broken, seven aunts and eight aunts, you see that they are all women, right? You too, you said you were joking, if she posted a lot of sour foreign old eight shares, you would be direct"Throw in the towel"Back to one:"Forehead!

Eldest sister, I was sour by your words and fell to the ground. Throw in the towel. "Got it, and I replied to one seriously, and the reply was so sour, and I quenched my thirst with sour Then you ignore others, the other party must think that you are careful and can't afford to joke or something, but since she uses it"Not urbane"scolded you, anyway, she is no better, you are so silent and silent, your friends are all alienated from you, and she has fooled you away.

If you are angry, you will say it, and you will ignore each other in your heart, we call it this"Cold violence".It's easy to solve anything by saying it, you call her out, or you are embarrassed to write a note: Sister, I'll be honest!

Two days ago, what did you say to my brother and I was depressed, what is this, I can't eat every day, I can't speak, comfort and comfort me! Be careful not to be so sour this time! It's over!

You're joking too much, it's hurting all of you! What's the big deal, if you can't accept it, change the environment or talk to someone else.

Your fault, I hate this kind of person the most...

It's just that she's really angry, don't take it too seriously, you're right, silence is the best reply to slander!

Treat hypocritical people, you can be friendly on the surface, as long as you draw a clear line in your heart...

Always know which people can be your friends and which ones are just your playmates, and you don't have to make deep friendships and waste time with your playmates.

Be honest with your friends, but be gentle and gentle.

I feel the same way you do sometimes, but I still have like-minded friends. It's just that I may be rejecting something, in fact, don't care too much, sometimes you don't pay attention to something, but someone appreciates you, hehe. My QQ is 369917054; If you're interested in making friends with me, just add me.

The most important thing between friends is sincerity, you are sincere to others, others will be sincere to you, don't have too high requirements for friends, as for intimate friends, it is possible to meet but not seek, you have to open your heart, work hard to pay, the world is so big, if there is really no one to be friends with you, it can only mean that it is your personal problem, change.

Sincerity is enough, and friends who are worthy of deep friendship must also be sincere, but there will always be people who make you feel cold, and it's good to think about it more if you don't have to think about it, and you can't be too careful.

Some people can consider being friends with them if they just say beautiful things on some occasions, but life is not like that. But if the other party is scheming, even if you deliberately cater to it, it is only you who suffers. I think it's better to keep your own ideas, be simple, treat people sincerely, and meet like-minded true friends.

Your situation is very similar to mine! You don't need to pay so much attention to the classmates you think are hypocritical, when they need help, they will naturally come to you, but you can help, but afterwards you have to see how you feel after helping him, if you think you are worth helping him, that is the friend you should make.

As long as you are sincere to others, don't care about others... You just have to be right

The principle of getting along well is to take care of yourself first, consider your own interests first, and then take care of your friends within the scope of your ability. That way, you don't have to think about what happened to your friends. This is also the law of the jungle.

It's important to make friends with sincerity, don't go with a utilitarian mentality.

Treat everyone with a sincere heart, different

There are only two moods to face, one is sympathy, immediately pick up your friend, ask for care in detail; And the second is that it feels very humiliating, and our friends fall down in front of many of us and feel like they have smeared their faces. Personally, I think the first is normal, while the second is not adopted.

If I encounter this situation, pretend not to see it and keep walking. Pay attention to him "her" for a few seconds, if you can't get up, go to help, care, if the relationship is very good, it is also necessary to ridicule and ridicule, if you can get up, forget it,,, avoid the embarrassment of him "her", such a shameful thing,,, it is good not to know,

Of course, I'm in a hurry, since we can go shopping together, we must be better friends, friends who fall down may make fun of him, but whether he is injured or not in a hurry must account for a large proportion.

If a passerby falls, pay more attention to the road under your feet, because it has nothing to do with you. If your friend falls, reach out and help him up.

It's a friend! What kind of mood can you face it, of course, it is to help you up, and if you have a good relationship, you can damage each other, divert attention, and relieve embarrassment! If the relationship is average, you can only help pat, and say it's okay.

It depends on the type of personality of the wrestling friend, the extroverted kind who is big grinning and he won't be too embarrassed himself, I will pick him up and ask him if he is injured. The introvert must have felt embarrassed, so I'll pick him up (without being too concerned) and get out of here, talk to him about topics of interest to him, and ask him if he's hurt during the conversation.

If it's a small fall, laugh, if you fall hard, you must care, don't let your friends delay the injury because of face problems.

You said that if you accidentally fall, if you are a good friend, you will definitely be depressed him!Break his material in front of his good friends

If it's a normal friend, you'll have to pick him up and say be careful, don't fall or something.

Worry about whether he or she has fallen, whether it hurts, quickly pick it up and ask how it is, let me see where it has fallen, if it is okay, I will say: "It's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it doesn't hurt" or something like that, if it hurts, you have to deal with it well.

Since we are friends, I must first help him up, and then care for him, I will tell him that it is not a big deal to fall, as long as he can stand up

With a smile, put your hand back to him or her, and talk and laugh. Everyone was smiling, not embarrassed by such a trivial matter.

Of course, I was in a hurry, and then I went to help him up, and asked my friends if they were hurt or something, and of course it was your close friend who could go shopping with you.

Normally, help him up and ask if there is anything wrong, if it is serious, find a place to rest or go to the hospital to see, if it is not serious, comfort him, and then continue shopping.

Said what do you want in a mocking tone, and then immediately cared about helping him, I think simply avoiding this embarrassing thing will make him feel uncomfortable, it's better to say it yourself, and then he won't be embarrassed, and then take care of it, even if this matter is completely over.

I will help her up with a very distressed heart.

What is it going to look like, of course, is based on care and comfort, with surprise and sympathy as the criterion, support, and comfort.

The landlord, innocent and cute! Choose me!

First of all, it depends on what kind of personality your friend is, and different personalities have different ways of coping. For example, if he's an optimist, you can jokingly show your concern: "You're so handsome at wrestling!"

If he's a cold-faced guy who can't joke about it, you have to show that you care seriously. Otherwise, it will make him feel very shameless! ~

Look at the friendship Generally, I will help him up and comfort him Very good, uh, just laugh at you But the premise is that the fall is not heavy.

You don't need to be in the mood, just help yourself up and see if you've been injured. If it's a dead friend. If you are a girlfriend, you can tease him by the way, and his attention is not so painful. Forget the ordinary ones, so as not to misunderstand and make mistakes.

Help her up first, then take out a tissue, wipe her clean, then help her sit on the nearest stool to rest, and when she is calm, continue shopping, and send her home if she doesn't want to go shopping.

If we were good friends, we would definitely look at each other and laugh! Then I'll crouch on the ground and laugh with him and help him up!