My parents wanted me to marry a boy with some money

This idea of fishing for golden beetles is deeply ingrained in China.

Although your family conditions are indeed not very good, and there is a lot of pressure, I hope you will think more about your life's events. It's your business, after all.

The following questions are personally recommended that you think clearly, and after thinking clearly, you will naturally have an answer of your own. Although you think you are destined, do the other party's families support it? Does his family have the right requirements?

Furthermore, even if you are not with this boy anymore, what kind of conditions and advantages do you have to attract someone who your family thinks is rich to marry you or be a lover?

The reality is cruel, and maybe my question will be more acute, but this is something that must be understood.

May your father be soon**.

Is he an only child?

Hey. Your conditions must be very good.

Big beauty. It depends.

Reasonable positioning. There are a few houses, which are already quite good.

Nowadays, many people don't have one.

Of course, the house is in a big city.

Marrying a daughter is not selling a daughter!

I think this boyfriend of yours is not bad.

It is not easy to give birth to you and raise you. But it can't be like that. They don't have the right to stop you from falling in love, freedom to fall in love, freedom to marry is your right. Permitted by law. On the contrary, they are not allowed by law.

How many houses do you have at home, aren't you rich?? Fixed assets are also assets Plus you both love each other, that's it... I found a rich man, but I couldn't find happiness!!

Love, go with the feelings....I, like you, am also a confused person, no matter what, just choose one that you have no regrets, and the same is true for love.

The door is right. Truths that have remained unchanged for thousands of years.

It depends on what you care about more. Because under normal circumstances, the first thing a girl looks at when choosing a partner is how the boy's character is, whether he is self-motivated, whether he is good to you, etc., not only whether he has money. If he has all of the above qualities, but his parents don't have money, then I personally think he can still get married.

Because of the good character, self-motivated, and good work, then compared to the current job, it will even go to the next level in the future, so life should not be too sad. Although his parents are poor, they can educate such a good person as a boy, which proves that his parents' three views are okay and will not be too vexatious. Moreover, people who have endured hardships know better than ordinary people that a good life is not easy to come by, so they will cherish their current life more, so there should be no major problems.

But if the boy has a bad character and is not self-motivated, then even if his work is good now, it will be difficult to say in the future, and he needs to think carefully.

Personally, I think that if the boy you are dating is working well, but the parents at home do not have much money, whether such a boy should marry her, or should make the final decision based on the relationship between the boy and you.

Although it is said that a certain material foundation is needed for love and marriage, but to decide whether two people can really be together, it still depends on whether two people can truly appreciate each other, understand each other and tolerate each other in the process of getting along. This boy is also very gentle and considerate to you, so even if the boy's parents don't have much money, you shouldn't change your mind about marrying him.

But if you only care about the material conditions of the other party, or in the matter of marriage, you have no autonomy at all, it is all decided by your parents, and your parents also hope that you can marry a boy with a richer family and better economic conditions, then in this case, either you can talk to your parents and make them respect your choice, or you will find a new boy who satisfies you in material conditions to marry. But such a marriage may not make you truly happy in the rest of your life.

likes a person, not by how rich his family is. So I think it's the person who should be looked at, not whether he has money or not. In the future, happy days need to be maintained by you together, so as to ensure a happy marriage.

It's strange, what you should care about shouldn't be whether this person is good to you or not, and what kind of character is.

When I meet a good boy, but his family is poor, should I choose him? Don't choose him. Do you like him or not?

If he is good to you and you like him, I think you can marry him completely. Because some men know that their family conditions are not good, they cannot move the girl materially, so they have to do their best to show themselves. Sometimes, the boy doesn't really like the girl, but his family conditions are limited.

If he misses that girl, he may never find a wife again.

<>If so, do you dare to get married? Once his conditions are good, he will choose again. If you really like him right now, bet that he really likes you and are good to you, then a marriage that satisfies both parties is perfect.

If the conditions are not good, two people can work together, it will be good. Even if you use the above two sentences, for different people, there will be different opinions, unmarried, think that it is good for me, good character, everything is easy; Those who are married, who think that marriage is the grave of love, bury the flowers and the moon that once were, warm and leave only abandonment.

Different people, with different visions, will have different feelings and ideas, you can get married, the key is whether the other party dares to bet, whether the other party can gamble you from a person's life to the end, no matter what the wind and rain, you are still the person he has always wanted to protect in his heart; If you're afraid to gamble, be careful. There are some things that can only be understood by experiencing them, and things that have not been confirmed by themselves, thinking that it is just an accident and will not happen to them, but the feeling of this thing is an illusory thing, so people will say, don't take life too seriously, whoever is serious will lose.

A strong woman is not that they are strong at the beginning, but from the helplessness of life, they have to make themselves a woman in a dental laboratory, his knockdown is just a call, for others, after all, it is charity, and charity is the master of emotions, so no matter when, be ready to retreat, let yourself enter a state where you can attack, retreat and defend, only in this way will I not be the clown crying in the corner.

Poverty is not terrible. The terrible thing is that the poor have not yet become self-motivated, and that is still the most terrible.

He shouldn't be chosen, but it still depends on whether he is motivated or not and whether his family gets along well.

Your entanglement is to stand in the position of a mother to speculate what kind of stepfather will be more conducive to the healthy growth of your children in the future. Reading between the lines, I can sense that you are a mother who loves her children more than herself.

It is the nature of every mother to love her children. We are willing to endure hardships for our children, are willing to give our children the best of everything, and are even willing to sacrifice our own happiness and happiness for our children, but we often ignore what our children want. We think we're giving them the best, but that's not necessarily what they want.

Between a superior material life and a happy mother, I think most children will choose a happy mother. If you want to give your children a happy life, you must first be happy, so don't choose your marriage partner for the sake of your children, but ask yourself what you want.

Different people have different pursuits when it comes to choosing a marriage partner. Some people like to sit on a BMW, regardless of whether they cry or laugh in the future. Some people are willing to sit on their bikes with a smile, regardless of whether the bike can be replaced by a BMW in the future.

We can't hate the rich and conclude that we will cry when we sit on a BMW. We also can't be too poor and conclude that a bike will never be replaced by a BMW. There are many things in the world that can be changed with effort.

Love can be cultivated slowly, and a poor life can slowly become rich, so just follow your heart now and choose. If you really don't know what to choose, just think about who you're with with more smiles! That person must be the best fit for you and the best for your child!

I wish you to find your right marriage partner and live a happy life with your children from now on!

What you said about this situation is that I think I will still choose what I like, and I will tell you some truth about marriage with the idea of a married person.

First of all, if a family you marry him purely for his money and his economic conditions are good, such a marriage is particularly unstable, you said that you are because of the child, to give the child good conditions before you chose to marry a person you don't like, I don't know what others think, anyway, if it's me, I don't like a person in my heart is really not able to stay with him for a day, you have to know that life is a lot of trivial things after marriage, there is not enough emotional foundation, just see the money, you will live a very bitter life Very tired, and the other party is not stupid, he knows that you are trying his money, then you always have something that he wants, and if you can't sustain it, so he ** is not your marriage will come to an end.

You said that the person you like has a bad family condition and is relatively poor, but I think even if you are poor, as long as two people are healthy and positive, and the two want to live a good life, as long as they are willing to work hard, they can still change, as long as two people work together, they will definitely be able to live a prosperous life.

Isn't this how many of our parents came over, they were also poor and white at that time, nothing, not two people working together to live a good life, such a foundation is that two people have love.

Anyway, if it's me, I will only marry the person I like, whether his family is poor or rich, if you want to start a family, you must consider the problem of feelings, otherwise such a marriage will not be long-term.

For the sake of the child, marrying someone you don't like, but the family conditions are good, it's okay, it's okay, it depends on what you think? Feelings are cultivated slowly. The material foundation is good, and he is very pampered, and you will make you feel very happy.

To meet such a person. You should be happy.

What's the use of good family conditions, now there are all kinds of financial divisions, that is to say, even if it is a wife, it has nothing to do with you, as for the child, it is the blood of his family, that is, people with average family conditions, and they will do their best to pay.

The original affection is as good as ever, after entering the marriage, it is possible to become a resentful enemy, you say that you don't like each other, you can imagine what the ending is.

With the person you like, if the other party works their own, and is willing to make progress in order to give you a good life, and listen to you, this is not very happy, and you can see that a good life is approaching you step by step. As for the man's family is not good, it is superfluous, and you do not live with his family.

Wealth will be exhausted, but for those who work hard, everything is possible.

A good marriage is a two-way street, no matter whether the life is hard or not, self-motivation is the most important thing.

I think it's better to marry someone you like, although you are poor, you can create wealth with your own hands. If you don't like the other person, then you don't have feelings for him, and on the basis of no feelings, then it's difficult for the two of you. Go old.

For the sake of the child, if you want to marry, marry someone who can be good to the child and create a life for the child.

Of course, you have to marry, the family conditions are better, it is beneficial to the children, and it is beneficial to yourself.

I think that for the sake of our children, we need someone who has money and can give them a good future, because nurturing children is the most important thing for us.

No one can make a decision for you, you think about it, first think about what you need? What kind of life do you want? What to do ......

For the problem of the poor family of the married man, it is not possible to determine whether he can marry, for example, the grandparents could not afford to eat before, there are not us, the days are two people working together to operate, to create together, now many rich people also have a lot of marital problems, in fact, it mainly depends on the emotional foundation of the two of you and whether the boy is reliable, if he works hard, good to you, success is only a matter of time, sometimes you should not only consider his place of origin, should be more human thinking rather than traditional thinking, And this foundation must be that the boy is excellent in all aspects, and he is also a potential stock in his career, and his relationship is also very stable, which I emphasize again!

Second, you have to plan for the worst, if you can accept to live a hard life with him, life is trivial, you have to think clearly about the firewood, rice, oil and salt in the future, and understand the model of the two families!

In the end, I still say it, no matter how late you marry love, keep the bottom line!

I don't know if we will find a similar person to marry because we are older, everything is good, but I will never have a heartbeat again, and I want to marry him without hesitation, I hope that the person you and I love is our own lover, the same person!

Finally, I wish this friend who asked the question happiness