Am I in love with him, I have a big quarrel with him for three days, a small quarrel for five days

Look at you and his current state:

1) Quarrel between ordinary friends and classmates: that is, the conflict between work and life has increased, if you want to turn the conflict into a jade silk, someone must compromise, and actively cultivate friendship, and experience some of the same experience to be able to rise the relationship;

2) Good friends, confidantes: Needless to say, you must like him, or he likes you, because only in this way can you attract each other's attention, if the quarrel does not even affect your relationship, the suggestion can be further developed;

3) Couples: The quarrel at this time should be based on liking, and it has not yet escalated to the level of love, but frequent quarrels will affect each other's relationships and feelings.

4) Husband and wife: become a husband and wife, love more, two people who love each other quarrel is rare, if you quarrel often, try to keep a distance, increase the freshness, husband and wife often quarrel if you don't do something to maintain, it may be difficult to say in the future, you know.

The next time he quarrels with you again, you pretend to ask him if you are in love with me when you keep quarreling with me, and then look at his expression, sometimes whether you like a person or not, the attitude of the other party will also have an impact. But when you have an idea of whether you like him or not, 80% of the time you already like it.

First of all. Just a little bit for you. Would you quarrel with someone you don't care about? It's okay to care, but don't try to change your person. What you can do is change yourself. There will be a lot less quarrels that way.

No. He will use the so-called love as the winning **. You have to see if he is worthy of love.

I don't like to ask myself, why do I tell others in a quarrelsome way?

Three years. In fact, there will always be friction after a long time of love, and after a long time, the understanding will be deeper, if you disagree and can't run in, it is easy to break up. On the contrary, if you understand each other, you can empathize, and feel that you can still be together, then it will be a long time.

It's okay to quarrel after being in love for a long time, but every once in a while, you have to find out why you quarreled! Another way is to calm down and talk to him when you're going to argue.

Divide it, there's nothing to say, don't blame me for being harsh, the more noisy the more loving feelings are few.

The inevitable experience of life! Quarrel is husband and wife.

Talking will inevitably bump into each other. The question is to see what each quarrel is for.

It's not fun if couples don't quarrel with each other!

If you and your boyfriend have never quarreled in the first year when you are in a relationship, it just shows that the two of you are not particularly familiar with each other, and you have not opened up to each other and understood each other very well. After getting acquainted with each other, each other's shortcomings and deficiencies will be magnified, so it is normal for them to quarrel at every turn in the second and third years. In a few years, you won't be arguing over trivial matters.

Because they are already very familiar with each other, they can tolerate each other regardless of their strengths and weaknesses, and at this time they have changed from lovers to relatives.

Feelings have a certain time limit, at the time of first acquaintance, two people are always inseparable, eager to be together all day, but slowly the relationship will fade, no longer have the original enthusiasm.

Is there a lasting attraction between people? I think there is, but this kind of attraction requires certain conditions, it may be the appearance at the beginning, but the appearance of this kind of thing cannot be maintained for a lifetime, maybe it will disappear one day, and the more important thing is to rely on the inside, the richer the inside, the more lasting the feelings, why is this?

In fact, this is the so-called freshness, when you can give each other freshness at any time, they will naturally feel that people like you are too rare, and they will be too happy with you, and they will also give you more love.

Regardless of feelings or life, if it is repeated every day, you will feel very tired and confused after a long time, but if you are very energetic every day and find a way to inject some freshness into your life every day, then the mood will be different.

In a relationship, if you want to attract each other for a long time and never get tired of being there, you must know how to inject some freshness into your relationship, only in this way can your relationship be kept fresh.

Sometimes, the more afraid of losing, the more he will stay away from you, when you have your own things to do, when you let yourself exude vitality at all times, he will appreciate you more.

In a relationship, if you want to maintain lasting attraction, you have to maintain "freshness," and these freshness naturally start from when you start to be independent.

Many people find this difficult to do, but as long as you have your own interests and hobbies and don't focus all your attention on him, it is not that difficult.

In a relationship, it is very important to keep it fresh, no one will like the same life, and no one will like the same person, try to create a little surprise for each other, try to give each other a little romance, these freshness, will continue to warm up the love, so that your love is always in love.

A good relationship is not easy to come by, you need to operate to maintain, in order to go on for a long time, and freshness is the most critical factor, learn to be independent, learn to think about each other, the relationship between you will only get better and better.

Communicate with the other person.

1. Thank the other party for always tolerating him, although he is noisy, he still cherishes this relationship;

2. I feel that I have made a lot of mistakes in managing this relationship, blindly making noise but ignoring the other party's feelings;

3. Put forward the idea of wanting to improve the mode of getting along and cherish each other;

4. Objectively put forward the problems between you, express your feelings, and clearly express what you want the other party to do;

5. Propose the other party's pressure and difficulties that you can understand;

Analysis and selection.

1. Through such communication, confirm that the problem between you is a solvable misunderstanding or an unsolvable difference, that is, to analyze whether you are really suitable;

2. If the two are not suitable, think clearly about whether to continue in time, and whether you can accept the problems that may occur in the future if you continue;

3. If the two are suitable, think more about each other's benefits and contributions, learn more about getting along with the sexes, learn more ways to communicate besides quarrels, and learn to manage your relationship well.

There is really no traffic. If you can't talk about it, you can break up.

Because what I lost before was water, not fat, fat is difficult to lose, you have to persevere, and dieting is not recommended, it hurts the body.

Learn to understand and tolerate, empathy, without this, you are destined to not go far.