I ve told him a lot, but I don t know how to get his heart back, and I m scared of losing him.

…Passing by....Don't overthink it....Women always like to worry about themselves....I buckle it, five slippery clothes for a long time, one and six for a long time.

What can such a person do if he stays in?

If the heart is not here, how can you come back, everything is up to him, there is no need to stay together without a chance, the result can only be to gather troubles, let go, and start a new life!

Hello, the suggestion is to try to redeem it, if the other party still has you in his heart, the two of them can redeem it, if not, it can be regarded as an explanation to themselves.

If the two people on the spine are just because of their incompatible personalities, and they don't hurt each other as much as Zheng Li, you can consider getting back together, but shouting wild things first to figure out whether you are in love, or just guilt as you said. Guilt can't live a lifetime. Love is love, and living on guilt is unrealistic.

In hindsight, the biggest drawback to the relationship. I found myself unwilling to lose it. I can't feel my heart when I collapse it.

In fact, most of it is still on yourself, and you have made him feel insincere. I don't feel safe. How can you make the other party treat you from the beginning to the end?

If you want to redeem it, the first thing to do is how to learn to change the bad shirt. Otherwise, the other party doesn't want to continue and doesn't want to exist anymore. The only way is to change yourself into the standard that the other person desires. Then there is a negotiation.

Only in this way will the chances of victory be relatively large.

There is nothing to be afraid of, dare to do and dare to say, it is right, even if it is wrong, what can it be, the original intention is good!

You have to calm down, and then think about it, and if you feel guilty, you can apologize to someone else and they will forgive you.

In fact, you think that way because you have set up a barrier in your heart.

You're drilling the tip of the horns, since you are not sure whether your words are right or wrong, don't say it easily, even if you say it, don't say it too absolutely, leave some space and leeway for others, so it's good for you and others, don't blame yourself too much, don't take all the responsibility on yourself, as long as your heart is good, the starting point is good, that's okay, you have a clear conscience, what else do you blame, of course, you need to think more about paying attention to such things to others, you can only provide reference, try not to make decisions for others, Of course, there is another meaning of considering your words, that is, if you refuse other people's requests, you just need to be as tactful as possible, after all, you don't owe anyone who doesn't owe anyone, you don't have to blame yourself excessively, you are not obliged to agree to any request from others, especially if it is unreasonable and against your will. Send you a sentence, how can it be as good as you want, but please be worthy of your heart, I hope you will understand it soon.

I've encountered this problem before, and I don't think about it now, so let me talk about some of my experiences. First of all, I think you must be a person who is particularly thoughtful about others, sometimes I'd rather suffer a little grievance than let others embarrass you, you are very likely to be an old scalper in the class, dormitory, unit and home, and it should be recognized by the people around you. Your problem now is here, you are a little sensitive, a little too sensitive to the understanding between people, of course, a little degree of attention may make you more emotionally intelligent, make you easy to adapt to the environment, too much, it will bring you trouble.

If you want to solve this problem, I will give you two suggestions: the first is to change the perception of "a word will bring irreparable results to others" from the cognitive point of view, you must know that each of us is our own set of internal defense mechanisms, and will not be easily affected by people and things from the outside world, otherwise his life will be over, you think about how miserable his life should be if he is so easily changed by a sentence, then how miserable his future life should be, How could he meet people like you in his future life who cared so much about the so-called feelings in his heart. Even if your words make him a little uncomfortable, then on another level, you are also helping him, if he can't pass your level, then he can't pass those people with ulterior motives in society; The second is that from now on you have to take the initiative to do something that you didn't want to try or didn't want to try before, so that you can desensitize, such as deliberately during the meal, and the waiter to theorize, etc., of course, don't go too far, that is, let yourself get used to thinking more about yourself, pay more attention to your inner pleasure, don't always suppress your true inner thoughts, and learn to correctly express your dissatisfaction, happiness and other emotions, good luck.

Maybe your personalities really don't match. Also, maybe the guy really doesn't like the girl to be pestered all the time, I know you should love him very much and want to talk to him, but don't take the initiative to find him often, he will be annoyed. Slowly let him take the initiative to find you on his own.

The most important thing now is to see if he is willing to go down with you and go with the flow together. And don't break up easily. I wish you happiness,

He may not love you now, and it can also be said that he is a little nostalgic for you in his heart, but you have this relationship, you have met so little, and you don't know what to say, giving him the feeling that it is becoming more and more strange in his heart, he is very tired of you like this, he has long felt that you are not interesting like this, but he didn't say it, just at this time you said it, maybe after you say it, maybe he will feel that the stone in his heart has fallen, and he feels very relaxed, if he really loves him, The only thing that can keep him is to follow in his footsteps, give up the career he has now, and put his heart on him, if he can't let go. It would be better to turn your attention to work!!

Cut, he probably has a girlfriend outside, pedaling two boats. I persuaded you to open it. There are many good men in the world. Don't hang yourself from a tree.

It could be that you are 2 places apart, or it could be that he has another one.

Let time tell him that you really love him and really don't want to lose him like that. I think if he loves you, he will forgive you. Let's look at fate. If you really don't have that fate. It is also impossible to force it. I want to open some.

Leave the problem to time, and everything will be solved.

Personally, I think it is unlikely to be recovered. Even the people who saved him couldn't save his heart. Be a strong woman and find your own happiness.

I want to ask you, how did you and your husband meet, how many years have you been in a relationship? What kind of personality does he have? Under what circumstances did the woman outside meet?

For men, they are not interested in easy things to get, so you better make him feel that you are noble and not easy to get!