My boyfriend, who was about to get married, told me that I didn t know what to do when I broke up

Updated on psychology 2024-04-16
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Do you love him? Or do you feel unwilling that there is no return for three years of effort?

    Does he love you? People who are not good at expressing themselves, even if there is dissatisfaction, he hides it in his heart until it explodes, recall, have you done a lot of things that he is dissatisfied with? Maybe he thinks it's hard.

    If you're sure that there are a lot of things you can't change on your own, it's better to let them go.

    Surround yourself with someone who has decided not to love you may not be happy in the future.

    What's more, there is not only one tree in the world, he is just not suitable for you, and there is the next one.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Stay the course. I also believe that He loves you.

    It's just that he's afraid he won't be able to give you a rich life.

    I'm afraid you'll suffer.

    I know it's because of me, he's like this, and I'm the guy who can't hold back anything, but he doesn't want to say anything, and he carries everything himself. )

    He also used to support me in finding someone who was rich and could give me happiness. But when I did, we realized that it wasn't what I wanted, it wasn't what he wanted, but that was all in the past. We've been married now, it's been half a year, and we're doing well now, although it's not very rich, but after all, we're together, working hard for the future, and we're tired and sweet.

    Tell him what you want.

    You must understand that you don't have everything with money, people come to this world empty-handed, and it is the same when they leave. People are so brittle now, I can't tell when they left this world. So don't let yourself regret it as long as you're alive. Don't leave regrets.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Reconcile. I think he's impulsive. That's why I often talk about breaking up. Later regretted it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You need to find a time to sit down and have a good talk, find out the root of the problem, and untie the knot in his heart! Even if you're going to break up, you have to break up clearly!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If all remedies fail, then it is better to recover yourself as soon as possible.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Misunderstandings and dissatisfaction should be resolved in a timely manner.

    Personality incompatibility, noisy, too tired to get along, anyway, love happiness can last a long time. I care about each other very much, and I just care more about it.

    Between lovers, communicate more. What do you think, tell the truth, and communicate well.

    Whether you have a future or not, whether you can be happy depends on whether you can manage this love well. Learn to be tolerant, learn to cherish, respect and love each other, treat each other honestly, and exchange sincerity for truth, and the future will definitely be beautiful!

    * Tell her to get away.

    This time your description is more detailed, he is likely to have a new love, and his feelings for you are also fading, and he blacked you out because he was afraid of facing you, after all, there are still some feelings, don't try to redeem him, it's useless, live your own life.

    Peace of mind. Not horseback riding.

    Do not ride a bull. Riding a mule in the middle of the stream.

    Suppose you are number one, your best friend is number two. He's going to fight for the first place. That's the case.

    It shows that he really loves you, and he has already planned you for his future days. o(∩_o~

    There are two possibilities: first, she cares about you and just doesn't want to get married for the time being, and second, he hasn't found a good home and doesn't want to share with you for the time being. For the time being, don't reply to the message to see if he hits ** or come to you, if not, just divide it, no matter how much you love, don't look back, don't do it.

    If he comes to you, it means that he still cares about you.

    My suggestion is that you can try to change him, and don't be too kind to him and wronged yourself, give you a chance, a little time, and at the same time pay attention to him, and wait for you to work steadily, and then look back at the relationship to see what his attitude towards you is before making a decision.

    To love someone is to love everything about her! Everyone has some gray past! I don't believe he's so white!

    Why does he care about your past! Are you making excuses or shirking! Or find comfort in your heart!

    Maybe the person he loves the most is not you! Because in tradition! When you offer to marry him!

    He won't hesitate to say yes!

    Not ready to get married. Don't want to be responsible. Looks like I'm not very happy with you. Find someone who loves you very much, and you don't want to marry! will be happier.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, he just wanted to get a reasonable explanation.

    1. Don't commit a crime.

    2. Emotional matters, you had better solve them properly with the other party. Otherwise, things can be big or small.

    If it has interfered with your life, you can call the police.

    Do you love him very much? Why doesn't his mother like you? If it's because of external reasons such as money, height, and proximity, if you really can't let it go, just fight for the last time, then the man still listens to the fuck, and the mushroom is cool and leave as soon as possible!

    This kind of man is not worth your hardships in the future if you don't leave! Although it is said that persuasion is not persuasion, but in this case, I don't think there is any need to be nostalgic anymore, because even if you say that you have moved him, he is so unassertive, and you will not have a good time in the future, so why bother?

    If you're sure you don't want him to be your boyfriend, don't give him hope anymore, or you'll get more and more entangled.

    Falling in love is not about your parents, it's about you.

    You can judge for yourself whether this man is good or not.

    In our lives, it is impossible to love only one person, but there is often one person who makes you smile the sweetest, makes you hurt the deepest, and often has a beautiful wound that becomes a part of your body that cannot be healed! Because of strangeness, so brave, because of distance, so beautiful.

    There is always an umbrella that has been holding for you for a long time, and refuses to accept it when the rain stops; There is always someone who takes you very seriously and will not throw you away if they lose anything. Always standing behind you, always on your side when you call; Always walking with you, always comforting your heart when you are helpless.

    Hello, I don't think you need to worry, your boyfriend will notify you before he scares you into committing suicide, turn off your phone and go to sleep! Let him know that this trick won't work for you!

    I don't think you need to worry, your boyfriend will notify you before he scares you into committing suicide, turn off your phone and go to sleep! Let him know that this trick won't work for you!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If your boyfriend says something like this, immediately give him the hardest slap and tell him with a loud slap that delaying his mother's youth will make him regret it for the rest of his life. Turn around and pack all your luggage and leave this nest that isn't worth the effort. Find a boy who is more handsome, richer than him, taller than him, and kinder than him to be his boyfriend.

    A man who has been in a relationship with you for two years and then tells you to break up shows that he doesn't love you at all. You're just a consumable for him to spend his time. There is no true love for you at all.

    It's a waste of your life for you to say a word to himLeave him at once, leave this boring man who consumes your life and youth.

    The most important thing for girls is to love themselves, cherish their bodies, and cherish their youthEvery bit of your affection is precious, and there is no need to pay for someone who doesn't love you in vain. Girls should love calmly and walk resolutely. Who hasn't loved two scumbags in his life.

    Pack up your youth and emotions and love someone who is truly worthy of your love. Go hand in hand through the ups and downs of life.

    As sung in "Ask", if a woman is always trapped by love and always waits until late at night, he will be true to you. A boy who loves you, protects you, and takes care of you needs time to run in and pursue. A girl's youth is so precious, when she meets a scumbag, she has to let him get out of here.

    This love, just like **, an excellent and true boy needs time to find it. Finding true love is the greatest happiness in a woman's life. is like what a girl said in a blind date show, if a girl wants to be happy, she must take the initiative and dare to love and hate.

    Look at Faye Wong, the queen of heaven, who has had a bumpy love road in her life, but she is confident and independent, and she lives the way all women want.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1.Let's go.

    2.You don't need to rely on others.

    3.Live your life to the fullest.

    4.Be yourself.

    5.Strive for the goal.

    6.Think of him as a stepping stone in life.

    7.Leave mercilessly.

    8.Be an accomplished version of yourself.

    9.Make a difference.

    10.Make an effort to learn a wide variety of techniques.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it's okay to break up, such a man is not worth nostalgia, and he can't keep being so ruthless.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then divide it up and accept someone who chases you and immediately replaces him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course it can't stand it, so don't go to the test of stupidity.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's all on this side, then turn around in style

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Break up, just break up, you must have done a good job in that place, reflect on yourself, get together and disperse.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If it's not suitable, it's not right to get married, it's not right to get married, it's not right to fall in love, it's just to see if two people are suitable, it's good to talk about it, and it's not a big deal if it doesn't work.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Then break up and find someone who is better than him and loves him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Go, go decisively! Learn and become excellent!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Break up decisively, who can't live?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Me and my boyfriend? Sentimental?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Your boyfriend forced you to get married and you said you broke up, so why don't you want to break up now?

    From your short description, it can be seen that you are simply killing your feelings in this way. If your boyfriend doesn't answer the phone and doesn't reply to the text messages, it means that he is really disappointed in you, doesn't want to continue with you, and doesn't want to have any contact with you.

    Boyfriend** doesn't answer, text messages don't reply, but he once wanted to marry you, which means that he still cares about you in his heart, It's just that you said something hurtful, and it has directly poked his heart.

    If you don't want to break up and want to redeem yourself, you have to appease his heart that was hurt by you first, he is afraid to be with you now, and you will hurt him as before, so you should eliminate his concerns first.

    If you don't reply to your messages, do you love you or not? This kind of ex-boyfriend should be redeemed in this way.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    He wants to get married, you don't want to get married, do you want to be in love forever? And if you don't want to get married and say that you broke up, you can take advantage of the fact that he ignores you now and you break up completely. In addition, a man who wants to marry you will not easily say that he will break up, unless you break her heart.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Since you want to divide it, then it's better to divide it like this. So you want to divide, so be it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hello. According to your description, your boyfriend violated your right to freedom to marry. According to Chinese law, citizens have the right to decide on their own whether or not to enter into a marriage relationship, and no one else is allowed to coerce, arrange or interfere with the parties against their will.

    Article 257 of the Criminal Law stipulates that anyone who violently interferes with the freedom of marriage of another person shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or criminal detention; and where the death of the victim is caused, a sentence of between 2 and 7 years imprisonment is to be given.

    It is recommended that you calm your boyfriend's emotions first, and the two of you can communicate well under the premise of calm and rationality, and explain your thoughts to him clearly. Marriage should be based on the premise of both parties' willingness, and it is normal for two people to break up if their personalities are not suitable in today's society, so that he can accept these emotionally first, and do not cause bad consequences because of impulsive anger, which is a great harm to everyone.

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