How will my girlfriend and I live in the future? I wonder what I can do?

I'll give you some advice on your problem.

can be troubled by family factors, this so-called "love", that's it, people can't give themselves affirmation, they can't make up their minds to follow you, why do you force it. Men, you should live a little chic, and it is normal for lovers to divide and merge, but after a few times, you pay so much, and people still can't feel it, which means that people don't look down on you, or people may not have this mind now. When I get back together with you, most of them may just be because I am used to having you, and suddenly I am not used to it.

If someone else is around, they may forget about you.

If you are reluctant to let go, it means that you are not dead, but you just imply that you are dead, so since you are not dead, then you can contact if you want to, and you don't have to force yourself. People have you in their hearts, and if you don't contact her, it will only add to the trouble, and if you are sad, she will also be sad. If people don't have you in their hearts, and you don't contact her, she doesn't care at all, and you are still sad.

So, be open-minded, if people avoid you many times, then you should understand, she just doesn't want to entangle with you too much. Since you have been divided and combined so many times, you should be able to understand for yourself whether people want to live with you or just play with you.

The words may be a little more direct, but you actually know best in your own heart, and if you come here to ask, it means that you are shaken, but you lack a help, or a lack of someone, to encourage you to make a decision. Look at the point, this thing is normal, you are chic, maybe people are reluctant to let go, you twist and pinch reluctant to be reluctant to that, people think you are indecisive, women generally like atmospheric boys, understand?

She is very insecure and belongs to the avoidant love type. They are physically and emotionally distant, like to participate in outdoor activities to avoid spending too much time with their lovers, and they are different from the isolated personality, which denies their need for intimacy, while the avoidant personality shows their need for intimacy positively. They like the kind of relationship that comes and goes freely, and when they feel their need for intimacy, especially when they feel some kind of guilt or fear of abandonment, they will come out of their little world and frequently make overtures to their spouse to please each other.

When their needs are met, especially when they feel that the other person is trying to preserve this intimacy, or that they have a further need for themselves, they will immediately retreat.

I suggest you take her to a psychiatrist to adjust her condition, and if it doesn't work, then you don't torture yourself.

If you can't get the love, give it up, even if you get it, it's only short-lived, so there will be no results, give up early and get rid of it early, and then find someone who loves each other, feelings can be cultivated slowly.

Let it go, don't think about her, cut off all contact with him, and never think about her again. Leave the city that will make you sad again and again and start your new life! I wish you to find your true love in your new city as soon as possible!!

may be depressed due to various reasons, you should care more about her living habits and the like! If you have something to say, I know that you also love her, care more about her, consider some of her feelings, and communicate more! Finally, I wish you all a long life....

Reflect on whether your behavior has made your girlfriend angry, or forgot any important promises and important days, although girls are emotional animals, but they will not be angry with you for no reason.

Communicate more, talk out about what is on your mind, take your girlfriend out for a walk, and exercise.

Everyone's mood has a low period, and it is good to adjust it properly and wish happiness.

Because of some things between you, she is tired, or she is not good to say such a thing, at this time you should talk to her well, at this time you don't like her, she is more uncomfortable, love to choose... Yes.

It could be a physical problem with her, which can affect her mood. Men don't understand much.

It is true that there are still some bad habits in the countryside that favor sons over daughters, which is very wrong, but the old people's thinking has become a fixed mindset, and it is difficult for you to change it.

You said that your girlfriend is 1 year older than you, so the initiative is completely in your hands, she can't afford it, you can afford it. If you break up with your girlfriend, she is much more troublesome than you, and the urban hukou has certain advantages over the rural hukou, of course, you can't choose the strengths and weaknesses.

In this condition, you have two countermeasures:

1.Adopt a strategy of delaying the army, be vague about the future father-in-law's family, and entertain him during the New Year's holidays, but he will not give a definite answer to the matter of the son-in-law. The advantage of this is that the further time goes, the more favorable the form is for the man, and the old man on the other side can only compromise, otherwise it will only lose both.

2.Hold a meeting to explain the pros and cons, convene relatives and friends who have the right to speak and are open-minded to discuss this appropriateness openly with the parents of both sides, and explain the truth and the reasoning, as long as you can make a clear statement and use the power of the majority to put pressure on the future father-in-law, the father-in-law is likely to give up on this matter with a brain fever.

As for how to do it, the specific conditions are analyzed in detail, it is entirely up to you.

What was the purpose of her parents letting you come to the door? Do you want to retire in retirement? If that's the case, whether you come to the door or not, it's your duty and that of your wife, and you have to make that clear.

As for the problem of children, you have to consider your ability to bear it, this problem is very serious for some people, and some people think it is not serious. My suggestion is that you can not marry or not, and in the future, you will be even-handed with a bowl of water for the two families, and you can reply to your father-in-law with this to see what he says.

If it is impossible to persuade when you come to the door, you should break it, otherwise you will suffer from it! What's there to worry about, her parents were originally making unreasonable demands!

It's so good that you are like this, envy you, get married, just do what you say.

In fact, sometimes we can choose who to love and who not to love, but we can't choose who not to meet. You know, a lot of things depend on fate? You're good to her because you met.

The beginning of love can be divided into many kinds, and that kind of heartbeat is only found in the season when love first opens. Love is the crystallization of time. You said that after you broke up, she said that she couldn't do without you, right, then this is love, there is a habit called love.

She loves you, but neither of you may know it. However, how to tell if one person loves another person is to separate them and see if their hearts are uncomfortable. So, friends, don't think too much, you may not start out because you love each other, but I believe that you will go the farthest because you are the best for each other.

Love is a combination of giving and needing. You don't feel well because you feel that her efforts and needs are not balanced, and that she is more advantageous than you. However, your dedication to this relationship comes from your heart, and the reason is nothing more than wishing her well.

And you did it. Love also has its fermentation period, at the beginning of all kinds of budding heartbeats, the later the more dull and a lot of relief. I hope you can put aside your paranoia and be happier.

Cherish each other, that's all, maybe time will tell

I don't know, have you ever heard of such a saying, girls like the kind of boy who is serious with informality, but not seriousness, and does not delay seriousness.

But one thing I want to say is that you have to stick to what is worth sticking to, I hope you understand!!

Dude, let me tell you my personal opinion: you're probably just a spare tire, and there are so many of these women that they collectively call them loveless women.

Don't say too much, you think for yourself, you feel that what I said has a little bit of truth, you can take it, or ask questions, if you don't think you want to answer, no matter how much I say, it's useless, you know.

You are such a good person, you can find someone who loves you more, if your current girlfriend still loves you, you should need to be sensible, borrow your ex-boyfriend to anger you, you may really want to get back together with your ex-boyfriend, I hope your judgment will not be wrong, I wish you happiness.

Brother, I can feel that this is a money worshipper, delete it.

I don't see any love in your bits and pieces, so I'm not optimistic about you.