What changes has your child brought to your life?

Although I am not married, let alone have children, I can't particularly understand and appreciate the changes that the arrival of children has brought to the lives of parents, but I often hear people around me say how it has been since I had children at home, and I have also seen the transformation of my best friend from a girl to a mother. Therefore, I also know a lot about the changes that children bring to their parents' lives. The child is the crystallization of the love of the parents, and the love of each parent for the child is also selfless, and the changes brought by the child are as follows:

1.Don't dare to make loud noises at home. Because there is a baby at home, I am afraid that I will scare the child if I accidentally speak loudly, and many people have a loud voice and become very low.

2.The usual places to visit the mall have changed. After having a child, I went to the mall and involuntarily ran to the mother and baby store, and I used to go to cosmetics stores, clothing stores, clothes and shoes and so on.

3.The heart has become very thin. Because if you have a child, you have to learn to take care of the child, and taking care of the child is not an easy task, you need to be very careful, so that the child is not only careful, but also very patient.

5.Live frugally. You must know that it is not easy to raise a child now, it costs a lot of money, and when you don't have children, you feel that you have lived quite richly, but after you have children, you will find that you can't afford to raise them at all.

Therefore, in order to give your children a better life, your own life will become thrifty.

Having a child will really change your own life completely, so if you haven't played enough and are not ready to be a parent, you must not have children, once you have a child, you must do everything to give him the best of your ability.

I want to provide a good living environment for my children, and I also want to educate my children to grow up well, so I want to set an example and make myself a responsible and moral person in order to educate children well.

When I first got married, I didn't feel any pressure, but after having children, I was under a lot of pressure, and I would become more mature, I would be very thoughtful in doing things, and I would put more energy into my family.

It makes me feel happier at the same time! It also made me feel the pressure of life intensifying!

It makes me feel very happy, but I also feel very tired at times, especially when I am sick.

In fact, many and many children are born, parents always feelLost time for self。So after having children, a lot of family life also happenedHuge changesChange.

The biggest difference between having children and not having children is definitely freedom, because when there are no children, in fact, many Jiachang have been extinct for a long time by themselves, and they can do whatever they want, and they don't need to consider too many constraintsLife can be at its own pace everywhere, and so does work. But after having a child, most parents will feel that they have no freedom, and all the time is basically given to the child, and all the time has to revolve around the child. I want to go shopping today, I want to watch a movie today or I have a job today and I need to work overtime, but at this time, I have to race against time, basically all leisure and entertainment activities have been canceled, and overtime depends on whether the child is in good condition today and whether he is sick.

Even when I'm outside, all my emotions are still on my children, no matter how you go, I want to see if there is something suitable for children.

In fact, raising a child is a very expensive thing, and it costs a lot of money every day to invest a lot of patience, and at the same time, the child will be worried when he is sick. After having children, most families will reduce some unnecessary expenses, such as some money purely for hobbies, such as some figures and sneakers that the father likes to buy, and some cosmetics and clothes that the mother likes to buy, and everyone will greatly reduce these unnecessary expensesIf you can use it at home, you can continue, and if you can't buy it, try not to buy it。It is necessary to save money for children, becauseWhether it is milk powder or education, the investment in the future is very large

However, many parents also say that after having children, they will work and live harder, because of the rush.

In fact, life after having children is not all good, but alsoNot allChicken feathers all over the place, there is anxiety, but also there is lossAnd even sometimes, there will be a lot of thinking about the future. But we still believe that life with children is relativeIt's a better life

Life has changed very much, the focus of the orange group's life has reacted, the attention to the child is relatively high, his social circle is getting smaller and smaller, and he spends a lot of money on the child.

My life has undergone earth-shaking changes, only sell and since I have a child, my life has become very happy, I will do a lot of things every day, and the child will have a better memory, watching the child grow up little by little, I will also feel that I am growing, some noisy life will be particularly chaotic, because the child has been making trouble, but then I think about it will still be very happy.

There have been particularly big changes, I have become more cautious when spending money, I have invested more time and energy in my children, my social circle has become smaller and smaller, and I have become more and more lazy and sloppy.

My life has undergone a subtle and subtle change, and my life has become happier, happier, more exciting, and more noisy. It's become more grounded.

There have been earth-shaking changes, the state of life has changed, the habits of life have changed, the focus of life has changed, and there will be many difficulties and problems.

My life has become happier, more enjoyable, more fulfilling, more lively, and more colorful.

Question: What changes have children brought to you?

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It seems that I have recalled the changes brought to me by my children more than once, and every time I recall, as bits and pieces of the past come to mind, I can always help but raise the corners of my mouth and smile with satisfaction.

Changes in schedule: I remember that when the little one was born, he was really a little uncomfortable. Whether it is getting up in the middle of the night to make milk for the little boy in the middle of the month, or rushing home after work every day, or pushing off all the weekend activities to take the little boy to let off steam, it is the change that occurs after having a child, and the original relaxed two-person world is instantly adjusted into a busy child shouting world, and personal leisure time such as playing games and watching movies has become almost extinct.

These changes have made me unable to adapt for a long time, and I even asked myself why I have such a little boy, and I have no time for myself.

Personal psychological changes: As my children grow, it also brings about my personal growth. Many events and feelings that left a negative impression on me when I was a child have reappeared in front of me little by little, and when these events and emotions reappear, I have been able to understand and analyze the deeper things behind things more comprehensively and thoroughly, and I have understood many things.

Therefore, the process of accompanying children to grow up is a process of growing and perfecting together. Let me better understand the child's mood, and also dredge the problems that have plagued me for a long time when I was young. These are all things that can only be really understood after becoming a father.

Changes in family relationships: When I first got married, I couldn't handle the relationship between my original family and my own family, and I often let myself fall into the feeling of "splints". After having children, as I grow up with my children, I gradually untie many of my knots, and I can more clearly recognize who I am, what my responsibilities are, and what I want most.

Then with his own adjustment, the family relationship is also more harmonious, Zheng Gaopao just finished the 11th wedding anniversary with his wife two days ago, and we all feel that we are living happily now.

Therefore, every time I recall the time after having a child, I will sincerely say to my child: baby, thank you for making me a father, thank you for letting me grow up with you, and thank you for all the joy and happiness you bring!

Here are some habits that can slowly change a person's personality or life:

1.Insist on waking up early and going to bed early, and cultivate a good biological clock, which can help improve the concentration and mental state.

2.Exercising regularly can boost your fitness, improve your mood, and help build self-confidence.

3.Cultivating the habit of reading and taking some time to read some useful books every day will help improve one's self-cultivation and develop a quiet attitude towards life.

4.Learning to control emotions, vent emotions in a timely manner and maintain a good attitude can help improve interpersonal relationships and enhance personal resilience.

5.Learning to arrange time reasonably and controlling the use of time can complete work and affairs more effectively and improve work efficiency.

6.Smiling every day and maintaining a positive, cheerful attitude when interacting with people can help build good relationships, boost self-confidence and develop an optimistic attitude towards life.

7.Cultivate hobbies and interests, find something you like, and enhance your quality of life and sense of spiritual abundance.

These small habits may seem simple, but they do have the ability to change a person's personality or life in subtle ways, allowing people to have a more positive and healthy attitude towards life.