What does life in Beipiao bring you?

Can't save money, they all say that Beijing has a high salary, but the rent and cost of living are also high, if you want to live comfortably nearby, you have to pay a high rent, a small single room in the fifth ring road that can only accommodate one person will cost 2000. If you don't live, you just stay up every day to crowd people to take the subway, from one end of the city to the other end of the city, of course, Beijing also has his beautiful places, or so many people flock to her, hate her and can't do without her. He has a rare fairness and opportunity in other places, and there is the plot of the imperial capital, whenever he rides a shared bicycle past Tiananmen Square, he can feel a voice in his heart saying to himself, the capital is really good.

Children can go to school next to them, but it is more luxurious. My children are indeed following me in Beijing, and they will definitely be in Beijing in the future, but my friends around me, I think their monthly income is about the same as mine (but I don't know how much they actually earn), but they all put their children in their hometown (3-15 years old). I think this may be their choice.

Otherwise, how can you be a parent, don't miss your children, don't want your children to be by your side every day, and can't reunite with your children often, which may be the most prominent problem in Beipiao now.

I have been in Beijing since I graduated, just graduated the year, I feel that everything is very confused, because a good job is not easy to find, and also my own positioning is not accurate, I don't know how to find, the first year after graduation is in a variety of ** sales companies to do, there is a salary to pay the rent to eat, occasionally encounter which month no job, not only can not pay the rent, eating is a problem. I often eat steamed buns for one dollar a day with spicy sauce. A bag of hot sauce costs 8 cents and can be eaten for two or three days.

It was really hard at that time, but I never thought about leaving Beijing, just drifting. Every time I think about that time, I want to cry, but slowly, I found a stable job and became a family, and this kind of day is getting farther and farther away from me. In fact, everyone says that North Drift is how, I think that no matter where you are, the harder you work, the happier you are.

There are stable jobs, their own housing, and no hukou. This type of person is basically not much different from the locals. They have a stable job in Beijing and have their own housing.

It's just that they don't have a Beijing hukou, and their lives can be said to be no different from their own citizens, and some are even higher than the locals. It's just that the children's schooling, medical care, social security, etc. are not as good as those with local household registration.

With a stable job and no fixed place of residence (no one's own housing to rent or a dormitory), this kind of Beipiao is often a business person who has a certain degree or came to Beijing in the early days. Because of their high educational qualifications, it is easier for them to find stable jobs, or they have a certain economic foundation for doing business in the early stage, and they have gained a firm foothold in Beijing. These people not only have no worries about food and clothing, but also have the ability to consider buying a house in Beijing and live a more fulfilling life.

There is no stable job, no fixed place of residence. This kind of North Drift generally has a low level of education. It is because of the large number of people and high consumption in Beijing, so they have seized the business opportunity to work or do business in Beijing. Their jobs are unstable, they have no fixed place to live, and they are basically self-sufficient, neither good nor bad, and they can only say that they can do it.

It is difficult for children to go to school, I have seen other problems before, some people spray more than 3,000 kindergartens in Beijing, saying why not cheap, specifically private, not that they want to spend more money, but they really stay in Beijing to understand that Beipiao can only go to private schools if they can't go to the public, because you don't have a hukou. No matter how much you contribute to Beijing and how much tax you pay, as long as you don't have a hukou, your child can only go back to his hometown in the college entrance examination, and he can only go to a junior college in Beijing.

The morning and evening rush hour is crowded into dogs, and the subway is crowded with office workers every morning, including not only the elderly, children, but also pregnant women who are about to give birth. Everyone stands with their chests against their backs, contradictions and quarrels are really inevitable in such an atmosphere, some people say that they are afraid of squeezing to buy a car, for office workers, driving is sometimes really slower than taking the subway, and a wall will pass in the morning.

The long-tongued woman wants to manage the lives of others. Hahaha.

For example, if we have been living in a third-tier city, we will feel that we will feel that we have been in a nest for a lifetime, and there is nowhere to display our talents, and we will feel that if we go to Beijing, we will feel that if we go to Beijing, we will feel that we will have a reputation and fame, and we will feel that we have wasted our lives in the third- and fourth-tier cities.

But after drifting north, these thoughts are gone, and we finally know that we are just the smallest speck of dust among all living beings, we know that no matter which city we do, day after day, year after year, and we know that there are some things that we can't do no matter how hard we try (such as Beijing's high housing prices and scarce hukou for ordinary families).

However, I encourage young people (before the age of 28) to come to Beijing, because if you have the idea of coming to Beijing, you will always regret not coming to Beijing, feeling that you can instinctively display your ambitions, but you feel that you are aggrieved in a small city, and you feel that your youthful dreams have been wasted.

However, only if you have been severely beaten by Beijing will you know that we are not special.

When you go back to your hometown, your mentality will be different, your vision will be wider, your knowledge will be wider, but you will also understand that society is more cruel, so it is still worth it.

However, after the age of 30, it is really not recommended to come to Beijing, because it will not be unsuccessful, but must be successful, otherwise the hometown can not go back, can only be a middle and lower class in Beijing for the rest of his life, and work hard for Beijing's high housing prices (there are age restrictions for civil servants and teachers in the hometown, if it is the second-tier hometown, there are still choices, and the third- and fourth-tier people after the age of 30 have too few choices).

I don't know what other people think. For me, there are too many reasons for the North Drift, and I will not mention the others for the time being, I will only say one thing: the North Drift has given me a new life in personality.

Since I was a child, I didn't like the atmosphere of my family environment and the habits of thought and temperament that I had formed in this environment; At the same time, I don't know if it's the so-called fate or what, when I live in my hometown city, I often feel that the surrounding environment is also very unfriendly to me, for example, I often fall on my head when walking or getting on and off the bus, and I often have some strangers who attack me inexplicably when I go out, and so on. I don't like to stay in my hometown. In Beijing, due to my character flaws and thinking shortcomings, although I have also experienced lows and inconsistencies, what I have learned from this is precious, and I have changed my thinking mode and lived a "normal" life

How to think about the problem from multiple angles, many things do not need to hurt each other's self-esteem, be kind at all times, how to truly care, how to express yourself... During this time, I am very grateful to the friends, colleagues and neighbors around me who have helped me. Although the process was painful, it made me feel very warm because of their presence.

For me, the city is hectic but friendly, fulfilling, and there are always mentors and friends to learn from. Here, I became more and more peaceful and knew more and more what I wanted.

What can Beipiao bring us, and what is the significance? I think it is very difficult for young people to have the opportunity to go to places where the city is developing very well to experience and grow. At the same time, the result will also make you feel happy and surprised.

When everyone mentions North Drift, many people will feel that it is particularly hard. Or, the process is really difficult. However, there are many people who have achieved the beauty and happiness of their lives through the North Drift, and have also achieved high achievements in their lives.

If there is a chance, it is still worth it to drift north. Beipiao is very meaningful, because you can meet more people when you work in Beijing, and you can learn more skills while working, because if you don't learn new skills, then you will be eliminated by this company long ago. After all, in Beijing, his employment competitiveness is very great.

And after seeing this place in the big world, you will feel that your small city is very unpromising.

In comparison, there is more money saved, and experience is also a wealth of life, and you may encounter better opportunities, and space affects your life.

Having the opportunity to get a household in Beijing, with a high salary, many opportunities, a relatively wide range of social contacts, and more contact with the opposite sex, I have ideas for my future. When we were young, we all wanted to come out and break through, in fact, this is a bet with our lives, winning or losing is unknown, maybe we are thinking about what will happen, in fact, how many people will happen? There are so many people in the North Drift, which is the same as digging ginseng in the deep mountains, all of them are trying their luck, but if we are just very ordinary people, the North Drift is actually a waste of the performance of the photosynthesis of the bones and the spread of life, but if you are very strong and capable, Beijing is also a place with many opportunities, everything depends on yourself!

Isn't life good in **?

We don't know what Beipiao can bring us, it may be endless fatigue, or it may be to satisfy the desire to live in a big city.

It is also possible that the process of fulfilling a dream can be achieved.

In fact, it is difficult for people who don't do this to understand what those who do are pursuing, after all, life is not very happy.

What may bring us is just an opportunity, a chance to succeed, in fact, sometimes a chance to succeed can stimulate a person's potential.

This may be the reason why they left their hometown and chose to drift north.

Experience: Social experience: know the hardships of life, know the hardships of the world.

Life skills: can cook, can answer electricity, can sell, can arrange dinners, know things and people;

You can hone your own experience, this is also a job, an experience, maybe when you engage in other industries in the future, you may be glad that you have lived in the north before, when you just entered the society, to hone your own heart, this is a valuable wealth.

I may feel tired now, but I believe it is also a reward. I won't regret it later.

Many people want to settle down in big cities, which is why so many people choose to work in big cities, even if the salary is not high, they are still reluctant to return to their hometowns, and they are not willing to refuse to live in small cities.

It's people who have vanity, it's people.

We all want to make ourselves look better, everyone is like this, just like when we were children, when we were in school, we thought, when we grow up, we must go to the big city to see, to see what the outside world is like, to see the high-rise buildings outside, to see the ultra-modern hair outside, to feel everything in the outside world, even in this city, we are not easy, but so what, we insist on staying here.

I'm back in the small cities now, and the wages are much lower than in the big cities.

Many people always say that living in a small city is actually quite happy and the pressure is not so great, but after you go back to a small city, many times it is really inconvenient, and the big city is different, what you see, see, feel is completely different, your colleagues are all the same as you, or people who are better than you, you can learn a lot from them, you will learn a lot from them.

From the fast-paced life, crowded living environment, but convenient big cities after returning to small cities, they will feel very uncomfortable, many people actually prefer to stay in big cities, although they may not be able to afford a house, but they still feel that it is good to be able to live in a big city for a long time. As long as you don't deliberately close yourself off, you can always find like-minded people in Beijing.

<> there are a large number of offline activities on Douban every day, even if it is an alternative and unique hobby, you can find a companion. Playing the guitar, doing public welfare, dancing, handicrafts, photography, cycling, and even walking in the hutongs and writing poems together can find like-minded people. Even if you are single, as long as you are willing to go out, you will not be alone.

There are different performances every night: small ones with folk and jazz performances in various small bars, medium ones with rock bands in various livehouses, and large ones with star concerts in halls and stadiums. Of course, there are also other forms of performances such as dramas, ** plays, ballets, symphonies, etc.

No matter what art form you like, whether you like niche singers or popular artists, this is the closest place to idols.

Beipiao is a very special group, they live in the capital Beijing, but many people do not have a Beijing hukou. Compared with those with a Beijing hukou, Beipiao may face more challenges and pressures in life.

Here are some details of life in the ordinary North Drifter:

Renting: Most of them do not have their own housing and need to rent in other people's houses. Renting a house** is expensive, especially close to the city center. Many people will choose to share a house with others to share the rent, so that they can take care of each other.

Food: Beijing is a food capital, but North drifters may face the problem of irregular eating. Many people choose to eat takeout or eat in the cafeteria, but this can lead to an imbalance in nutrition.

Transportation: Traffic in Beijing is very congested, especially during rush hour. They may have to spend a long time commuting and often have to squeeze the subway or bus.

Jobs: Most of them work in small and medium-sized enterprises in Beijing, which may not have the same wages and benefits as large enterprises. Many Beipiao need to work overtime to cope with work pressure, and often face the problem of job instability.

Entertainment: On weekends and holidays, North Drifters usually choose to travel around Beijing or participate in some outdoor activities. They will also choose to go to the movies, sing songs, play games, etc. to relax.

In short, the life of the North Drifters may be hard, but they also have their own dreams and pursuits. They aspire to realize the value of their lives and live a better life in the city of Beijing.