How do you treat vampire type relatives in life I m weak and I m reasonable?

Please reject them clearly, draw a clear line, be ruthless and strong enough, and be ready to turn your face, this conflict is only mediated by you, although you can ask your cousin's family or your family to come forward to help, but only you can negotiate the whole process. Secondly, remind your girlfriend to pay attention to proportion, don't give everything, and properly express the status quo that you don't have enough money to be poor, otherwise it is easy for them to have the illusion that your girlfriend is a generous local tyrant, and then it will be troublesome.

Relatives and relatives, close, good relationship, courtesy, can be called relatives. Her cousin took politeness and etiquette for granted, and felt that she was young and easy to bully. If she herself doesn't dare to refuse, it is useless for outsiders to say more.

Of course, you are not an outsider, this bad guy can also be a bad person, since you are a young person, you don't need to care too much about the bad habits of the older generation, and you don't need to care about so many empty things. If you make yourself uncomfortable, then it's a matter of three things, and then you just refuse.

My uncle's family is a patriarchal family, and I came to Beijing to work and live in a two-bedroom apartment for my uncle who refuses to share a house with others, and my uncle introduced him to several jobs, but he is not good at work, and he is currently playing games at home, because his uncle and aunt are constantly rubbing, and I feel that my aunt is Fan Shengmei, who is dragged down by such a family, and can't enjoy life well, so once you meet a vampire relative, it is really terrible, if you have a choice, you must not meet such a relative.

The vampire relatives can't bear it anymore, and if you were going to do it, some people might say that my children shouldn't care about the affairs of adults, but I also have a say in my family's property, because it seriously affects my quality of life. I remember that my mother's quality of life was really bad in the first two years of going abroad, the air conditioner was broken and there was no money to buy, the lights in the room were broken and there was no money to change them, and the most I ate was pickled vegetable and tofu soup, my grandparents have been living with us, there is no intention of helping, and the water and electricity bills are not a penny.

Thinking about the things that my brother and relatives have done since I was with my husband, I can't bear it. The attitude of my husband's parents is also very angry, completely eight nephews as our children, every time I go home, I whisper in my ear, what does my nephew do, how much money is spent, this money is not enough, sometimes I want to say that it is not my son, why don't you ask his father if the money is not enough, but out of politeness, I never said that if I want to pay tuition or something, I will call us directly, as if this makes us give it. It is our will, not our obligation, to give this money.

I think my father's relatives are like vampires, especially my uncle, borrowed my father's money to buy a second house, almost ten years of money has not been repaid, and now he plans to buy a third house and paid a deposit of tens of thousands of yuan, just called me ** and secretly asked me how much money I saved, it seems that he still wants to borrow money from me, and told my mother that the house is too expensive now not to buy me a house, it feels like I want to borrow the money that my mother left me for a down payment. I feel angry when I think about it, how can there be such a strange person.

In fact, outsiders living on the front line, as long as they have relatives in the countryside, are somewhat of a little. My dad's house is like this, and I'm speechless to my dad. Not only is it a matter of borrowing money, but also helping my sister and my eldest brother find a job and my two younger brothers go to school.

My aunt's down payment, my uncle's bus, my third uncle's chicken farm, and my grandmother's funeral were all done by my father. Let him go, it's not my money anyway.

My uncle is such a person, he pays 5,000 a month to learn from others to provide for a house, and even the deposit is borrowed from my father. His child's tuition notice came, and he directly ** gave it to my dad and asked my dad to pay it, but the cow is not good, I have never seen such a relative.