My husband always says that I love to spend money, and I can t be verbose anymore.20

Don't you have the money yourself, buy it yourself.

The situation you said is very similar to "Mother-in-law Eats Daughter-in-law.

Such a man is a scumbag, what can he do if he doesn't spend money, this kind of person is too small and selfish, but you have to have a plan to spend, you can't spend too much, you have to have a goal to save some money every year, women have to learn to manage money, you have to let him give you all the money willingly, don't always quarrel so that it is not good for both parties, think more about the advantages of the other party.

If the child doesn't have to grow up, let the old family take him out to work.

In fact, your husband doesn't mean that you love his money, but he just feels that you don't love him and care too little about him, so he feels that you don't really love him but love his money.

In this case, you should care more about him, communicate with him more, and let him feel your love for him.

In fact, when two people are together, the most important thing is communication, understanding, and tolerance, if you do these things, I believe your husband will not think that you love his money.

First of all, frequent chatting can give people the illusion of love. It's like you're in love, but you're actually indulging in a feeling, a fantasy, or a spiritual sustenance.

Second, you're in love with someone you imagine.

He may be soft-spoken, and it just so happens that you don't like people who are too hot-tempered, so you automatically substitute him as the perfect partner.

You keep refining his image in your mind, constantly convincing yourself. Besides, through the screen, you don't know who's on the other side. Words can express the essence of people's hearts, but they are also easy to disguise.

Maybe a punctuation mark, a word, can make you misunderstand, such a low-cost love experience will be easy to indulge.

And words are actually an illusion, because words can be packaged, and language can be modified.

Some people wait for you to look through the text and over the screen to meet face-to-face, only to find that it's not like that at all. And true love should be based on the sincerity of mutual appreciation and mutual giving.

If you are interested in someone, come out to meet, communicate, see how it feels, if you feel good on the day you meet, your spirit is happy, and the whole day went well, after the meeting, your luck has become better, that is, the other party has given you energy, and is not consuming you, then continue. If you feel bad, and after meeting, your luck becomes bad and you suffer from gains and losses, then disconnect in time and refuse to be consumed.

My view is that there is no point in questioning, but mastering.

Just don't think about whether love exists, love is the result of getting along well, when you don't get along well, you have to find the reason for reality, is it too busy, or has your feelings changed? Then see how you can warm up that feeling, and if you do a good job of doing this, the love will come back.

This kind of man, it's better for you to dump him if it's divided.

In his mind, it has been determined that you like his money, which means that he has no novelty for you, or there is someone else who can take your place, what does it mean to use money to measure feelings (do you still like him after a long time?). ）

Personal point of viewMoney is not omnipotent, although a lot of love in this real society is maintained by money, but money does not mean that there is an absolute advantage in love, use money to insult your love for him, a man who cares so much about money, must be a small family in life, you are often with him to put this sentence on your lips, sooner or later.

Explain that you usually spend a lot of money, and the income is not high or even no income, so that he will say such things, and you should change yourself.

Summary. First of all, show understanding and sympathy for your situation. I can't say if he still loves you, I can only say that everyone has become a reality after being together for a long time.

So don't compare it to the past. Think about the good things and you'll feel better. Here's what I suggest:

Usually spend money to keep accounts and keep receipts, so that it is easy to deal with him, and at the same time, you may find that you are indeed lacking in financial management. You don't need to talk to him, next time he asks, give him a bill directly, if not, let him take care of the family's expenses. Having a job of your own, keeping a proper distance, being there alone, is indeed a bit tiring, I have experienced it, so I understand.

My husband always suspects me of spending money indiscriminately.

First of all, show understanding and sympathy for your situation. I can't say if he still loves you, I can only say that everyone has become a reality after being together for a long time. So don't compare it to the past.

Think about the good things and you'll feel better. My advice is: spend money on books and keep receipts, so that it is easier to deal with him, and at the same time, you may find that you are indeed lacking in financial management.

You don't need to talk to him, next time he asks, give him a bill directly, if not, let him take care of the family's expenses. Having a job of your own, keeping a proper distance, being there alone, is indeed a bit tiring, I have experienced it, so I understand.

He paid for all the expenses of the family, and I didn't have a job and didn't have a penny.

Then you are a housewife, and you can also go out and make money on your own without relying on him alone.

I can't get out, I have two sons with low intelligence.

Then the whole family can only rely on your husband to earn money alone.

If you spend money, you will have no problem spending it on your family.

I usually spend money on my family.

Then you tell him and let each other trust each other.

Say you're not spending money indiscriminately, it's all for this family.

He didn't believe it.

You tell him it's all spent on **, 1510 tells him.

Say that all the money you spend is for this family.

In vain, he didn't believe it.

If a man can truly love you, he must be willing to spend money for you, and will meet your wishes and requirements. A man who refuses to spend a penny for you and laughs at him will naturally be stingy with the love he gives you.

It's definitely not true, which means that he is very picky, or that he doesn't treat you as his own relative.

Although, Qian Shirang is not the only criterion for measuring love, but it is the touchstone of feelings, a man who is unwilling to spend a penny for your travel, naturally gives you love is also very stingy.

Summary. Tell him when you emphasize spending money that your husband gives you, in fact, he believes very much in you and trusts you very much, is very good to you, and takes care of you very much, but your economic backing is right? It was he who emphasized that he would spend money and tell him, he was also worried about you, afraid that you would spend those unnecessary flowers or spend on some of the ones who were deceived and deceived, so he emphasized to him that he would have a bottom, in fact, he did the right thing.

The kind of emphasis that my husband didn't give you in the money to emphasize spending money when I told him, in fact, he believed in you very much, trusted you very much, was very good to you, and took care of you very slowly, but your economic backing for this Pi Pei mold is right? It was he who emphasized that he would spend money and tell him, he was also worried about you, afraid that you would spend those unnecessary flowers or spend on some of the ones who were deceived and deceived, so he emphasized to him that he would have a bottom, in fact, he did the right thing.

He knew I was a person who didn't spend money, but how many times did he repeat it?

Although he knows that you are a person who does not spend money indiscriminately, he still repeatedly reinforces the friendship shirt many times, because he is worried about you, this confession is a manifestation of his concern about you, but there is no other meaning.

Oh, it's me thinking too much.

Unless you have something else, like talking about the closed roll, he has a limit on years, or he thinks that the money you spend is going to **, and he has a special situation of suspicion about you, or there is basically no problem.

Summary. First of all, if you want to solve the problem of indiscriminate spending, the first step you need to do is to carefully analyze your income and expenditure, and record your income and expenditure, so that you can better control your spending. Second, it is necessary to make a reasonable budget plan and allocate income and expenditure to reasonable areas, such as daily necessities, entertainment consumption, education investment, etc., so as to better control your own spending.

Finally, we must insist on frugality, do not covet immediate benefits, and learn to use money in valuable places, such as investment, education, etc., in order to get more benefits. In short, if you want to solve the problem of indiscriminate spending, you need to start with a careful analysis of income and expenditure, formulate a reasonable budget plan, and insist on frugality, so as to better control your spending and make your love life more satisfying.

First of all, if you want to solve the problem of indiscriminate spending, the first step you need to do is to carefully analyze your income and expenditure, and record your income and expenditure, so that you can better control your spending. Second, it is necessary to formulate a reasonable budget plan and allocate income and expenditure to reasonable areas, such as daily necessities, entertainment, and education, so as to better control their own expenses. Finally, we must insist on frugality, do not covet immediate benefits, and learn to use money in valuable places, such as investment, education, etc., in order to get more benefits.

In short, if you want to solve the problem of indiscriminate spending, you need to start from a careful analysis of income and expenditure, formulate a reasonable budget plan, and insist on frugality, so as to better control your own expenses and make your love life more satisfying.

Can you elaborate on that a little bit more?

First of all, if you want to solve the problem of indiscriminate spending, the first step you need to do is to carefully analyze your income and expenditure, and record your income and expenditure, so that you can better control your spending. Second, it is necessary to formulate a reasonable budget plan and allocate income and expenditure to reasonable areas, such as daily necessities, entertainment, and education, so as to better control their own expenses. Finally, we must insist on frugality, do not covet immediate benefits, and learn to use money in valuable places, such as investment, education, etc., in order to get more benefits.

In short, if you want to solve the problem of indiscriminate spending, you need to start from a careful analysis of income and expenditure, formulate a reasonable budget plan, and insist on frugality, so as to better control your own expenses and make your love life more satisfying.

That's a man with no ambition, a man who doesn't have a sense of ambition and irresponsibility can be like that, do you love him.

You have spent all your own money, try to spend his money again.

Nowadays, many people are married, and they are still in charge of their own money. In their minds, there is no common concept.

When two people marry together, the property after marriage is shared. That's what the law says. So, when you spend your money, you're actually spending his money. He spends his money and yours as well.

It's a poor fear, and if you don't like that, find out as soon as possible, don't say that sooner or later something will go wrong.

Hehe, all the money I earn is spent by my wife, and my wife helps me take care of my money.

So why? Your husband is too much to manage! Why can't you spend the money you earn?

My husband is too, and he is very tight on money.