What if my dad runs all day about my marriage, and I don t want him to be too tired?

You can push the marriage to make the marriage happen this morning.

Let's just talk about this matter, in the life of a child at this age, the school's ** meeting should be that most of the classmates will go back, if she doesn't go, she will feel bad herself, and her father won't let her go, which must be in a hurry.

In addition, at the age of 12, her thinking is formed by the people and things around her, and similar things will happen around her. Fathers should think about what they said when they quarreled.

At this age, the child's spine is very strange and rebellious, and the first reaction of parents is mostly opposition, but they are still in the stage of learning and observing, and they will imitate and learn from the people around them, especially their parents, teachers and classmates around them.

During this period, talk less and do more, there must be some clear rules in life, and at the same time meet their requirements within a reasonable range, the most important thing is to understand the flow of their peers, and the opposite of this thing is definitely looking for trouble.

If you are not in a hurry to get married, this money can still be used by your father.

Be considerate of Dad, and look at what kind of business Dad is doing, if it is more promising, it is worth it. You will regret hurting your father in the future, money is an external object, and you can communicate with your girlfriend when you get married, these are not as important as family affection.

Don't tie it yet, or Dad will be very sad.

It's okay to borrow it after you get married.

If you don't want to get married, leave and don't waste everyone's time.

It seems that you don't really love him yet.

Do you dislike your boyfriend or don't want to get married that early! If you don't like him, make it clear! If you don't want to be so early, you have to make it clear! It's not good to hurt each other when the time comes!

Tell them why you don't want to get married, and get their understanding.

Do you not want to get married, or are you afraid that if you take it, you will be urged to take care of the children!

If you don't want to tie the knot, you don't tie it, you have the final say!

You said that you were in the entrepreneurial period and that it was not appropriate for you to get married now.

Don't delay people! Parents are in a hurry to hold their grandchildren! You have to understand people!

Break up or explain to them why you don't want to get married

If you don't want to get married, you can get married when you want to!

Try to talk to them about your thoughts

When girls reach an age, they can also consider getting married.

Don't force it, or you'll be very tired.

Do you still know him well enough, afraid of marrying the wrong one?

Oh, you can consider it when you are old.

You only have one life, and if you have a future, you can advise not to get married so early. Anyone in the world can fail you, but your job and yourself won't. It's better to talk to your boyfriend about youth.

Tell your boyfriend that you still want to be in love with him, romantic and romantic, and talk to your boyfriend'Let him communicate with his parents. Let his parents feel that it's not just you, but the two of you don't want to get married now.

Explain this problem to your boyfriend and ask him to tell his family that your statement is useless.

Then you have to convince them that you don't want to get married.

Have a career first, then a family! And see if you're old enough to get married! If it's too young, you have to negotiate with your parents at the end! After all, the man's parents will be more anxious.

I also don't recommend talking to that woman, because you are a junior, and even if you find it, the other party may not take what you say in your eyes at all. Think you're fooling around.

Therefore, the effect is not expected to be too good. Internal problems still have to be solved internally

Communicate with your father, but don't tell him it's wrong. Adults are very strange, even if you are reasonable, but you can't teach him a lesson. Because in his opinion, it violated his majesty and dignity as a father.

I suggested that he should tell him tactfully that his mother was sad about this, and describe how she behaved when she was sad. It's okay to exaggerate a little: for example, one day I overheard my mother crying in the room, saying that as long as she waited until the day the child got married, she would be divorced and even not live.

Finally, it's best to add: I don't know if I heard it wrong at the time. ）

At the same time, I burst into tears when I said it, and I believe that this does not need to be rehearsed, and it will naturally be when the scene comes.

It would be better to speak to your father in the same way and in terms of content:

You used to love me and my mother so much, and you are the most pampered person in the world. I don't even know what the point of my life is if you really don't love me and don't want me one day. (He must have replied something like this:.)

Silly boy, how could it be, I will always love you so much. ”）

Then you said, "But now I feel that you love me less and less, maybe you don't feel it yourself, your heart is not in this house now, and the time you spend with me every day is getting less and less......."There will come a time when you will no longer love my ......”

Then lift him up to the top

I believe you love me, your mother, and your family, right? My mother and I would be so pitiful without you. ”

My father in my heart has always been the greatest and most loving person for me, and I believe that he will not abandon me and my mother because of other people outside, I always believe so. ”

Sometimes when I think about what kind of person I want to marry in the future, I think that I want to find a ......man who will always love me and my mother like my father, and who is as responsible as you”

You know: it's useless for you to blame him, but if you put a high hat on him, you will successfully give him the title of "a great father in the eyes of daughters" and "a man of noble character and personality".

He'll figure out for himself which is more important. How can we maintain that noble title in the hearts of children?

The most irresistible thing for a person is to be genuinely considered noble and noble. Then he would have to strive to be noble and noble himself.

That's human nature.

If you rely on others to manage him, it is useless, and it will only be effective if you want to change it yourself.

You can tell your father, just say that this time it won't work, because this will be a car their family will not be able to lend you it, in fact, your father should just think that there will be face if you have a car, and every time you borrow it so it has become a habit, you refuse a few times with such an excuse Your father will understand what it means, if he is angry, you can tell him that this car is someone else's not mine, if it is me, it will be given to you directly, so that it shows that you have your father in your heart, and let him know that this car is not your family.

You should communicate well with him alone, preferably without the presence of others.

Tell him what you think, and as a father, he should be able to understand you.

When there is really something important, the car has to be lent to him, after all, it is his father. But usually you have to lend him less, because after all, you are not married. You usually have to communicate more with your father and reason with him, I think his father should be considerate of you.

I understand you very well, you are born and can not choose your own parents can only adapt to tolerate, it is difficult to change their inherent ideas, stop you say that you feel very filial, method 1, this time spend money to borrow a car for Dad, you drive your own; In the future, I want to borrow all kinds of kind excuses, maintenance, maintenance;2. Sell his car.

Although relatives are very close, but from your words, I feel that if you don't understand how to say no in these things, it is a refusal, which is also an art. It's like this now, how to get life in the future, or you work hard to buy a car for your dad, or let your dad buy a car by himself

You do have a headache with such a dad, don't live with him, talk to him less, and wait until the day he softens, he now thinks that you are the one he brought up and owes him, but in fact, he owes you and does not give you a warm home. I suggest that you find a reason to prevaricate when he borrows a car, if it doesn't work, you should be resolute, and the days will be long.

The two of you contribute part of the money, and he himself pays part of the money, just buy him a second-hand car.

I think your dad is really too inconsiderate of you and doesn't understand your difficulties, do you want to talk to him?

I think you need to have a good talk with your dad.

Is it illegal to run away from marriage....But if you don't want to get married, you can get a divorce, .........It's a fact that it's really not illegal to run away from marriage....TV is no less, don't kill people, the police don't care about this kind of thing!It's a family problem.

You shouldn't have been abducted, then you can get a divorce, if the man doesn't agree, you can apply to the court for divorce, you can separate, this is a legal society, what can a man do to you?

Then why don't you go through the divorce process?Why bother?Is it impossible to handle it?

It's not easy for the police to find you, as long as you don't use your real name and ID card after you leave.

Two people can divorce if they don't stay together for three years, if you don't want to see him, he can't take you, he can't leave if he doesn't want to, if he doesn't leave, you can get another marriage certificate after three years.

If you don't want to, you can divorce, it's legal to have a certificate, and you can't run away.

Why do you want to run?It's a no-brainer!Why did you want to run in the first place?Did you think about it at the beginning?Let's make it clear face to face!I hope to do things with my brain in the future!

Not necessarily, it's just that you can't get it anymore.

It's better to leave after the divorce.

What do you want to get married if you have a hard time, and joke about your happiness.

If you throw your phone away, you can't track it.

It is possible to apply to the court for a divorce of separation and automaticity.

There's a man out there again

Why not file for divorce in court?

Think about how much it's worth.

It depends on the reason.

Your daughter-in-law should be young, you had better divide the relationship with your parents clearly, otherwise the days will be long, if your daughter-in-law one day sees clearly that your life is like a bottomless pit, she will choose to leave you, because no one wants to live that kind of life that can't see happiness!

Your parents did their part! But marriage is a big deal! Let's ask for their opinions! It's their business whether they go or not! After marriage, you must live separately!

How can you do this, for the sake of your daughter-in-law, you don't even recognize your own parents.