Is it that love is only 13 months, and love is really only three months????

It's not a matter of time. It is because only after a long period of contact can you find out what this person is like, or if it is not suitable.

It seems that you have discovered the shortcomings of BF from these 13 months--- maybe he has also discovered your --- so it is not discouraged now, but the two of them are beginning to communicate very maturely. If you can pass this hurdle and reach a consensus through communication, then the relationship can go to the next level, otherwise, you will "break up because you understand".

Through your description, I also think that your bf is a little cold, there may be a variety of reasons, economic, distance and the like, I suggest you tell him what is in your heart, it is always right for girls to want bf more pampering

I wish you all the best of luck in getting through this.

You also relax your heart, even if you leave him one day, you won't be so miserable Although you can't see each other often, you don't have to communicate every day**, sometimes give each other a little more space for yourself, women will become sensitive when they are in love After all, you have been together for a long time, and there will always be a transition period

Love sometimes doesn't take more than an hour, or even shorter, so why do you have to define it next time? Trouble, if you don't love it, you will share it! If you want to cry, cry out loud! If you want to laugh, laugh out loud, why make yourself so bad and hurt others! Not cost-effective.

I think the relationship between the two people will change when they are not in the same place, and I really think so...I think that our school used to be boyfriend and girlfriend, but after graduation, when we go to another school, our relationship will change, and it will slowly become annoying. And the feelings now do not believe that there will be eternal love.

It varies from person to person and can be up to 18 months

Why don't you say that women are made of water? It's really delicate, a little thing will be remembered, a man is different, he has been with you for a long time, maybe he doesn't care about your feelings, but his love for you will not change, he doesn't go online maybe because it's not necessary, something is solved in **, why do you still go online? is saying that if you are engaging in an online dating, you are not more depressed!

The things you just said, maybe he didn't take it seriously for a while, he thinks it's all trivial, the biggest difference between men and women, isn't it gender or something? I think it's the attitude towards things, don't worry about some small things, maybe you will say how can it be considered a small thing? Yes, it may not be a trivial matter for you girls, but it is a small matter for us boys, so if you love him, don't bother with him, then he will find you very annoying!

If you're really afraid that he won't love you, if you don't give him a ** try for a few days, he will really not get used to it! Hey! It doesn't matter.

I don't think you're thinking too much? I hope you all be happy!

If you meet the right person, you can meet the right person for 3 years, 30 years, 300 years, let alone 3 months, that is, it is possible to continue to sneak separately for three days and three hours, and find the right person who suits you.

Years, decades, a lifetime are possible, and love will eventually turn into family affection.

I also think that love within three months is not called love, it is just the freshness between people. Generally, the separation after three months is caused by the exhaustion of freshness and the inability to endure the shortcomings of the other party. Love the house and the black, so that is not love at all.