How can I change to keep her from saying I m verbose

You treat her like this, it can be seen that you are a good man, for the sake of your wife, I think your wise saying is "love you more than yourself".

But good is good, everything will be counterproductive if you are too much, when you are good to her, you must also establish the majesty of a man, and you can't always beg her, maybe I said it inappropriately: sometimes you have to raise your girlfriend or wife as a daughter, you have to spoil her, get used to her, but sometimes you have to talk with a straight face!

You can change the method, just say what you say once, and if she still doesn't listen to you in the future, you can look at her with your eyes until she understands, so that you don't talk too much, and she understands what you mean!

It's better not to be a Tang monk-style character, girls don't like mothers-in-law and mothers.

There's no need to look at her too hard, she's like sand in your hand, if you hold it too loosely, she'll run away, and if you hold it too tightly, she'll run away from your fingers too.

Think about it and good luck.

Occasionally see your question ...

My boyfriend used to be like this, and in fact, he is now, which is what you call "instigation".

I didn't understand it before, I thought he talked too much and interfered with me too much. But after going through some things, I realized how naïve I used to be, and I realized that he really had to be good for me to do this.

If you empathize, in fact, you don't need to change yourself for others, really, if you are completely sincere for her good, and she generally recognizes that you are a good boy (man), one day she will tolerate you and look at your "instigation" from a different angle.

Of course, please make sure that you "instigated.""Always at the right time, everyone needs their own space and independence of thought.

Please believe that sincerity is open. I wish you all happiness.

You must love her very much. My boyfriend also confesses this and that to me every day. Sometimes I really think he's annoying.

But when I think about it from another angle, I know he loves me. Maybe you can try to give her more freedom. Don't force her to do things she doesn't want to do.

Don't be too clingy and keep a distance. She'll look for you when she misses you.

Let's start with verbose, don't get too long-winded, and she may have spoiled her feelings for you.

To be honest, standing in the position of a girl to analyze.

She said that I was good at everything, but I was verbose."

That's easy.

First of all, let's take a look at what you usually talk about.

Get rid of the habit of being verbose.

If you can't change it.

On the topic of switching Rosso.

Instead of caring about her life.

And, friends.

If you want girls to look up to you.

Please be chic.

Everyone made it clear that they weren't going to eat.

Why don't you die, ask people to go.

No wonder he annoys you.

Be smart. Chasing a girl is like fishing.

Be patient. Leaves are the same as flying kites.

You must know how to put it away freely.

Be hot and cold to her, and she'll know how good you are.

Get your attitude right first.

Treat her as a lover.

And not to be a daughter.

She also has her own ideas and stuff.

You don't have to worry about everything.

I think you're really verbose, and I think you might have to give her some freedom, or people will listen to you, and you'll be comfortable.

The rubber cloth sticks to your mouth.

She should know in her heart that you are good for her!

Let's talk less about it later!

Without further ado, change the previous words to casual!

If she has already rejected you, why do you have to hit a wall?

Talk less and listen more, these 4 words are very important.

Say what you should say, you shouldn't shut up, handsome guy.

This is not verbose! I don't think so, you are good for her, but she annoys you ......Speechless.

Eight points of love is enough, too much love is a burden for her, and the end is often that she can't bear it and runs away, giving each other some space!

There's nothing wrong with your personality, and if you start a family, you'll be a good husband, but you're just inferior. That girl is a little bit different from yours, so you have to let go of it a little bit, and after a long time, she will know how good you are.

In my experience! I soaked the horse more than 20!

You should choose to ignore her!

Let you know what it's like to be without your love!

If she loves you, she will come back and beg you!

If you don't come back! It means that she has never loved you!

That's it! Man! Be neat!

Just say that what scares you won't be true.

If someone doesn't talk to you, don't take what they say, and don't talk too much about what has nothing to do with you.

Don't change yourself for the sake of others, there is only one such you in the world, you are the only one.

If you care about her, saying that you are verbose may be a disguised expression of understanding your concern; If she loses enthusiasm for you, then she will be bored with whatever you say; If she's doing something and you're nagging her and bothering her, it's the wrong time to speak; There is also a possibility that you are really verbose, and you don't speak quickly and crisply, and the girl just doesn't like this style. Just think of these kinds, just for reference.

It is better to be quiet in the right situation and have space for each other to be free.

Your future is bleak! You have no sense of humor!

Say some of my personal opinions.

You feel like this to her now, and you look uncomfortable.

As for her, she thinks you are verbose and annoying, and she is uncomfortable.

To put it simply, the two of you may just not be the right fit.

Love needs the right time, the right place, and the right people.

If both of you are unwilling to change, then in the end you will find that everyone has a discordant personality and is not suitable, so you can only separate, now it's not you who wants to change her, she wants to change you.

It's that you should both try to make some changes for each other.

Although they are all changes, the feeling of being active and passive is still different...

So, start with yourself and try to make some changes for the sake of her who you feel sorry for and see if she is willing to repay you in the same way.

If you've tried it all and it's still not ok, then ... You can't be depressed for a lifetime, youth is short, and it's good to make plans early.

Although they like each other, there are many opinions that may not be acceptable, even if you are really good for her, but she has been like this for more than ten or twenty years, how can it be possible to change all of a sudden? And people generally don't like to be managed.

She doesn't love you as much as you love her, she doesn't necessarily love you Love needs space, you can't care for her too much, that will spoil her, and she will take your kindness to her for granted, so she won't know how to cherish, as a man, you should know how to leave this rule, so that girls will be more attractive and attractive

o(∩_o...Hehe.. You can only endure it.

Continue to love her. Actually, it's right that you care about her. Adopt a humorous expression.

Actually, she understands it ... Go learn ... Crying to death...

Good thing I don't have a girlfriend.

Then be a friend and be good to him, and think so much about what to do

Talking too much, it will be like this, every time you speak, you have to brew in your heart, the meaning of what you want to say, so when you can say it again, you can be concise, precise, and do more practice!

That's it, you're only 20. It should be concise. It's the key to get along with the key. There are also some good words and sentences in it, which gives people a good feeling.

The easiest way for most people is to go through the mind before speaking, let yourself be the listener first, and the second time you say it will make a big difference, there is no way to go through it in your mind in advance, and afterwards you have to refine and streamline your verbosity again, and soon you will find some bad habits and improvement methods when you speak, and then your language ability will be significantly improved.

In the shortest possible words, tell others what you want to say. Organize your language before you speak, think carefully about how you can say what you want to say, and then say it.

Are you a student or have you gone to work?