Is he still important in my heart, and am I really important in your heart?

There is no such thing as forgetting, only the so-called substitution! When you have replaced her in his heart, you are the most important thing in his heart. If you don't have the ability to occupy his heart, then your chances are slim、、、 it depends on your own ability and attitude towards him!

After all, do you think about it, if you really love someone, do you kick him out of your heart so quickly??? It's impossible to think about it, because he has left traces in your heart, indelible traces! If you really love him, then you should work hard!

If he really loves you, then your efforts will be rewarded, it is only a matter of time, depending on your own efforts.

You've been together for a while, he's used to being with you, and although he still thinks about his ex-girlfriend, he can't be with her for various reasons, and now he's pinning his hopes on you. However, he can't bear to break up with you, which means that he still has your place in his heart and still has feelings for you. So, if you like him, give him some time to calm down and figure out how to choose, don't bother him during this period, it's best to be good for you no matter how it ends.

Tell you clearly that you're just a substitute for his ex-girlfriend, and he won't want you to leave until his ex-girlfriend comes back, and if you don't believe him, you wait for his ex-girlfriend to come back, and you see he's not going to let you go. You're just a substitute It's not that I'm talking badly or I want to break you both up Now that you've asked him so directly, you said that if your ex-girlfriend comes back, you'll still be with her, right? Since he said he didn't know, didn't he understand?

You're just a temporary substitute There's no woman around you anymore The man must be uncomfortable when his ex-girlfriend comes back, and you're going to pour her a place If he doesn't think so, he can just say that even if my ex-girlfriend comes back, I'll continue to be with you, and I won't be with my ex-girlfriend. This is the norm. Are you in love, are you in love?

Can't you tell the difference between this kind of thing? I'd rather break up than be a substitute, and you don't owe him anything, so why be a backup. Don't wait until then, he really chose his ex-girlfriend, and it's too late for you to regret it.

That's all I can say, maybe I can't speak well, you can control it yourself. If you don't get a child, it's good for you and it's bad for you, and you can't tell the difference. Hope mine helps you!

Neither of you knows true love.

Your problem, whether you have him in your heart or not you know best.

I have read a lot of copywriting and brushed a lot of Douyin's Chicken Soup for the Soul, all of which are telling us how to better fall in love and how to manage our feelings better.

Every time I brush up, I feel that the copywriter is not me, how can anyone understand love so well, but I have read so many love truths, and I have never been able to talk about a relationship, or will fall into deep suspicion, every time the other party ignores me, I will think what are you doing? Why don't you reply to my message, I still value it in your heart, when the other party explains the reason to me again and again, gives me a sense of security, at this time my emotions have been soothed, maybe because of the freshness at the beginning, and then after a few months of chatting, the message is getting slower and slower, and even the initial comfort is gone.

No, you have to coax me."

Don't make a fuss, I'm busy, obediently Ang".

Now you don't even want to coax me?"

You go to sleep first, good night".

…This is the end of the chat.

Think about the beginning, we are tired of being together all day long, talking about everything, chatting hotly, I still remember you said to me, you are not new to me, you really like it, maybe I am too suspicious and too sensitive, I see every little detail of you in my eyes, I guess blindly, but I will not ask you.

What are you doing, "I'm playing games, baby?"

Hit ......Tour ......play, I still remember that no matter how busy I used to be, I would come to accompany me, but now I have time but would rather play games than come to me."

Talking about love, saying that they will stay with me for a long time for the rest of their lives, is the game so fun? Or is there someone in the game that you want to be with, either working or playing, what is my place in your heart?

Play games to relax and understand, you can understand when you're busy at work, then every time you chat with me, it's so perfunctory, you send a lot of messages, you only reply to an emoji, or two or three sentences, so I have to wonder, you're turning a corner and telling me, we can't go on, break up, are you waiting for me to speak?

Why can't you open your mouth and wait for me to speak? I've been fantasizing countless times, when I'm not by your side, who is with you, I want to go to you, but I'm afraid to see the scene I don't want to see, fighting with other girls, you can say it's just friends, stay with other girls for a night, you will also say that friends chat, she's in a bad mood, just talk to you, nothing! Why are so many people, she has girlfriends, why do you only talk to you, and sometimes you don't even want to talk to the brigade shirt and what are you doing and who are you with.

A woman's sixth sense is always so accurate, and when I start to doubt something, the accuracy rate is surprisingly high, and I see your perfunctory, indifferent, and impatient attitude in the face of me.

Since you can't go on, let's get together and disperse.

If a person really has you in their hearts, how can they be willing not to contact your ......How can I be willing to snub you, when I have you in my heart, you don't cherish it, when I don't have your place in my heart, it's nothing to me, maybe he forgot me, but I will always have a place in my heart that belongs to you.

Alas, a woman who would ask such a question is really stupid. Those who still pursue the answer are even more stupid.

You believe that if you are a woman, what do you want to answer, if he says, no. Well, the woman is sad and angry. This is something that men don't want to see, so men will definitely answer, yes.

In other words, this one is either said sincerely by the man, or it is perfunctory to the woman. In a word, this sentence was not asked, and the answer was already very clear. So this sentence is also asked in vain.

What's even more speechless is that this woman is still thinking about whether this is true or not. In fact, in fact, the woman's heart has a preset, and the answer that the woman's heart is prepared is, no. Once the man says yes, the woman usually says, then you prove it to me.

Really fake. I don't believe it. Then tell me how you have me in your heart.

Anyway, I want to ask, and then look for clues, and find clues that this man doesn't love himself. And then there I was sad alone.

It can be said that it is difficult for a woman to ask similar questions, whether you love me or not, whether you have me in your heart, etc., because whether you love or not is not a question of men, but the key is whether a woman feels that a man loves her. In other words, everything is a matter of the woman's own feelings. If the woman thinks in her consciousness that the person who loves her should make breakfast for her every day, but this man cooks for her at noon every day, but the man loves her very much, because the man thinks that cooking for a person at noon is loving a person, so no matter if the man comes up with evidence and says that I cook for you at noon every day, it means that I love you, this is evidence, and the woman will not believe it, because the two people have different views.

After talking for a long time, the woman may still be very sad and think that the man does not love her at all. It's okay, women at least know what they think is to love her, most of the girls don't know, they don't know what is the evidence of loving her, and they ask men for evidence, women don't know what they don't know, do you think men will know, so what is wrong.

So how do you know if a man's love loves you or not, look at the action, pay attention to the observation.

To care is to show mood swings in the first place. He doesn't like you to talk to other men, especially handsome men, that's a sign of jealousy. So in a way, it's also a performance that likes you, so you have to be happy, that's because you care. Come on!