Is the conflict between mother in law and daughter in law generally because of the son husband ?

Married sons are still estimated to be dependent on their mothers to some extent. In front of his mother, he used to criticize his wife's shortcomings without scruples. As soon as there was a conflict between the two, the mother couldn't wait to come over to support her, and the son also complained to his mother with confidence.

And what about the wife? Because it's not at my mother's house, I can only swallow the bitter water in my stomach. After a long time, the mother decided that all the unhappiness was due to the daughter-in-law's bad temper.

The son suffered. Gradually, the more the mother looked at her daughter-in-law, the more unpleasant she became, the more she looked at it, the more disgusted she became, and later, she also counted her son's daughter-in-law wrong. As a result, a vicious circle!

The conflict between the husband and wife is getting bigger and bigger, and the daughter-in-law is gradually feeling helpless.

Because of his mother's support, the son always felt that he was not at fault, and he had no intention of introspection, and he also felt that there was no need to introspect. As a result, the mother and son became more and more critical of their daughter-in-law (he said that he was not used to it, I think this is picky). The daughter-in-law was depressed in her heart, and her mood fluctuated very much, so she gradually lost her sense of security, and under the pressure of not being accepted by her husband's family, the "bad temper" hidden in her heart finally broke out.

The dispute with her husband developed from an initial verbal dispute to a fist and kick. This time, the mother felt more sorry for her son, and then hated her daughter-in-law even more. In the end, he forced his daughter-in-law to beat the child in her womb and divorce her son.

Generally, because the son (husband) will not come to the incident, as an intermediary, taking sides will further deteriorate the relationship, so be careful.

In general, yes. The mother is used to being attached and worshiped by her son, and she may not be able to stand it when she falls out of favor all of a sudden. Coupled with the fact that the two generations have different views on the same thing, there are naturally many disagreements and selling shields. As a daughter-in-law, you should be more considerate of your mother-in-law and husband. Naturally, there is no contradiction.

Yes no, in general yes.

When a woman raises a child, she gives it to another woman, and it is uncomfortable in her heart. When I see my child doing this and that for another woman, I can't balance my heart, so I don't like my daughter-in-law, and a conflict arises.

If the daughter-in-law can empathize with her, she will quickly solve this problem.

No, in fact, the son (husband) is the intersection of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and many times the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is optimized because of his existence. There are many possibilities for contradictions: differences in living habits, differences in educating the next generation, .........

No, there are many reasons, and they are all trivial things in life.

Not exactly, sometimes the husband can't do things, and sometimes the daughter-in-law can't do things, such as instructing the husband to do things in front of the mother-in-law.

Most mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law have conflicts for a man, that is, their sons, husbands, because mothers-in-law love their sons very much, and they are reluctant to let their sons be angry with their daughters-in-law or be their daughters-in-law's servants.

The medium of becoming the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the son (husband) among you, without a husband, where is the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, this bond relationship will inevitably become a contradiction, the key is to deeply analyze the reasons for the contradiction, not all of them are because of the intermediate medium, there are also cultural differences between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, differences in living habits, differences in life concepts.

Most of the time, it is because I care about my son's heartache, my grandson, and my old mother-in-law will have a quarrel with my daughter-in-law. In the eyes of most mothers-in-law, what they believe is their sons and grandchildren, and in the eyes of mothers-in-law, daughters-in-law play the role of only a housewife in the family, and the son is in charge. (This problem is also a matter of traditional perception, which is difficult to change).

Most of them are like this, men and women think differently, and thoughtful women who are thoughtful when men feel that there is nothing wrong will be very concerned, especially two women who have not lived together before.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult relationship to deal with, because the difference in living habits will produce a lot of friction, and then meet a pair of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who are both strong, it will be fatal, but the key is to understand each other, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should use empathy, sacrifice themselves to think about each other, it is not easy, the mother's love for her son is eternal, the daughter-in-law's love for her husband is also true, and the son should also be tactful and be a mediator between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Not necessarily most of them are different in their living habits.

Tashsh is right, the husband will not come to the trouble.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult, mainly because of the husband's microphone.

Not much to say, deeply touched!

Understanding human nature, such a question may not be asked, the most important thing is the question of traditional thinking, the daughter-in-law in the eyes of the mother-in-law should be like the daughter-in-law hundreds of years ago, but the modern daughter-in-law ideology is not so, there is such a conflict of ideas between all of them, resulting in many aspects of incompatibility, as a husband in the middle is really difficult, if as a wife can not even understand this, you should not consider marrying.

Not exactly, it depends on what the contradiction is.

Not necessarily, there are many reasons.

If you are a mother-in-law, then you should give in, is your daughter-in-law marrying into your family based on your face? It's not because I love your son! Think about how uncomfortable it is for your son to be caught between you? Why don't you have anything to provoke? In the future, when you are old, you will have to point to it.

At first, you have to stand firmly on your wife's side, and then you have to comfort your mother, and then you can reason with your wife in the room at night.

Because a mother will never really blame her son, as long as you comfort her, she will forgive you.

If you start on your mother's side, your mother will think that she is right, her son will be on my side, and your daughter-in-law will always be an outsider, and you can say whatever I want about her.

And my wife will also think, "I'm an outsider after all, and their family is bullying me."

Na that's not necessarily. Maybe it's because my wife and mother-in-law don't have a good personality.

Most of them thought it was a son.

There is a conflict between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. As a son, you have to persuade both ends and the mud. In this way, the conflict can be alleviated. Don't press one side to the other. Then the contradiction will become bigger and bigger.

This is the most typical family affair, and it is also the most typical family conflict. And the most difficult thing to do between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the son and husband. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is almost a social problem, and there is no good solution so far.

Every time a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law occurs, there is almost no way to solve it, and the two people have different opinions, so it depends on the son at this time. As a son, he definitely wants to respect his mother and at the same time protect his daughter-in-law. Then I think the son can criticize the daughter-in-law in a gentle tone between the two people, after all, the daughter-in-law is the junior, and the junior must respect the elder.

At this time, the daughter-in-law must be unhappy, so after the two of them separate, they will comfort the daughter-in-law and tell the daughter-in-law that you are actually more towards her in your heart, but the mother is an elder and must be respected. This method not only calms the mother, but also comforts the daughter-in-law. It is very difficult for a son and husband to do, but no matter what, he must be impartial, so as to be able to settle the conflict between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very difficult to be caught in the middle as a son, but you can let them try not to have conflicts, or you can coax your own mother and then coax your daughter-in-law.

Try to avoid head-on conflicts, do ideological work on both sides in private, praise each other's goodness, and use practical actions to prove care for both sides. Women don't need boys to make decisions, they care about boys' attitudes. Small things can be solved easily by looking at them, but there must be a bottom line between right and wrong in the face of big things.

Don't blindly take sides of one side or the other, and don't be emotional. In the final analysis, boys have love, bottom line, and the ability to take responsibility in the family, and although conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are inevitable, they will not be too many.

As husbands and sons, you should affirm their words and make them give in from the moral and ethical and realistic situation. Only in this way can families be more harmonious.

Listening, complimenting, making life smoother. In human conversation, the best way to do this is to find out the problem from the ear that hears, the ear that hears, and finds the way out of it.

You are a big man, this kind of thing is all your fault, you have to make your own decisions when you do things, talk to your mother, talk more about your wife's goodness, how good your wife is to your mother, talk to your wife, talk more about how good your mother is, how good you are to your wife. If there is a dispute, you must not run away, the most important thing is that you don't stir up trouble, and if you make trouble, there will be no strife.

The first is to learn persuasive persuasion, and the second is to learn to "hide from both ends" when being a son, and not to say much, that is, to convince the mother or wife. And "hiding at both ends" requires a son's husband's learning to endure not talking much, and when the mother-in-law says that the daughter-in-law is not, she must persuade her.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflict: As a husband and son, even if they know right and wrong, they can't say it directly, comfort both parties separately in private, you can transfer the contradiction to yourself, and tactfully put forward personal suggestions, let the other party know the advantages of others, don't always grasp the shortcomings.

A good husband and a good son will balance the relationship between the two women who love you the most in this life in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. You can "suffer" yourself and make these two women feel valued, you can honor your mother with your daughter-in-law, and you can also care for your daughter-in-law with your mother.

There is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the root cause of the contradiction between them still depends on you, it is you who were wrong from the beginning.

How should the son deal with the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

The mother-in-law wants her son to be good, and the daughter-in-law wants her husband to be good. To put it bluntly, they all want the same person to be good, so this person has to stand up and say, you care about the relationship between them, and you can be happy if the relationship between the two of them is good.

As a son, he may have a headache about the conflict between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but a good husband must comfort both ends, comforting his mother and comforting his daughter-in-law on the other.

How should the son deal with the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? I think if there is a conflict between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the son must communicate in a timely manner, especially between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so that they can get along well.

Only by persuading the son on both sides, taking some of the wrong things on himself, and playing a round on both sides, can the conflict between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be extinguished.

As a filial son and a good husband, the two parties must explain to both parties when there is a conflict, and the family harmony can make everything prosperous!

The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a historical problem, no one can handle it well, I hope it can help you.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflict, son is the bridge, should be solved from the perspective of fairness and justice.

Husband and wife live in a house about 500 meters away from their parents, and it will be solved if they buy or rent a house.

Not processing, but and thin mud.

Don't blame unilaterally, don't always favor your son, and don't meddle in small things.

The details are as follows:

1. Don't make unilateral accusations. When the husband and wife quarrel, what the mother-in-law should do is not to help one party to blame the other, but to point out the wrongness of both parties, and persuade them to take a step back and resolve the conflict.

2. Don't always favor your son. Many mothers see their sons getting up early and running around outside every day to work hard, often because they see it in their eyes and hurt in their hearts. If the son and daughter-in-law quarrel, they will often blame the daughter-in-law for the problem, and in the end, the problem will not be solved well, but will lead the conflict in a worse direction.

Usually a smart mother-in-law will help her daughter-in-law speak, and at this time, the daughter-in-law also thinks of her mother-in-law's goodness and chooses to communicate well with her husband, and the dispute will naturally gradually decrease.

3. Don't meddle in small things. Sometimes the husband and wife quarrel, just because of some very small things in life, basically the bedside quarrel and the end of the bed, because when they quarrel, they can say their usual grievances, if the two can understand each other, it would be better even after the quarrel. But if the mother-in-law always meddles in the affairs of the two, it is a little uncomfortable for the two adults.

has a good mother-in-law who is reasonable, and usually the family atmosphere is not too bad.

Mother-in-law is an elder, you have to persuade your son more, let him let more daughter-in-law, after all, she is pregnant with a child now, you don't have to be too embarrassed about your daughter-in-law, after all, your son is her husband. Don't be too partial to your daughter-in-law, if you always help your daughter-in-law speak, your son won't say hello to you. If you always favor your daughter-in-law, your daughter-in-law will not say that you are good, so you have to be yourself, don't take sides, and treat your daughter-in-law and your son fairly.

If there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, as a son and husband, you must deal with the conflict between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, do not speak to anyone, treat this problem rationally, and do not take sides, so that it can be resolved.

You should go and tell your mother, after all, your wife has to live with you for the rest of her life, and her good mood will make the family harmonious. As a son, he should discuss with his parents and let his wife more.

Do not get along with the mud, do not favor any party, do the right thing, not the person, help the reason, do not help the relatives. After all, these two are your relatives, so you'd better be on the side of the truth than with the mud.

At this time, a man must stand up to adjust, and he should also resolve the conflict between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and at the same time, he should not be biased, and he should also discuss it with his wife.