Do I really love her or am I taking revenge on her 20

This situation is because you don't seem to find an actual thing in your love with her, although you have done everything, but after all, love is not a simple act, and there are more things in the heart, and it is true that what has been in the past will have an impact on the present, but it is unwise to doubt people, it is a way to impose one's own ideas on others, and of course, the human mind will not hesitate to do so, and I think you need time to prove what you think for yourself, and if one person can't figure out whether he loves another person or not I think there is a gap between you in love, but it can't be called revenge, and if there is another person who has this experience, I think he will do what you think, and you see it as complicated and you don't think it's a habitual thinking, and what your friend says to you, although it doesn't have an impact at first, but it becomes a potential implication, I don't think an outsider can be qualified to evaluate it, he doesn't even know you, no one can understand, only you have this opportunity, so I think you let go of your prejudices And your habitual thinking, objectively, to get to know her, no one can say how she is, or how you are, because we are not you and neither she do you need time to prove and your own understanding of yourself, to judge, that people's problems come from within themselves, and they have to be solved within themselves, or do you want to know if you really love her? Break up with her, if you cry, it means that you love her, or that you don't want to break up, so don't you care about her, then go and try to love her, and you will get a reality between your love, this reality, it may be sweet, happy, or whatever, but this reality will play a decisive role, time will tell, enjoy the present, hehe

Want to know if you are increasingly suspicious of her first, or if a friend says she has an attempt first? If your friend doesn't say it and you're starting to doubt her, think about what makes you think this way, is it because she doesn't care enough about you, or if she's acting too superficial about you? What do you think she will try at you?

Why did your friend say that she said that, did you see through something? You can ask. If your friends have more than one person who says this about her, and there are facts that can show it, she has intentions. That kind of love would rather let go.

As for, you haven't understood why she rejected you, when you were in junior high school, girls didn't understand love, and it was normal to reject you. Maybe she thinks that you don't really want to test you, like a female classmate in my middle school, she also obviously likes a boy, but she still forced her family to chase her for three years before agreeing. This is normal.

There's no need to take it too seriously. If you really care about it and keep annoying this, then you can ask her directly, anyway, you are lovers now, what can't you communicate? Untie this knot and you won't be so confused.

But looking at what you've written, I don't think you have figured out what love is. It's better to find a reason to leave her for a while, so that you have space to think about whether you really love her.

Dude, what are you doing only you know, you are a man, I don't think it's appropriate to retaliate against her for this, not to mention that she must have her reasons for what she decides, why it must be wrong to refuse you. Don't take your friends' slander too seriously, they are outsiders, after all.

Junior high school is so young, it's normal to reject you, girl, since you've done everything, treat others well, what does she want from you.

When you ask yourself whether you love this person or not, you don't love her anymore. It's just that I don't want to face it yet.

You're thinking too much. That was a lot of years ago, still thinking about it.

When he doesn't love you, your love is a burden to him. Please don't count your efforts, don't expect anything in return. Loving someone who doesn't love you is in itself unreciprocated.

Don't care about right and wrong. It's going to be happier. Remember, the love between you and Him is one-sided, you put your heart into it, and He has no heart.

So, don't blame him either. Because maybe he wants to do some good too. Don't be so indifferent to you.

It's just that loving someone is good to someone. It's instinctive. I'm sorry, because he doesn't love you anymore, he doesn't have such instincts.

In the same way, if he doesn't love you, it's not that you are not good. Excellent, not a reason for love. Look at the fact that there are so many people who love themselves, and smiling faintly is also strangely sweet.

When he doesn't love you, be sure to bless him too. With love, there should be no hate. Love is wonderful.

Hate but ugly. Why let the best things in life turn into ugliness? Don't feel unfair either.

About leaving. He lost someone who loved him, and you lost someone who didn't love you, but you got a chance to live again, to love again. Please don't think of "forever".

Love doesn't last forever. You love him deeply at the moment, but you are destined to stop loving him one day in the distant future. He just arrived at the day one step ahead of you.

When he doesn't love you, please gently embrace the warmth of the memories and gently gaze at the withering tenderness.

When he no longer loves you, my dear, please take a deep breath, the road of life, paved with love buds, there is always one that belongs to you, not to comfort you. Rather, it is predestined for life and life.

Love! Maybe with a little hatred! Maybe you need to communicate well and ask each other clearly to avoid misunderstandings, if you still have the heart to continue your love.

After all, if you miss it, you'll never come back. Cherish it! I'm rooting for you!!

Besides, the old man is not many years old.

What the hell are you doing with her!? She didn't do anything bad. If you think she is a favor and revenge, and revenge with virtue, that's your business.

It is entirely possible that you do not know the truth at all, you may only see the superficial phenomena of the facts, see the sporadic and one-sided phenomena, and see the (false) phenomena that lead you to misunderstand, including how her grandfather treated her and how she treated her grandfather. So, you don't have to worry about her. You just get the answer from us, how can you be sure that it's correct?

We don't know much more. Take 10,000 steps back and say, we gave you the right answer, so what? Do you want her to get revenge on her grandfather?

Or don't you want her to take revenge on her grandfather? She took revenge on her grandfather, how pitiful her grandfather was such an old patient, a dying man! If she doesn't take revenge on her grandfather, you may be unwilling.

But what does this affect her? It's probably all your own imagination, speculation, and worry.

Grandpa or grandpa is hating, no matter if grandpa is definitely not good, after all, there is still a blood relationship.

What she meant was that the best way to retaliate was that her grandfather felt indebted to her, and that giving to her grandfather didn't mean that she was good.

He just used a different method of revenge, and he did this to make his grandfather even die, so that his grandfather would owe him a lifetime of favors, and feel guilty in the underworld

Everything has its good side and negative side, if you look at it with a sunny attitude, it will go to the good side, and if you look at people with a negative eye, things will go to the opposite side.

This is a psychological punishment if his grandfather still has a conscience, he should feel guilty, here you didn't say what your relationship with him is, but this girl is indeed very strong and independent, she is a good girl, and she has seen people's hearts and hearts grow like flesh over time, I believe that in the future, his grandfather and his family will get along very well, because there is a kind granddaughter.

This girl is not simple, I really hope she is revenge, both to help grandpa and comfort herself, in fact, this is the smartest way.

If he makes his grandfather feel guilty, his grandfather will have a knot in his heart, and he will feel sorry for her for the rest of his life, which is the best revenge.

It's not revenge, no matter how bad your grandfather is, it's also your own elder, so let's repay your grievances with virtue!

This is a woman with a 'doctor's heart', who is doing her filial piety instead of her fathers.

When she said 'revenge', I think it's a kind of 'self-deprecation'. It turns out that when I was a child, I had thoughts of revenge. When she grows up, she is educated, and the industry she is engaged in is a profession that treats diseases and saves people, she will think in her heart that she can save others from illness, why can't her own grandfather get her own treatment!

In the process of your introduction, her burden is very heavy. She is using her actual filial piety to honor this grandfather.

The doctor is benevolent, and it is difficult to say what revenge is.