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Fear of hurting yourself.
The Chinese population is large.
Establish family prestige.
Create a harmonious relationship between husband and wife.
Don't spend your money on the next generation.
Save time and energy.
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It should be the majority of women. Before the child is born, parents will consider wanting him to grow up worry-free, give him a warm living environment, a healthy body, a good education, in short, everything good wants to give him.
After the arrival of the child, it is definitely a project that needs to be built with heart, and perhaps some women are afraid of having children.
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I'm afraid of pain or it's troublesome to raise children.
Let's do more ideological work.
Your preparations here are also in place.
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Why is my woman in a hurry to give birth......
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If a woman does not have children in her life, it will not have any effect. On the contrary, there are certain benefits, such as looking younger. Women who give birth will change the hormone levels in the body, such as progesterone levels, which will increase the female glow.
If you don't want to have children, don't care what other people think. Everyone lives differently, and the most important thing is to love yourself and your parents. Many women are afraid that their body will be out of shape after giving birth, and they are afraid that the book will affect their physical health, and even become a resentful woman.
Not getting married, not having children, these are all options on your path in life. You can choose or not, before making a choice, you have to understand what is the purpose of your marriage and having children?
If you want to change your destiny and solve the problems of life by getting married and having children, I am afraid that you will regret it if you get married because of these choices. Because getting married and having children may have more troubles, and it is not even as good as being single.
If you don't meet someone you really love, you get married and have children in a hurry, and you will most likely regret it. Although it is troublesome to bring children, the fun that children bring you cannot be expressed. When I am old, there are no children by my side, and how desolate the old man is.
It's to go to a nursing home, and someone treats you badly and abuses you, and no one cares. Effort pays off.
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If you are unwilling to have children, you can solve it in the following three ways.
1. Discuss with your wife.
The family is the fusion of the two, and having a child is also the result of the satisfaction of the two. If one party does not want to give birth, the other party does not have the right to apply for a patent, and the other party does not have the right to give birth. At this time, as a husband, you can discuss with your wife and understand the reasons why your wife is reluctant to have children.
After grasping the reason, we can find a way to deal with it, and reach a consensus with each other.
2. Ask relatives and friends to mediate.
Although having a child is a matter for both husband and wife, if the couple disagrees, it is very easy to be at the heart of the disagreement, and there is no way to deal with the problem further. Therefore, it is possible to ask friends and relatives to help mediate.
3. Divorce by litigation. If the husband and wife are unable to each other, it is not the unanimous recommendation of the pregnant child, and they can apply to the people's procuratorate for divorce on the grounds of emotional breakdown. The people's court should give priority to mediation, and if the mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted to the husband and wife as having broken down their marriage.
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Find the cause and solve the problem, probably because you are afraid of affecting the quality of life!
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1. Both men and women have the right to procreate.
According to China's "Law on Population and Focal Area Family Planning" and other relevant laws and regulations, husband and wife have common responsibilities in the practice of family planning, and also enjoy the right to have children. The argument that only women have the right to have children and men have no rights to have children is wrong, and men have the right to have children! The right to reproduce includes both the right to have children and the freedom not to have children, that is to say, the right to have children also includes the right not to have children.
2. The woman may decide to terminate the pregnancy at her own discretion.
China's Law on the Protection of Women's Rights and Interests clearly stipulates that women have the right to give birth and the freedom not to have children. In other words, the woman has the right to terminate the pregnancy if she decides not to have children during pregnancy. The reason why the law gives women such full rights is because women are still in a disadvantaged position in modern society, fulfilling more obligations in taking care of and raising children, and bearing irreplaceable hardships and risks in pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding!
3. The man shall not claim damages from the woman.
According to the interpretation of China's Marriage Law, where a husband requests damages on the grounds that his wife's unauthorized termination of pregnancy violates his reproductive rights, the people's court will not support it. However, if there is a dispute between the husband and wife due to childbirth, the court shall grant the divorce after mediation fails. That is to say, in many divorce cases, the man asks the woman for compensation for the "stubble" of the abortion without permission, and it will not be supported by the people's court!
4. The realization of the man's reproductive rights requires the cooperation of the woman.
The peculiarity of reproductive rights makes it possible for men to realize their reproductive rights only through women. In the process of the specific implementation of rights, due to the difference in the physical conditions of men and women, it is inevitable that women are the main body of pregnancy. Pregnant mothers have to endure anxiety, pain, and physical discomfort in the process, which is difficult for others to experience.
From the day of the birth of humanity, a woman has endured such a sacrifice that makes her noble in the eyes of others. Therefore, it is in line with the spirit of balancing legal interests to give more preferential protection to women in the orientation of legal values.
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A woman who doesn't want to have children is a person who thinks calmly, and since she has the right to choose, she chooses what she likes.
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First of all, what is a wife? A lifelong partner can be childless, but you must not be without a partner, and you will understand this when you are old. When you are sick, no one will be by your side to bring water and medicine, and if you have a fever, no one will help you wipe your sweat and help you turn over. It's miserable...
Therefore, a person who gives up his wife in order to have a child is an extremely selfish, ego person who is not worthy of love at all, or rather, does not deserve to have a lover.
If you don't have a child, you can't give birth to one, you can adopt one, but it is despicable to abandon your wife and marry another!
There are actually many specific methods, such as adopting a child or raising a small animal, etc., which are all good solutions. The most important thing is to see how the relationship between the husband and wife is. There is no such thing as true feelings.
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1. Go to the hospital for examination.
If it is indeed the woman's problem, you have to check whether it is the best thing to do, why can't you have children, after the checkout, go to the hospital to prescribe the right medicine, now the medical level is so developed, you must believe that if there are no other problems, you should be able to have children.
2. Adoption. If not, then adopt a baby for a long time, although the social security is better now, but there are still many orphans, like children in orphanages, you can adopt one, from childhood to adulthood is also the same.
3. Dink. Then you have to think about whether you love your children or your wife, or just want your wife to give you a baby, if you love your wife, I think the two of you will be very happy together even if you don't have children.
4. Divorce. It's really not good, and it's also the worst solution, that is, your family can't accept it, your wife can't accept that you can't get pregnant, under the pressure of both parties, you feel that you can't hold on, and it hurts you and her if you force it down, so it's better to divorce, you find a new one, although you may not be able to have children, but at least there is one more chance.
Therefore, it is still necessary to look at this problem from the perspective of personal mentality, some people think it is actually a small problem, while some people think it is a big joke.
Finally, let's say a few in our illegal way, you should know the way of Shuangzi, you can try it, in short, unless the relationship is not harmonious, otherwise there are more ways than difficulties, don't try to challenge the emotion, otherwise you have a child and no wife, in the end you lose and earn, who can say clearly.
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1. What should I do if my wife doesn't have children?
1. Many times if the wife does not have children, there will be constant conflicts in some families, especially in the family where the elderly live together, the old people want to hold their grandchildren when they are old, and the desire for great-grandchildren will be very urgent, and then they will urge their daughter-in-law to have children.
But if the wife is unwilling to give birth, there is indeed no way to force him to give birth, because after all, the body is his own, so many times he can't be too anxious, which can easily cause quarrels or contradictions between the two parties and affect the feelings of the husband and wife.
2. In a marital relationship, if the wife is unwilling to have children, sometimes the wife may have some concerns, so the first thing is to talk frankly with the wife about what his concerns are, and try to dispel his concerns with his own ability, so that the wife will agree to have children.
2. What are the reasons why wives are reluctant to have children?
1. For today's young people, many people are reluctant to have children, in fact, the main reason is that the pressure of society is very great now. Therefore, my wife would rather keep the money for ordinary life than have children, not only adding a burden to her life, but also having no money to give her children a good future.
Therefore, as a man, you must take responsibility, support the responsibility of supporting a family, make a little more money, so that your wife does not have these worries, and then you can have children happily.
2. For some women, they are more likely to be afraid that they will affect their figure after giving birth, and some girls are afraid of pain and the like, and there are also these reasons.
I'm a psychology student. Your current psychological state is not mature at all, and your husband's thoughts are obviously very simple, marriage is a lifelong thing, but you are united because of the so-called money, whether you love each other or not, your union is very philistine, then this is a philistine marriage. A person's life is only so long, and you say that you are still young, if you are a person with ambition or ability, then I clearly suggest that you convince him and his family, if you can't be convinced, divorce is undoubtedly the best choice, if he is really good to you, he will not even give you the most basic respect, you don't even have the right to be respected, what else can not be abandoned? >>>More
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Of course, you have to send, this is a good opportunity to exchange feelings with the boss, if this is your heart, the sooner you send it, the better, save energy, if you are not in a hurry, wait until the boss lady gives birth to a child about a week or so, at that time the boss is not busy, you can have time to visit his home and send it, as for what to send, I don't think there is any need to be too expensive, after all, the boss and yourself know your situation, there is no need to slap a swollen face and become fat, buy some supplements for maternal confinement, children's clothes on it, In the fine is not more, the quality must not be a problem, when you send a look at the child, more praise the child's cute and delicate, the mother's mother's brilliance, the boss's father is benevolent, if the timing is good, then talk about how much the boss takes care of you in the company, it will be of great help to your future work, pay attention, even if the boss is not very good to you, make up a point, or lose the meaning of sending, after all, how can so many people give gifts to highlight yourself, but pay attention not to make up the flesh and outrageous, it will be self-defeating. Good luck!!
When I gave birth to my son, it took 32 hours for the uterus to open the uterus before entering the delivery room, the child was not in the right position and did not enter the pelvis dystocia, the doctor asked the family to sign the consent form of Bao Da or Bao Xiao, and my husband did not hesitate to say: Bao Daren! After I came out, my husband didn't look at the child, so he came to hug me first, and told my mother and mother-in-law that you don't just look at the children, look at the adults first, and then my mother told me that my husband was crying outside at that time, and he wanted to rush into the operating room.
Recently, Bai Yansong talked about young people's reluctance to have children, this topic has been on the hot search, in the hot search**, we can clearly see Bai Yansong said, I said a few years ago, when the house price exceeds thirty or forty thousand, no matter how long it has nothing to do with ordinary people, anyway, it can't afford it, if the society changes comprehensively, it becomes a society friendly to young people, and a society that encourages fertility intentions, the situation we are worried about today can slowly change. <> >>>More