My ex boyfriend and my classmate are getting married, I m very sad, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-14
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In the process of cong accompanying us in our interactions with people, friends and lovers are the closest people we have to be other than our relatives. ......In the process of associating with them, a situation may arise where one's friends are associating with their ex. At this time, different people have different opinions on how they feel and how to deal with it.

    Specifically, there are three situations in which a good friend is comfortable with his or her ex, an awkward person who accepts their relationship, and a good friend who is unable to accept a relationship with his ex.

    1. Fully accept and calmly face the situation of a good friend and his ex.

    For some people, they can accept that a good friend is in a relationship with their ex. ......These people's opinion is that although their ex once had a relationship with them, they no longer have any relationship, and who she is dating has nothing to do with them. It's perfectly okay for her good friends to associate with her, and she will accept it calmly.

    2. It's acceptable for them to interact with each other, but they will feel embarrassed.

    There are also people who are comfortable with their best friends and their ex, but they feel more embarrassed. ......The reason why this is the case is because these people understand that their good friends can associate with the people they like, and that their ex has no relationship with them. But when he faces his good friend and his ex together, he always feels more embarrassed in his heart, so he has some unfriendly friends in his heart.

    3. Unable to accept good friends and their ex, and there are conflicts between each other.

    In addition to the above two cases, there is also a situation where some people are completely unacceptable to their good friends in a relationship with their ex. ......They may even think that their best friend was in the way of breaking up with their ex. ......These people may have a conflict with their good friends for this reason.

    Such a situation is the one that has the greatest impact on each other, and may even lead to the end of the friendship between good friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It shows that you still have him in your heart, you care about him very much, and you still miss him a little.

    I wish you a happy day, if there is a shortcoming, you can continue to ask, if you are satisfied, thank you, o(o.

    Answer. It's just a dream.

    You're worried about losing him.

    That's why I think so.

    So cherish him.

    People are busy but not busy; The brain is busy, and the people don't stop; [When people are not busy or too busy, their minds are confused, this is why people often dream] The busy affairs of things make people dream; Many of them dream and there are many illusions; Don't take it to heart; Don't forget to order.

    Haha, congratulations, you have finally let go of the past and started a new journey, because dreams are reversed. Since you dreamed that your ex-boyfriend deducted you after getting married, and you cried very sadly, that means that in reality you will be very happy.

    Everyone has had that experience and it's something that has to be experienced. Every complete youth will go through one or more times, remember that the world will not stop without him, and life will go on. You've experienced a desperate love, and you still owe a trip that you just said you would go, hehe, what do you think!

    I've had this happen a lot. I think it's like this: during the day, the mood is not very good, but because of wakefulness, the brain consciousness is controlled by the intellect, and the bad emotions will be temporarily suppressed.

    But when we fall asleep at night, we ourselves are in a state of complete relaxation, and at this time the sensibility is greater than the rationality, and we no longer accept the control of the rationality, but let the sensibility flow.

    It's just a dream, don't take it seriously, live a real life steadfastly.

    Considering the baby's situation, crying suddenly is very sad, maybe it is a nightmare, it's okay, it's normal. It is recommended that you pay attention to observe the baby's demeanor, try to give the baby more comfort, usually let the baby drink more water, you can give the baby an appropriate new mud food, such as apple puree, banana puree, pumpkin puree, jujube puree, fish puree, vegetable puree;

    A place with an entertainment atmosphere makes it easier to get things done! You might as well ask customers out to eat or sing K, the relaxed atmosphere is better to talk! Your study status is starting to turn around, and you're ready to start preparing for a big revision plan!

    If you go it alone, a lot of unexpected situations will arise and catch you off guard! Prepare a few more contingency plans to be prepared!

    It shows that your ex-boyfriend has a very close relationship with you, and he will appear in your heart from time to time, so there is such a dream, and it is not good if you have the problem of talking in dreams.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My ex-boyfriend is getting married, but I still love him, what should I do? I didn't think about it quickly, and I've been getting news of my ex-boyfriend's marriage for the past two years. I haven't forgotten him!

    My ex-boyfriend got married, and I can't forget what he did? Two years ago, he contacted me, and I clearly remember: we were not suitable.

    At that time, I was unacceptable for the reason, an "inappropriate" negation of all previous negations, and I do not think that many people calmly accepted it?

    But I'm not the kind of person who likes to die. Although I also wanted to save, he kept hiding, the phone didn't connect, the text messages didn't come back, the only one who took me about mine, it gave me a birthday present.

    Yes, I only have a one-week birthday. He said: I have already bought it for this birthday present, or give it to you, it will be good.

    I've been thinking about it. Why you want to give me a gift. But after hesitating for a long time, without waiting for me to say anything, he had already turned around.

    I was holding a gift that day and I didn't say anything. Of course, psychological threats have always been in the truest thoughts. Turning around, I hit the gift and cried, my heart squatted countless "births", and that year, unaccompanied, it was bleak.

    However, the boyfriend has become an ex-boyfriend, and then, I heard that he is going to be married for two years. The news of his upcoming marriage is still what friends told me.

    In fact, I have my ex-boyfriend's WeChat, and because we didn't entangle each other, we didn't delete friends, but I didn't want to see his messages every day, so I blocked his friends. Occasionally, I couldn't help but see it, but I didn't expect to see it for a while, and it was so. This.

    Yesterday I saw their ** among his friends. The girl is not very pretty, but the smile is very good. He used to say that he likes girls who like to laugh, and I thought, should they be very happy now?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's good if you bury this love in your heart, after all, everyone is getting married, and they are already their husbands, why do you still need to worry about it, no matter how much you like him and love him, he won't be yours.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think everyone already has a wife, what do you think people can do? Aren't you guilty of being cheap? Let's look for the next relationship!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In this case, you can only choose to let go, and you must bless your ex-boyfriend from the bottom of your heart, after all, everyone is getting married, don't destroy your ex-boyfriend's happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think you can try to get back your ex-boyfriend, if the other party has made up his mind, I think you should completely let go, after all, the twisted melon is not sweet, or you should adjust your mentality.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I wish him happiness generously, let go of this relationship, you can travel by yourself, relax your heart, and then talk about a relationship again.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think you should cut ties with him. Because he is very happy now. It's okay to wish him happiness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think you should give up in time, because you should not bother each other when the relationship is over, and you will be very troubled by your ex-boyfriend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you should let go of each other completely, you should wish your ex-boyfriend happiness, and you shouldn't pester your ex-boyfriend anymore.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Find someone who really loves you to have a vigorous relationship, let yourself know what it's like to be loved, and get out of this relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I wish them happiness and sever ties with him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Now that you know that he is a father, whether you have a family or not, you must silently bless him and stop disturbing other people's lives. There is nothing to be reluctant about, and this may be the best arrangement.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Put away your unwillingness, find your own happiness again, and don't do things that destroy other people's families.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Personally, I think that since your ex is married and has children, there shouldn't be too much involvement at this time, and it's better to take a look.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It depends on the situation, if you want to meet, just meet once, as a farewell to the past, and bless him, as long as you don't overstep, if you don't want to see him, refuse it, and avoid misunderstandings.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    My ex-boyfriend is going back to school, he's married, and he wants to meet, what should I do?

    In the lonely night, I once again asked myself, "Do I really love you?" "Do you really love me too?

    No one can answer me. The quiet night added a loneliness and loneliness to me! So, I just need to let myself be alone again to enjoy this loneliness, this loneliness, this tranquility.

    It's as if your voice is ringing in my ears, as if you're kind by my side. When I tried to look for you in the dark, I realized that you were like air.

    I can't catch you, just as you can't catch my beating but shaky heart! You can't see the pain in my heart, and you can't see a scar in my heart. No one ever lit a lamp in my heart anymore, and no one could really read the sorrow in my heart.

    Dreams are indeed beautiful, but I am always with you in my dreams. I know that I have come out of your dreams, and that the person in your dreams will never be me again, so a sadness, a pain, arises.

    My ex-boyfriend who went to college together for 2 years, he went to work after graduation, and later got married, a few days ago, my ex-boyfriend called me ** and said that he wanted to come back, saying that he wanted to see me, I refused, but he insisted, and even begged, I softened, in fact, I also wanted to see in my heart, but I was afraid that I had no dignity, what should I do, I didn't know what to say when I met, I was self-contradictory, and I was very busy at the end of the semester, because this matter affected my studies.

    If I had a choice, I would rather not know you, I would not let myself fall in love with you, and I would not want to give you scars! I am struggling in pain, I am indulging everything you have in my pain, and I know that this is your punishment for me.

    At this moment, I can no longer feel my place in your heart, nor can I feel your deep eyes and persistent love. I wonder what I'm going to get in the end for such a you? Is it also an unspeakable pain?

    Love, I can't say that it hurts, I have to endure it; But can tears not let it fall? No, because I was already in tears.

    I don't know how long it will take me to truly forget you, and I don't know if I still have the courage to miss you. However, I know that this love of mine, this heartache, will be with me for a long, long time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you meet alone, you won't go, and you can still meet with friends, otherwise you feel as if you can't let him go.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    He is already married, there is no need to meet again, if the scene is touched because of the meeting, the two are getting back together, so I feel very sorry for my ex-boyfriend's wife, don't do such an inauthentic thing.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The best thing to do is to ignore the other party, let alone see him alone, because after all, the previous relationship has passed, and more importantly, he is also married, so don't find unhappiness for yourself and him, let the past go with the wind, and grasp the present is the best.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If it were me, I wouldn't have met him, after all, he was married, and having a family and having dealings with him would have a very bad impact on me.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Go and meet, otherwise there will be no three hundred taels of silver here.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Adjust your mentality, and since he is married, let yourself wish him happiness from the bottom of your heart.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Adjust your state, people are already married, and there is no need to meet, and if you meet occasionally, you can just say hello normally.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I don't think it's better to meet again, because he is already married, and his ex-girlfriend has a special status, so he has to avoid suspicion.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    My ex-boyfriend is going back to school He's married What should I do if I want to meet I didn't think you had to meet him Now that he's all married, this kind of meeting is unnecessary.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Personally, I think don't meet, you must refuse, no matter what the reason, he is already married, there is no possibility for the two of you, let go by yourself, and be responsible for yourself.

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