My anxious girlfriend wanted to test and test me

From what you said above, it can be seen that your girlfriend likes you very much. As a woman, she must know how to be kind, and girls will inevitably be shy and loving. It may be that she has been hurt by something, or that there may be some hindrance in her heart.

You must not bear it, isn't it true that men and women should be honest with each other? You shouldn't ask your girlfriend directly, you should put a little more thought into understanding the obstacles that stand between you, solve them sooner, and be happy sooner!

Now there's a kind of girl who wants a boy to have a treat, but who can protect herself very well, and that boy is a fool like the landlord.

Hey. You say this proves that you don't love her deep enough, that she is insecure. So I hope to get more care and love from you, girls are used to hurt, it doesn't matter if you don't catch it, you are more and more neglected about her, and girls are worried about this.

If you want to pull it, pull it Men have been for a month, and they don't even feel pulled? She doesn't think you like her? It's not disrespectful to hold hands, go pull it!

It's so dizzy, you ignore him for a few days to see if she cares about you.

Distance matters.

She should like you.

Be determined to be bigger, you

Be broad-minded

This is quite normal for the average couple.

This is not a test for you.

I suspect she didn't love you with all her heart.

I don't know if she's empty...

Hey, that's from my experience.

A different matter for a few people.

You go to die, you just want to make inches, you scum!

Endure until she lets you pull.

That's when the test is over.

You also leave the point, the so-called far fragrance near smell.

Always. Until she fully trusts you for it.

Except for "throwing tantrums and deliberately finding trouble", it's almost the same as the girl I love now.

Last time I deliberately took her hand, and afterwards sent me a text message saying that I had lost my temper - but I decided to wait for her as long as I could

In fact, the relationship between two people needs to be maintained by two people, if two people continue to be on the same pace, the relationship between two people may become strange, and finally may disintegrate. Therefore, things in the relationship need to be maintained and paid by two people, and temptations and tests will only make the relationship between two people unfamiliar.

First, choose Communication.

If your girlfriend always likes to test and test herself in various ways, she will definitely feel uncomfortable as a boyfriend at this time. Because the boyfriend will feel that his efforts are not rewarded, and even feel that all his efforts are in vain. Therefore, when there is such a problem in the relationship between two people, what is needed is for two people to sit down and communicate patiently, and both parties can express their inner thoughts and incomprehensions.

Only smooth communication will not cause contradictions between two people.

Second, be tolerant of each other.

In fact, each of us is not perfect, and each of us will have such and such shortcomings, so we can't ask each other to be perfect in the relationship. If it is demanding, it will only make the contradiction between two people deeper and deeper. Therefore, in a relationship, we must learn to be tolerant, only by tolerating each other, can we get along well, and can we maintain the relationship between two people.

Temptations and tests will only make two people drift apart.

Finally, progress together.

In fact, the relationship between two people is also a process of constantly encountering problems and solving problems. The same is true in the relationship, when there is a problem, two people must be honest with each other, and at the same time, they must work together to face the problem and solve the problem. In this way, two people can progress and grow together in the process of solving problems, so that the relationship between two people will get better and better, and become more and more harmonious.

In the vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet someone who truly loves you, so you must cherish the person next to you.

Girlfriends always like to test themselves in various ways, on the one hand, accept the test of your girlfriend, but also find opportunities to explain your feelings to your girlfriend, be sincere with each other, and solve conflicts and problems!

To accept this temptation and test of your girlfriend, since you have a clear conscience, don't be afraid of being tested, otherwise you can only break up.

You should clearly tell your girlfriend that you really like her, and only in this way can your girlfriend stop tempting you.

The best thing to do is to "play dumb", because this will make your girlfriend think that she is very smart, and she will not do it again.

I will have a good talk with my girlfriend, I will tell my girlfriend what is in my heart, and I will also tell my girlfriend that if she continues to try, I will choose to break up.

I will definitely strengthen communication with the other party, so that the other party has a sense of security, and I will stay calm and not mind too much in this situation.

will choose to break up with the other party, because this kind of life is very boring, and it is easy to make yourself mentally stressed for a long time.

When faced with feelings, women themselves are more passive, and the way they prefer is to let men guess and feel for themselves! But this is for those men who are wooden, but you guys should remember a little secret, that is, if you want to know if she really loves you, you only need to send her six words!

Actually, 2 people are together.

What is needed is trust.

What is needed is understanding.

Is that right. You door together.

You don't believe her.

Test her. Do you think it's fair to her.

Is she good to you.

If you feel like she's good to you right now.

You shouldn't have any worries either.

Take care of her wholeheartedly.

2 people together.

In each other's hearts, they all know what is going on with each other.

If there's something wrong with her, you should be aware of it, shouldn't you?

So. Now you're not thinking about tempting her.

Yes more. Love her.

Have a little confidence in yourself!

As a psychologist, I can understand the motivation behind your temptation and the reason why your girlfriend is worried. Tentative behavior can be caused by a variety of reasons, such as personal trust issues, concerns about relationship uncertainty, desire to control, and more. The girlfriend's worries may stem from concerns about the relationship between you, the instability of the Senlun or other problems.

I recommend that you start by communicating your thoughts and feelings honestly, expressing your heart's true needs, letting your girlfriend know what you think, and listening to her views and feelings on the issue. At the same time, you should also take the initiative to ask your girlfriend about the reasons behind her worries, and give her a sense of security and trust as much as possible, and work together to build a healthier, stable, respectful and trusting relationship.

In addition, it is recommended to find better ways to deal with personal emotions and emotional problems by seeking psychological counseling or participating in some emotional courses, and improve your ability to deal with emotional problems and build relationships with others.