A joke can solve everything

Everyone has a temper, and so do parents. Mom may not really mean to speak, maybe she thinks it's a waste of electricity to turn on two or something, she is an elder, no matter what, you can't be serious with them, and it's not a big deal, trivial things, when you haven't heard it, forget it.

Quarrels are all small things, but people are careful in front of big things.

You have to slowly master the skills of receiving people and things, whether it is your mother or people in society in the future.

When you do it properly, people with status will not talk about you, and people without identity will talk about you nonsense, but it shows that they are not high or low.

To develop yourself, whether it is personality, IQ and other aspects - teenagers have immeasurable prospects, don't stick to family members, ambitions can't be so small, you have to look far. But if you start a family and have great achievements, you have to rely on yourself, how can you count on your parents.

Since it's your mother joking with you, why take it so seriously.

Knowing a son is like a father, knowing a son is like a mother.

Will they not understand their son.

Sometimes, whether it's the duties of your parents, or the interrogation, everyone is happy, so why not do it.

Besides, your mom has realized that she has gone too far, otherwise she wouldn't have looked for the steps.

Since your mother has given you the steps, go down the slope.

Not everything can be solved with a joke, but what your mother said is also a little wrong, but if you can back down, the scene will not be ugly.

Of course not, but you can't be careful in life, otherwise it will make the people around you feel that it is difficult to get along with you and gradually alienate you, I suggest that you look at anything around you with a normal heart, treat others well is to be kind to yourself, cherish what you have now, and don't leave any regrets.

Don't talk about such trivial things. 、。The next day, it was all right.

It's not a little bit, it's not going to be coquettish.

I forgot all about this on the second day.

I believe that everyone has experienced a similar situation, whether it is becoming a target or being bullied by others, the experience has made us more aware that the so-called jokes, in daily life, some people bully others in the name of jokes, and this behavior causes great harm to the other party. Specifically, this kind of seemingly joking bullying includes deliberately giving the other party an ugly nickname, joking about the other party's shortcomings, and deliberately belittling the other party.

deliberately give the other party an ugly nickname, and once the other party gets angry, say it's a joke.

In our daily lives, we often encounter situations where we give people nicknames. Nicknames between familiar people, and the nickname does not have a bad meaning, this situation is a real joke, not only will not affect the feelings between each other, but also can make each other get along more harmoniously. Some people take this opportunity to deliberately give people hidden nicknames, and the meaning of nicknames contains derogatory elements.

To do so is to deliberately bully people.

Jokes about the other person's shortcomings are actually deliberately bullying the other party.

Each of us has our own shortcomings, and this is a normal thing. In our daily interactions, we all avoid mentioning each other's shortcomings so as not to cause harm to each other. Some people deliberately embarrass each other by saying their shortcomings.

If the other person is angry, he will say that it is a joke and avoid the situation where he deliberately bullies others.

Deliberately joking about belittling the other person is actually bullying the other party.

Each of us will have a corresponding evaluation of the people around us. Some of these reviews are good and some are bad. Some people will take advantage of this opportunity to bully people.

Specifically, they will deliberately belittle someone in front of everyone and cause harm to the other person. In conclusion, joking is an act of bullying and should be stopped

Cracking is a way to make people feel light-hearted, often to strengthen friendships or ease tension. However, if the joke is not done in the right way, it can turn into an act that hurts others. In my life, I've seen some cases of bullying people in the name of making jokes.

The first is "pranks". Some people think that pranks are a fun way to be mischievous, but in some cases, it can lead to undesirable consequences. For example, a person may put talcum powder in someone else's drink, causing the other person's throat to be upset.

This behavior not only hurts the other person, but can also lead to serious health problems.

The second type is the "mouth beard". Some people will say something embarrassing when they joke about it, which they call "mouth beard". For example, someone may make others feel ashamed and embarrassed by their looks, height, occupation, etc.

Not only does this behavior have no value, but it can also make others feel uncomfortable and have a negative impact on the solidity of the friendship.

The third is "teasing". Some people tease others in order to get their attention or elicit a reaction from them. However, some people may cross the line and slow down the grip too much.

For example, someone will slap someone on the neck or head, or make inappropriate movements on someone. Not only is this behavior unwelcome, but the stamper is very dirty and disgusting.

These bullies seem to be just "joking", but in fact they are insulting and hurting others. We should be aware of the impact our words and actions have on others, and if our actions upset others, we should apologize immediately as a way to rebuild friendships. In joking, we can't ignore respect and love for others, otherwise the "joke" may turn out worse than expected.

When faced with a friend's pranks, how to grasp the scale of the joke is a very important skill for Hailsong. Here are some suggestions from waiters::

1.Make sure you're respectful: Whatever the situation, make sure your jokes don't hurt the feelings of friends or others. For those who are close to you, you may be able to talk about the issue of scale before making a joke.

2.Don't attack personal identity characteristics: Jokes need to be made with respect for personal identity characteristics such as age, gender, race, etc. Don't make others feel discriminated against or disrespected.

3.Proper scale: Proper banter can promote harmony in relationships, but excessive or inappropriate banter can cause misunderstandings, tension, or conflict. Caution needs to be taken to determine the scale of the joke.

4.If a friend is uncomfortable: If a friend expresses discomfort or doesn't like your joke, respect their feelings and stop joking.

When apologizing to a friend, you can reconfirm what was wrong with your joke to avoid the negative impact of the joke.

The scale of jokes may vary depending on the environment and non-linguistic factors. When choosing to make a joke, it should be evaluated based on a variety of factors such as the relationship between friends, each other's background, culture and beliefs. If you can respect the feelings of others, respect different cultural backgrounds and beliefs, and at the same time have fun with jokes, it can be a very meaningful and beneficial component of friendship.

Don't get angry, learn to smile. If you are angry, you will fall into the hands of others, and you will leave a bad image of caution on others.

I didn't care about it at the time, but after the joke, if Pi Zhebu was still uncomfortable, he would vent it.

Keep a journal. This way is conducive to relieving inner discomfort. Although sometimes other people's jokes are not intentional, but there will still be a little uncomfortable in the heart, and can not show it, at this time, you can take, write a diary of the burning sui, the inner joke and the dissatisfaction and complaints about the person who made the joke to write out, it is much easier to write.

Facing the sea and shouting loudly is the ultimate relaxation, and after shouting, the heart is much calmer.

Make jokes about others. This is the highest level, and learning to make jokes about others also takes the initiative.

If there is a joke that can be made, you still have to be angry, everyone is principled, once someone else crosses this principle in their own heart, then don't bear to be angry.

Although joking can add to the joke on some occasions, it can sometimes bring trouble and even bad luck. I sometimes joke with my colleagues, but one time I almost made an unforgivable mistake.

One year, during the Spring Festival, several colleagues got together and I was invited to attend. While drinking, I saw a colleague with whom I had a very good relationship come with his wife. I made a joke and said, "Xiao Zhang, isn't the daughter-in-law you received last time next to you?" ”

Who knows, after I said this, his wife's face changed. Although I didn't have a seizure, I was not in a good mood, and several other colleagues rushed to give me a look.

I know I'm in trouble. He quickly smiled and said to his wife, "Brother and sister, you must lock the door from the inside tonight and prevent him from coming home." I want to see, what was he like when he was bullied by his wife? ”

After I finished saying this, his wife was happy and said, "Brother Chen, if you lend him a gut, will he dare?" ”

I learned afterwards that the colleague's wife had been suspicious of her husband for a long time. Thankfully, I made his wife immediately feel that it was a joke, and it was only by saving the colleague a family upset.

I don't think you can joke about things that violate a person's bottom line of principles, and if you joke about this kind of thing, it will hurt your feelings.

In real life, a proper joke between people can liven up the atmosphere and even enhance the relationship between people. Just kidding, you must grasp a degree, you can't make excessive jokes, if the key quietly goes beyond this degree, it will be incomprehensible, and even a little suspected of bullying.

Post other people's privacy to the group.

I saw a report a few days ago, a college roommate, you bully a girl in the name of a joke, and you tease the girl to change her clothes and send it to the group, I think this belongs to pure bullying. Changing a girl's clothes is originally a personal privacy issue, this is not a simple joke, but a kind of disrespect for people, and it is ugly for others. Such behavior is absolutely inexcusable.

People should learn to put themselves in their shoes, how would you feel if others did the same as you?

Feel free to give others nicknames.

We have found that some people tend to grasp the flaws or weaknesses of others, be nicknamed by others, and then spread this nickname. I think it's bullying as well. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and you can't make fun of others just because they have flaws or shortcomings.

There are flaws in this, so we have to redouble our respect for each other, to care for each other, and to make each other feel a kind of warmth and love.

Just kidding, regardless of the occasion.

We all know that jokes should be divided into occasions, for example, a roommate in a dormitory, it doesn't matter if it's a dormitory situation, but you must not make jokes in public. Some people don't pay attention to this, regardless of the occasion, without any sense of proportion, the purpose is to embarrass others and let others be laughed at by everyone.

In short, people should still respect each other, understand each other, don't joke with others at will, and don't bully others in the name of joking, which is despicable.