How important are the three views to a marriage?

I think the importance of the three views to marriage is like sunshine to plants and trees, and there is an inseparable relationship between the two. Couples with the same views may not necessarily be happy, but couples with different views will definitely face many more difficulties and obstacles in their married life than ordinary people.

A few years ago, I often heard a word, called "destroying the three views", I only knew that this word was probably a derogatory term, but I didn't know what the "three views" were, until a classmate raised this question, and someone told me that the three views refer to the world view, outlook on life and values.

And what is marriage? To put it mildly, marriage is to find a companion to accompany you to live the life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea; At the very least, marriage is about finding a "like-minded" person to work together to realize a great vision of a better life in the future.

However, no matter how we look at marriage, it is inseparable from the support of the three views, otherwise married life will become a mess. Imagine that after marriage, the wife said that she wanted to buy lipstick, but the husband said why spend money to buy it, anyway, in the end, you have to eat it in your mouth, maybe there is poison; My wife said that you see the sea is so beautiful, but my husband said that many people have drowned, so stay away from the sea. This kind of painting style should be something that none of us want to see, right?

The quarrels that come with the disagreement of the three views will inevitably crush the long-lasting marriage again and again, until it completely collapses, and the husband and wife break up unhappily.

The ideal relationship between husband and wife should be their own eyes and the other party can immediately understand, when talking about a topic, the views of two people coincide, and then go deep into the ** with great interest, and the premise of these is that the three views coincide.

The consistency of the three views is the most basic condition for two people to be together, if two people are not inconsistent.

In the later life, you will encounter a lot of trouble, and it can be said that it is difficult to maintain your life.

Why? Even if it is a friend, two people need to have the same view when they are together.

Not to mention couples who get along day and night.

Everyone's worldview, outlook on life, and values are different.

But these three points can be run in with each other in later life.

But the three views of two people are roughly the same, otherwise it is difficult to run in.

To put it mildly, the two of you are doing things and interests completely different.

Can such love last?

For example: Today Wolf Warrior 2 was released, you and your lover said.

Let's go to the movies together after work in the evening, but your lover says.

If there's anything to see, it's better to wait for the public screening, and the two of us will watch it at home on the computer.

Another example: you are a kind-hearted person, and you will help an elderly person crossing the road.

And he confirmed that you are nosy, what if you lie to us?

There are too many such things to count.

Can such a life last a long time?

Therefore, the consistency of the three views is the foundation of a marriage.

I think it's very important.

My uncle and aunt next door were arranged by their parents to get married, but they both lived for so many years and had two children, but they still couldn't get used to each other, and they kept arguing for divorce, but they couldn't stand the world's eyes and prejudice against middle-aged divorce, so they lived for their children.

That uncle was a very romantic and talented man, when he was young, he had clear eyebrows and loved to write poetry, and many little girls liked him very much and gave him gifts. He likes to read books and newspapers, buys a lot of books on the Internet every day, goes home, puts them in the bookcase, and writes one or two poems from time to time to express his feelings about life.

But that aunt didn't understand very much, she didn't like to learn to read since she was a child, she felt that after getting married, she should put all her experience on making money and living life, why spend so much energy and money on things that are not needed!

As a result, she often sold her uncle's books and notes without authorization, and gave his collection of calligraphy and paintings to others, so that he did not have a trace of spiritual sustenance, and was drowned in this tasteless whirlpool of life all day long.

Gradually, the two of them became the most familiar strangers.

Three views are too important for a marriage.

The three views determine how far the marriage can go. If two people have inconsistent views and have great differences, then there will be a lot of contradictions, there will be problems in the relationship, and the marriage will not go far.

It is very important that the three views will determine whether your marriage will be happy or not, and will determine how your life is.

The three views determine the quality of your life in the future, and you both want to find a like-minded other half as a partner.

I think the disagreement between the three views is not the reason for the failure of the marriage, the most important thing is that they don't know how to tolerate each other in the marriage, and they don't know how to understand each other, so their marriage will fail.

It is very important that there will be fewer things to run in and fewer contradictions.

I think it is best to be able to understand each other's responsibilities in a marriage, where two people will not be polished out of their relationship because of trivial things in life, and they can face problems together and trust each other when they have problems.

Maintain full trust in the other party to the marriage and do not unduly interfere with the other person's private life. It will also tolerate some mistakes of the other party.

It is very enviable to have a positive view of marriage, because they have the same views on many things, and they will not quarrel over some trivial things, such a marriage is very enviable.

1. First of all, no matter what kind of relationship or marriage, both parties need to be able to do these three things: appreciate each other's advantages, be honest with each other, and be willing to tolerate each other's wrong behaviors. Only when you have done these three things in a big way, can your marriage road be smooth and your life can be harmonious and loving.

2. Then, the three views in the concept of marriage refer to: outlook on life, values, and world view. Therefore, whether it is your life or your marriage, the couple must be correctly aware of the life path they have chosen, no matter what the outcome, as long as you can muster up the courage to face all the obstacles in front of you, your life will become meaningful.

3. Finally, there are too many cases of love at first sight in our real life. In fact, the so-called love at first sight does not mean getting married as soon as they meet, but refers to the fact that after two people have passed the test of time, their sincerity towards each other is still unstoppable, which is the most enviable thing in marriage.

Summary. As for your current doubts, that is, the husband and wife are now even different from each other, then I think there is no need for such a marriage to continue, because there is no meaning, how can a marriage with different views last? I'm afraid that if we are reluctant to be together now, then there will be this or that problem in the future, so for marriages with different views, I don't think there is any reason to continue.

For your current doubts, that is, the husband and wife are pure and the two people are now even different from each other's three views, so I think there is no need for such a marriage to continue, because there is no meaning, how can a marriage with different views last forever? I'm afraid that if we are reluctant to be together now, then there will be this or that problem in the future, so for marriages with different views, I don't think there is any reason to continue with the silver take.

Our situation is more special, we are all post-70s.

In other words, you've been married for many, many years, haven't you? Kiss.

Yes. Married for so many years. Then the bitterness of answering the hole has already passed. I think you'd better think about it, after all, even if you find another one to clear the sleepiness, it's hard to say that you can find one like this.

In case you choose to divorce each other, it is better to be together with two people, and it will be too late to regret it by then.

Personally, I feel that the spiritual relationship between the two parties in marriage is very important, and the three views of two people are the same, so that they can live a happier life.

Clause. First, the three views are very important. A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three views may be difficult to agree, two people with different views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage will naturally be useless after a long time.

Clause. 2. Life goals. In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage. Therefore, many people do not care about the family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families.

Clause. 3. Common language. The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely.

Clause. Fourth, you will not be disliked by the other party's family. Although it is not very much advocated now, many families are still the same, and if they feel that they have strength, they will dislike families who do not have strength.

Clause. 5. You will not be bullied by the other party's family. Many people like to find wealthy families, but you have no right to speak when you marry in, and you often keep your voice low, and you are bullied and dare not speak. And the right family will not.

Clause. Sixth, they can help each other and support each other. The right family plays a very good role in each other's career and life, and if the difference in strength is too great, they will be rejected or even ignored.

In the end, it is not difficult to find the right marriage, but the difficult thing is to find a suitable person to be with you, otherwise you will not feel happy even if you are the right person.

I feel that the spiritual compatibility of two people in marriage is very important, and two people have the same three views, so that they can live happier and happier

Clause. First, the three views are very important.

A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three views may be difficult to agree, two people with different views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage will naturally be useless after a long time.

Clause. 2. Life goals.

In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage.

Therefore, many people do not care about the family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families.

Clause. 3. Common language.

The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely.

Of course, the three views in marriage are very important, if two people are inconsistent with many things, then the three views are not compatible so much, and the contradictions will arise because of this, so if you find a like-minded person with similar interests and hobbies, you will actually live a happier life.

The three views are very important. A person's three views are closely related to his spiritual world, if you can't find a suitable home in the spiritual world, it will make the values of two people conflict, the values of two people are completely different, and after a long time of marriage, it will become nothing. 3. Life goals.

In marriage, two people's life goals are the same, but if two people's thoughts are inconsistent, it will affect the life goals of two people, and they only think about their own life goals, and they only think about messing around, can such a marriage last? So a lot of people don't care about the right match, they believe that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome this tradition, but I still have to say that the right person is the most important thing, because it is related to whether your marriage is happy or not, so if you want to be happy, you must consider the right person. I believe that marriage can only be happier if you have the same language.

This relationship has six points of importance, so this marriage is enviable. The common ideal of life is to be spiritually matched, this is my point of view, if the marriage of two people is to build a family, a strong family, a man is successful on the outside, a woman is virtuous on the inside, both of them can respect each other Suiyan, and Cinderella, who has an equal status, married a prince, it is because she was originally a noble daughter, but she was abused by her stepmother for several years, and she is still a nobleman in her bones. The mermaid and the prince are not a good match, and their love will always be in vain.

Very important, otherwise you will have a miserable life! Living with such a person is simply looking for Guess Qi Yu to die!