Why do the most selfish people end up being the happiest?

There is no fairness in the emotional world. You never show that you have lost your crush, but some people are willing to give everything for each other even if they are in love, but what they get is only a flash in the pan. To be together is fate, and not to be together is to have no fate.

In fact, you are very good now, you can still continue to have a crush on him, no harm will not be rejected, but you have to endure the pain of being ignored. Love is sometimes full of cruelty, but you still have to thank God for letting you meet someone you deserve a crush, who is worthy of your love, whether he knows it or not, whether he is single or not, whether he loves you or not, it does not prevent you from loving him. Keep this beautiful feeling in your heart forever, as long as you have loved, you will not regret it.

Stop resenting that girl, send your blessings to them, and you will be happy when he is happy.

You're a little too aggressive. Maybe it's just that the lover's eyes are out of Xi Shi, you don't take it too seriously, want to open some, you can only say that the boy may not be on you if he doesn't have vision, you will meet a better one than him. Don't overthink it! Will meet your Prince Charming!

If people do not do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed.

<> "How happy it is for girls to live when they are selfish."

1.Have the courage to be hated.

Many times, we have a hard time accepting that others don't like us. Whether it's openly or secretly, I always want to be a person that everyone likes. But this often makes you very tired, and you can't achieve the results you want.

People with a people-pleasing personality are always thinking about how to make others like them. Therefore, I dare not have my own suggestions, let alone refuse the requests of others. Fear of being hated by others, fear of being disliked by others.

However, we have to get used to being disliked by others. Feel at ease to do what you should do and do what you love.

2.Strong heart.

Have a strong heart, not afraid of failure, not afraid of going it alone. In your own world, be your own king.

No matter what kind of interpersonal interaction you are in, the first thing to consider is how you feel.

If you feel comfortable getting along, then it's okay to suffer a little bit. But if you don't feel comfortable getting along, please be bold and brave to leave such a relationship, don't care too much about other people's opinions, and be brave enough to be yourself.

3.Have your own bottom line.

Psychologically defined, when you feel uncomfortable and dissatisfied inside, it means that someone else is already breaking your bottom line.

Be clear about your bottom line, don't blindly tolerate and break principles.

This will not get praise and any praise from others, but will be despised and think that you are a soft persimmon.

4.Accept your shortcomings.

When we see the super-halo side of others, there is an imperfect side behind us that we can't see.

When you accept your own shortcomings from the bottom of your heart, you will suddenly become enlightened, and you will not care about other people's opinions, even if someone maliciously ridicules, as long as you don't care, they can't hurt your heart.

Accept your shortcomings, and you will find that it is really not a big deal, what if no one likes it, and what if you are isolated.

There are always people who are better off than themselves, and there are people who are worse than themselves, and living well is the most important thing.

5.Reject ineffective socializing.

Don't be afraid to say no to so-called friends when you have your own arrangements and plans. Don't change your plans just because you're invited by a friend.

True friends respect your time, and when you do have a bad time, they won't force you to change for them.

True friends don't alienate you because they don't do things together, on the contrary, they use your time as the rule. They will fully respect your wishes.

6.Love yourself before you love others.

You have to understand that there are not so many people in this world who are selling early reeds to you, only you care about yourself the most, so you must learn to be gentle with yourself and pursue things that can bring you small blessings in your life.

We are all well aware of our ordinariness, but we must always know how to love ourselves first.

Only by taking care of everything you bring with you can you meet and play various roles in life in a positive and healthy state.

I don't think you're being particularly selfish, but you're just thinking a little bit more. You are afraid that after the notes you have compiled are used by others, your grades will improve more than yourself. It's understandable, so let's take a look at my experience.

There are many manifestations of selfishness, the most common of which is not caring for others when eating. When I was in my first relationship, when my boyfriend went to dinner with me, he never took care of me, never asked me what I wanted to eat when he ordered, but would gobble it up as soon as he ordered it.

I remember one time I wanted to eat spicy food, but the other party felt that I couldn't eat spicy food, I wanted to put some chili peppers on my own, and the other party thought I was hypocritical. I know that the other party can't eat spicy food, I should understand, but why don't you buy two servings when you buy food, one is spicy and the other is not spicy.

Later, the two of us also broke up because of eating, and in the end, this person became more and more brotherly and grandson, and he didn't care if I was full or not during the meal. When the two of us eat, we often pay for the AA system, but every time I always can't eat, because after the meal comes, the other party eats half of it, and the remaining half, and the two of us are half of each other, this kind of life makes me feel particularly aggrieved.

Once I went to eat Malatang with the other party, I went to get the soup, but I didn't expect the other party to eat all the dishes, and ate all the dishes of my own happy land, at that moment, I felt that this person was really not suitable for living together, because it was too selfish.

With a selfish person, you may not even have enough to eat, which is not an exaggeration at all, because I have experienced it myself. Therefore, if a person is particularly selfish when eating, don't be with this person, because after being with this person, you can't even solve your stomach.

Selfish women are of course truly happy because they think about themselves in everything, and even if they are betrayed by their other half, they don't have much to lose, because they are not fully committed.

Yes, a woman who is selfish in a relationship generally thinks about herself and does not give much for the other person, so the man will pay for himself in turn.

Selfish women will indeed be truly happy, because they will not give all their love to each other, and they will have to keep a little distance from each other, so that men can be special to themselves and cherish themselves more.

I don't think selfish women will be really happy, because they are very selfish, they will always think about themselves and will not consider each other's feelings, so that men will fade their feelings after a long time and slowly withdraw from each other's circle.

A selfish woman will be truly happy, because a selfish woman knows how to make her life more comfortable in the family, may love her husband, and will be filial to her mother-in-law, so as to achieve the purpose of giving back to herself.

I think so, because selfish women don't think too much about it and will live a chic and happy life.

This is indeed the case, because such a woman knows how to make herself happier.