Regarding having a baby, should I have a baby

**There are two broad categories of methods:

1.Self-leading method: self-realization through exercise, diet control and other methods.

2.Auxiliary method: the use of medicine, equipment, massage, acupuncture, etc.

Here's how to do it for you:

1.Good breakfast, full lunch, and little dinner.

2.Replace staple foods with coarse foods, such as brown rice and whole wheat products.

3.The taste should be as light as possible, with less seasonings such as salt, soy sauce or ketchup.

4.Start with a bowl of soup or a glass of boiling water and start with your favorite foods.

5.Choose more troublesome foods, such as bone-in chicken rather than diced chicken.

6.Chew food at least 10-20 times before swallowing.

7.Never reluctantly eat again after eating until you are eight minutes full.

8.Brush your teeth or rinse your mouth immediately after eating.

9.Try to avoid snacking, especially while watching TV.

10.When you feel hungry, it is better to eat something small first than to be hungry.

People say that breastfeeding children will sag their breasts, but in fact, it also depends on the individual. The people around me are breastfeeding, and I haven't seen any changes since I was born. Relax! It's good to go with the flow!

Eat smaller, more frequent meals. Eat more fruits. Be mindful of exercise. You can go up and down the stairs and lift your buttocks more.

For today's society, having children is not entirely about providing for the elderly, there is more meaning in it. In my opinion, children are just a part of life, a continuation of your life as an organism, but you definitely did not come to this world because you are old and let your children bear your life. Children can be used as a way for you to provide for your old age, but it is definitely not your purpose for having children.

I am married, so I still have some feelings about life, so I would like to express my thoughts in a few words.

The concept of raising children and preventing old age has gone through thousands of years of changes and is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and this concept comes from our feudal society. Raising children to prevent old age, as the name suggests, is that parents raise their sons; Be prepared for no one to take care of you in old age. From:

Song Chen Yuanliang's "The Legend of the Forest": "Raising children to prevent old age, accumulating grain to prevent hunger." "In ancient society, due to low productivity, the prosperity of the family meant that the old age could be trusted.

At the same time, due to the influence of Confucius and Confucianism, the traditional idea of filial piety has a decisive influence in China, so the concept of "raising children and preventing old age" has also been continued in China's thousands of years of inheritance, and the concept is getting deeper and deeper, engraved in the bones.

But in the modern world, productivity has increased dramatically, and material life has become sufficient. The most important concept of raising children and preventing old age, people have begun to reflect on their self-worth, marriage and childbirth have become less dominant, for example, there has been a negative population growth in highly developed areas such as Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. We no longer stay in the idea of passing on the family lineage and raising children to prevent old age.

We hope to reach the peak of another realm, that is, the embodiment of our own value.

And the tendency of this concept is more similar to the ideas of foreign countries, such as Americans. They view their children not as the private property of families and individuals, but as future citizens of society. They only give life to their children, and in addition to this layer of blood, Americans believe that they only take care of children for God until they reach adulthood, and at the corresponding age, the children become independent individuals.

The relationship between parents and children is very weak.

You're an adult, and you have to decide for yourself whether you should have a baby or not. Whether born or not, it should be based on their actual situation, most of the Chinese Dink is relatively small, they still need to have children, giving birth to children on one side is a spiritual sustenance, and on the other hand, there is a person connected with your blood.

If you want to be a qualified parent, you have to work hard.

In the morning, I had just washed my face, brushed my teeth, and went downstairs to eat, when my mother said:"My stomach hurts, maybe the child is about to give birth, you call ** to Dad, let him come, and then ask Dad to call an ambulance. "By eight o'clock, the ambulance was coming to my house like a wild horse out of a scar.

After a while, the car arrived, and there was also a person who gave birth to a child inside, and there were many people. So my dad and I decided to charter a car to go over, but my grandmother didn't agree and said:"One is one, and two is two.

So we had to take this car.

On the road, at this moment, our mood is very nervous and scared. Is it the little sister or the little brother that is born that is nervous? I was afraid that my mother would not be born on the road, because I heard them say that my mother used to give birth to me very quickly.

After more than an hour, we arrived at the hospital, and it seemed that I was too scared. Then I took the elevator to the second floor, my mother went to the third floor for testing, and then went back to the delivery area on the second floor to give birth, and my father and I went to pay the bill. At half past ten, before my mother gave birth, my grandmother went there and talked to a few people about her age.

Finally she hurried over and said:"Her house is so fast because the cabinets for the clothes are opened, and our cabinets are not opened, so she sits so slowly. "Dad said:

The slowness of life has nothing to do with any of this. "As a result, we waited patiently for another hour, and finally, it was finally born, we hurried over to see, the doctor told us that this was born a girl, everyone was very happy, I really don't know how to describe it, because I have a little sister!