Write an essay on the foresight of only oneself is one s mirror , 700 words 40

Give yourself a mirror Today, I suddenly remembered that the ancients once said that the most difficult thing to see is actually yourself, and it is not bad to think about it for me.

I used to think I had the ability to see a lot of things, but I didn't. I can put a math problem.

The analysis is very clear (certainly not the kind that is beyond my ability), today I understand the truth of this question, tomorrow it is.

Again, the truth is true. But I think there's one thing that's not like that, and that's me.

For a long time, my entire experience has focused on learning knowledge. For life, he has always pursued a saint-like way of doing things.

And I neglected a need in the deepest part of my soul. It can be said that it is not until today, at this moment, that I really feel it.

To the real that is needed.

Once, whenever I felt that I vaguely felt that need, I would suppress it with a more powerful spiritual force.

Get down. This may be due to the teenager's habit of deliberately suppressing himself because his needs cannot be met many times.

Yet, throughout the year, one person has constantly shaken my suppression of this need.

This need is to love someone.

If I hadn't had this need, I wouldn't have felt great pain at this moment. However, if I hadn't recognized such a need, my life and emotions would not have been complete. So, in the midst of my great pain, I admit that I had such a need.

Target. I want to love someone.

Perhaps it is puzzling why it is painful to want to love someone. It's not a very natural, very good thing.

Is it? But the problem is that, for me, I didn't realize this until today, and it was for one person. If not.

This person I will not recognize this, I will not suffer. With this person, I will not know it too late, and I will not be in pain.

However, with such a person, I had an epiphany a year later, but after my epiphany, I could no longer find her.

We can use Li Shimin's history as a mirror. ......Let's start.

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Rule 1: Look at the inside from the outside, and see yourself from others. It is through others that you can know who you really are.

What you see in others is actually yourself.

Our opinions about others depend primarily on what they make us see for ourselves, not how we see them.

All your relationships are mirrors through which you can know who you really are.

In the process of discovering the other person, you are unconsciously discovering yourself. To understand his feelings, thoughts, you also understand yourself better, and you become a mirror of each other.

If you feel that your partner has lost enthusiasm for you, it may be because you have also lost enthusiasm for him; As one marriage expert put it, "If our marriage becomes boring, it may be because I feel boring, or worse, I'm boring as a person." ”

In fact, the people who disgust you are helping you, they help you understand yourself and make you discover your dark side. That's why the more intimate we are with someone, the more likely we are to be disgusted, because they let you see who you really are.

The most annoying thing about others is usually the place where you can't stand yourself the most.

Rule 2: What kind of person you are, you will think others are like. The part that you can't tolerate others is the part that you can't tolerate yourself.

A person with bad moral character will doubt the character of others; A person who is disloyal to others will also doubt the loyalty of others to him; A person who is not upright and immoral will "think crookedly" of any action of others, because he is that kind of person. A person who thinks about other women will naturally be suspicious of his own woman. It is often the annoying person who always encounters annoying things.

People who like to find fault with others are actually the ones who have the most faults; People who like to talk nonsense, in fact, they are the most indiscriminate.

If you lose your temper, you will think that others are often angry with you, and everything can become a reason for your anger. It's not that everything is wrong, it's that you project, you project what is hidden within yourself onto others. You condemn everyone and everything, because you have so much anger that even a little thing can ignite anger.

It's a small thing, but in my memory, it's definitely not a small thing. In the years of my life, it will teach me a simple but profound truth for a long time: others are a mirror of oneself.

During the winter vacation of that year, my aunt took my younger brother all the way from Guiyang to Wenzhou as a guest. Early in the morning, my mother pulled me out of bed and braved the cold wind to pick up my aunt at the airport. I haven't seen my brother in many years, and although I miss it a little, I still feel very uncomfortable waiting for the plane to land in the cold wind on a winter morning.

I complained to my mother, but my mother ignored me, saying that this is the etiquette that a master should do, and you are not small, how can you be so ignorant. I couldn't find anything to excuse myself, just sulking on the sidelines. The belated plane finally landed at the airport, and the younger brother was dressed up very fashionably, wearing a light blue snow coat, a hat buttoned on his head, holding a delicate small leather bag in one hand, and holding a mobile phone in the other hand to report safety to his family.

Looking at his dress, somehow, my heart was pantothenic, maybe my mother didn't buy me such fashionable clothes, or maybe I was older than him, but I still didn't have the qualifications to use a mobile phone. When my brother saw me, he greeted me warmly, but I tilted my head and ignored him. My brother pretended not to see my face, turned his head to greet my mother, and threw himself affectionately into my mother's arms.

Mom gently stroked his head and said, "It's growing up fast, it's almost time to catch up with Yiren." Hearing my mother's words, the sourness in my heart became stronger, and I pursed my lips fiercely, glared at him, and walked to the side.

My brother also secretly glared at me after greeting my mother, and his lips moved slightly, and I knew from the movement of his lips that he was saying "nasty". When I got home, I went upstairs alone to play computer games, and I didn't show any enthusiasm at all because there were a few more guests in the house. My mother called me downstairs, and I pretended not to hear, but I heard my mother say to my aunt, "What's wrong with this kid today?"

I sulked and banged on the keyboard. My aunt stayed at my house for the night and took my younger brother to visit relatives. After my brother left, my mother pulled me into the room and asked me why I treated the guests in such a way.

All I said was, "It's not cool, what's wrong." "My mother knows my mind very well, and she can already see my thoughts from my face. She just sighed and said:

If you don't respect others, how do you want others to respect you? My mother didn't give me an answer, and after a few years, I understood the truth contained in this sentence: what you give is a smile, and what you get in return is joy; What is given is jealousy, and what is reciprocated can only be bitterness.