I have been with my boyfriend since I was 17 years old, and I have been in love for more than three

Selfishness is stingy to put it bluntly, why bother to compete with stingy people, I think it has to be dealt with in the opposite way, for example, he loves to eat chicken legs, usually afraid that you and him will rob, always avoid you to eat secretly, but you now have to play a selfless and generous role, in order to make his stinginess and you seem insignificant compared to you, you just buy him a dozen or twenty chicken feet at one time and invite him to eat, in order to show your generosity and his stinginess compared to his selfishness is shameful to the point of no ambition, you should hide your selfishness, Let him be ashamed! The uncles have dignity and face, and this trick is absolutely tried.

Everyone is not perfect, they all have their own personality, they all want to change each other, but no one can change selfishness, everyone has it, but the degree is not acceptable, if you are too selfish, the same is true for your parents, you have to think about it, three years of relationship, and your next life is more important than that If it is just some small disputes, you need to understand each other and tolerate After all, people are not sages, everyone has their own faults, you have also been running in for a long time, you should know each other's character, so if the big aspect is good, choose to accept If you can't, you have to give up.

The best way to love someone is to respect him as an independent individual, and to treat him as his dearest relatives and feel sorry for him. There are things in the world that you can't control, so leave them alone and let it be.

Although it is a little noisy and pleasant, it always hurts to have more. As long as his selfishness is not so difficult to accept, then try to accept it with an inclusive heart.

Everybody is selfish and selfish, so it's impossible for him to listen to you 100%, not just him, it's impossible for any man.

Well said upstairs, you need to be accommodating.

Don't ask him to change for you, it's useless, no one wants to be controlled, especially people like you in your early 20s.

It is recommended not to always find fault with the other party, reduce contradictions, and enhance feelings, he is not good, I think he has his own understanding, and he will change himself without saying it.

He is selfish, you can tolerate him, a person has a person's temper and character, so many lovers fall in love in different ways, and it means that you have a fate, who is not noisy in love, let him be good little by little.

You say he's selfish, and judging from what you've said, you're a little selfish too. Have you ever thought about it, do you love each other? If you love, you have to learn to be tolerant.

If we live together, we have to understand and understand each other. Trivial things can be passed, don't be so serious, too serious is not good for anyone.

Cherish it, don't wait until you lose it to understand how important he is? It is not easy for two people who love each other, and they must learn to tolerate in the process of running-in! If love, what else can defeat you?

If love is nothing to worry about you! You might as well talk more about your heart, if there is no barrier, your heart will be close! Finally, I wish you all happiness in your journey!

Everybody is selfish, and you think he's good to you, and you're good to him, isn't that selfish? I want to let others pay first, and then I will pay the same amount myself, but this is normal, just treat it with a normal heart.

There is no perfect person, and there is no perfect love. If they are all imperfect, why continue to pursue perfection?

When I was in love with my husband, I also had a lot of problems, but now that I'm married, it's also good, I don't have to be too perfect, and I ignore it occasionally. Be lenient with yourself and the other person.

Everyone is equally selfish, but the main thing is to understand it?

Understanding each other and tolerating each other's shortcomings should be able to change the status quo.

are not mature enough, not understanding love enough.

Both learn to be tolerant and understanding of the other.

No matter who you are with in the future, tolerance and understanding are indispensable keys to a happy family.

Separate for a while, both parties calm down, and then decide whether the other is suitable.

Your question is not a problem, she is selfish because she is calling you ...

Being selfish doesn't really love you.

Summary. Hello, it can be seen that he just wants you to be his sister, he wants to take care of you like a sister, take care of you, and doesn't want to have things with you for both men and women.

I was 17 years old, and the guy was 19 years old, and then he talked to me about Biggie Love for a few days, and then he said to me that Yu did not have that kind of remorse as a couple, but he liked me as a sister, and he said that he just wanted to find someone he liked to fall in love with and marry.

Hello, it can be seen that he just wants you to be his sister, he wants to take care of you like a sister, take care of you, and doesn't want to have things with you for both men and women.

But I like to rely on him a lot.

You can rely on him as much as a sister depends on her brother.

It doesn't affect your relationship.

Someday he'll have a girlfriend and he'll ignore me.

But I still want to keep him with me, and I want to chase him again when I grow up, but by then he might have a marriage partner.

Then what you should do now is to strive to become better, better than your current self, so that he can see your charm and value, and there will be a possibility of reversal and solution.

If I try to get better, I may not be able to talk to him.

Men have to reach the legal age of 22 years old, that is, three years, as long as they are not married, they have a great chance.

I believe it can, it is possible.

Because the foundation of your relationship is now.

And he wants to love you like a sister, but it's not up to the standard of being a girlfriend.

As long as you work hard to become better and better, let him see your charm and value, then there is a great possibility to be with him.

And you're 17 years old, he's 19 years old, and you've both just reached the legal age of marriage for three years.

But by the day I grew up, he was married.

Then it depends on your ability, you are his sister now, if you make him think you are good enough, then he will not have a marriage partner.

So how do I become his ideal object?

Summary. If that's the case, then I think you'd better let it go, because the boys have said that, and they must have already made up their minds.

I was 17 years old, and the guy was 19 years old, and then he talked to me about Biggie Love for a few days, and then he said to me that Yu did not have that kind of remorse as a couple, but he liked me as a sister, and he said that he just wanted to find someone he liked to fall in love with and marry.

If that's the case, see if he has made some frivolous moves towards you, if he has done everything back and done it, then he should be a scumbag, if nothing has happened to you yet, just together, and then he finds out that you are not suitable, so frankly tell you, then I think it is understandable.

Just just together and not seeing each other.

Then it doesn't matter, you'll always meet someone who suits you.

Hug you, don't be too sad.

But I like him very much.

What to do. Then you should talk to him well, tell him your thoughts, and see if there is any possibility of recovery.

You can ask, what type of girl does he like?

He said that he just liked my sister and didn't feel that way, so it would be better for everyone to end up early with me.

If that's the case, then I think you'd better let it go, because the boys have said that, and they must have already made up their minds.

But I still like him and can't let it go.

Then you might as well turn your attention and follow your own heart, it's really not okay to entangle.

Then you might as well turn your attention and follow your own heart, it really can't work, and it will always pass if you entangle.

But if he has a girlfriend one day, I'm even sadder.

You also have to face the reality, you always need a truth, in fact, sadness is inevitable, only talking about limb rocks is just a moment, but in this way, you can better protect yourself.

Well, it's a little smaller, so let's keep the relationship for a few years.

It's true that you're not at your age good for a relationship, and I mean it's not good for you just because it's not okay. When you are young, you are immature and easy to do radical things, and you are inevitably affected by some social atmospheres. Especially when the relationship between the two is deep, it is inevitable that they can't control it, and having sex will have a variety of results, which will be unfavorable to the girl.

Contraception, contraceptive failure to get pregnant, after pregnancy**, ** sequelae infertility. In addition, there is no such thing as you have to pay your feelings, if the two people are not in harmony, they often quarrel, and the pain of grading will follow, affecting their studies and affecting the future, if you are a beautiful girl, you don't have to worry about not finding a partner, when you are admitted to college, there are handsome guys in college. I suggest that you study hard, don't learn this and that, and see that your classmates around you are talking.

Let's talk about it when I get admitted to university.

After finishing school, find a good job and talk about it, every parent's heart is like this, I am also the ancestor of people, my son listened to me, he was filling in the university voluntarily listened to my report to the Beijing Post, after graduation to stay in Beijing to work in the fire department, in Beijing I had a girlfriend to get married and have children, and my son also participated in the work in the United States, he listened to me and his reference, which one is a father who does not love his children, I hope you listen to your parents, I also set an example for your reference, I hope to get a little effect?

Deal with it as low-key as possible, because you are indeed very small, have little social experience, shallow experience, and are easy to misjudge. Parents are all from the past and are your closest relatives, so it is good to listen to their opinions. I wish you happiness and happiness in the future!!

Get on the bus first and then buy a ticket, plant the millet early and threh early. Coax both parents to get pregnant, get married first, and it's done. Me too. My wife is only 17 years old and is about to give birth. ^o^。。

It can be spent for a few years, and the feelings of the student period are valuable, but they are basically not long-lasting. You can't get married, so you can enjoy this sweet process, but don't cross the bottom line.

Wait until you are older to talk about it, there are many things that you can't expect now, the reality of society, when the time comes, it will test you, first friends, if you love you, I will wait for you, if I still love you at that time, then talk about it.

It depends on whether the situation between you and your boyfriend will affect your studies, if not, and your boyfriend is good to you, it doesn't hurt to stick to the end, but it's best not to do too much, after all, you are still young!

Let your boyfriend wait for you for a few years, see if he wants to, keep the relationship if he wants, and wait for you to grow up. This is also a test for him. If you don't want to, stay cool.

If it doesn't affect your studies, you won't marry him now anyway; Just bear the pressure, and your parents won't kill you anyway. Anyway, it's okay.

You're too young baby! Do you know what love is? Love is not only the romance of the moon before the flower, but more importantly, it is a kind of responsibility, which is the triviality of firewood, rice, oil and salt....There needs to be certain economic conditions to maintain ......Because you're going to have children!

I'm the same now, and I'm hiding it from them now, but I don't know what to do next, so I can only take one step at a time.

Secretly. Quietly. The premise is that your boyfriend is good to you. Don't be self-motivated, and rub your eyes with bright spots. That's it.

Now be friends first, and then wait for your studies, career, and maturity a little older. Let's see if the relationship between the two people has always been so good.

Hide it first, and you'll be OK when you get to college.

If your relationship is still very good and your family will not object, then you will really start to fall in love.

It's the same with me, my parents don't agree, wait for each other, wait until adulthood, and let my parents know how deep our feelings are.

Love that hasn't gone to society is not love, no matter how good it is now, it's not bullshit after going to society.

At your age, just don't do anything stupid.

You are not deeply involved in the world now, just don't regret it later.

Then go to school first, and then talk seriously when you go to college or graduate, anyway, you're about to graduate, it's okay.

There are too many minors, and if you really enter this society, you will know that falling in love is simply a thing these days.

My boyfriend and I are the same, just like two children, don't care too much, it's not easy for the two of you to come together, don't divide and reconcile, After a long time, the relationship will fade, and he will be at your mercy if he is occasionally spoiled, and my boyfriend and I are like this, you don't have to be at the right time.

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Hello, 1, what a long-distance relationship must do is unconditional trust, since you don't trust her and suspect that she will be dating other men, then why didn't you see it in the first place, then why do you still like a woman who is not loyal enough?

2, you can't stand it, you have broken up, what's wrong with her looking for her lover again, that man may love her more than you and will make her happy, so your girlfriend feels that it is not interesting to be with you;

3, he loves her, and she loves him, so it's normal to buy things for him, you're jealous, haven't you all broken up, what kind of jealousy do you have, you don't cherish her, you don't accompany her, you won't coax her, and always find fault with her, it's normal to not like you;

4, they are already officially in love, don't think about her, cut off contact as soon as possible, there are many good women, and there are many better than him, come on, find a woman who belongs to you, I wish you happiness