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Be proud of honesty and trustworthiness, and be ashamed of forgetting righteousness for profit, so that you can be honest and stand up to the sky. —Epigraph I once saw an article "Integrity Experiment" in "Reader": A person is entrusted by a friend to find 10 people to do an integrity experiment, that is, after buying something and paying for it, he comes back and says that he forgot to pay, and sees what the result is.

Unexpectedly, these 10 people all accepted the second payment, and none of them refused! In the face of small "profits", the "righteousness" of integrity seems so small! Honesty and trustworthiness have nowhere to stand here, and they are so favored when they see profit and forgetfulness, what is going on?

The root cause is that their view of honor and disgrace has been skewed. I imagined what the 10 people would have been like after accepting the second payment. What kind of mentality?

Maybe he will show off this "flying windfall" to his family? Maybe you won't forget to sneer at the person who paid and call it a "stupid hat"? Maybe they will hope that such "stupid hats" will be as many as possible, so that they can get something for nothing and enjoy their benefits?

No matter what kind of "maybe", they show that they are proud of "forgetting their righteousness for profit"! I don't know, but one thing I can be sure of is that they can't keep their hearts open!

If a person lives without knowing honor and disgrace, then his character will be greatly reduced, he will not be frank, and he will not let the world and even his own children be respected and praised, and these are the wealth of life that people should accumulate for themselves in life, and it is the value of everyone to come to this world to take a journey. While lamenting the results of the integrity experiment, I was also moved to tears by the following story: When a bank failed, the president was not responsible for repaying the depositors, but the president worked hard for 50 years to pay off all the depositors' deposits and interest; A death row inmate, before his execution, asked to go thousands of miles away to see his mother, and the prison allowed him to find a friend as a stand-in, but he had to come back before the execution, otherwise his friend would be killed.

In the minutes before the execution, when people scolded him for "being greedy and forgetting his righteousness and not being honest", he appeared at the execution ground in time and fulfilled the last promise of his life. The reason why they are touching is only that they are proud of their integrity and ashamed of their dishonesty. The president has paid fifty years of hardship, and the prisoners have lost the chance to survive, but they live openly, they can stand up to the sky, and they can confess to the world:

Between honor and disgrace, we made a choice without regrets! Stop and ponder: How should we behave?

Different views of honor and disgrace determine different lives. I don't want to be a philosopher who instructs the maze, I just want to tell you: to be honest, you must be proud of honesty and trustworthiness.

Then you can proudly and loudly declare: I have come, clearly, innocently, openly, I am a man with a capital letter!

**Liability. Ever since we came into this world, we have had one piece of luggage in our backpack that we can't live without, no matter how many long journeys we have made. This piece of baggage is what we call it Responsibility.

Responsibility often goes both ways. Parents have the obligation to support their children, and children have the responsibility to support their parents; Individuals have the responsibility to contribute to society, and at the same time, society also has responsibilities to individuals. For example, society has a responsibility for compulsory education for minors.

Those who can take responsibility are praised as brave. The ancients often took "the rise and fall of the world is the responsibility of the husband" as a training, so there are all kinds of earth-shattering actions in history, and it is the coward who cannot believe that the ants disturb the responsibility. To take responsibility, courage alone is not enough, but also hard work.

Believe it or not, let me tell you this story:

An 11-year-old American boy accidentally broke the glass of his neighbor's house while playing soccer, and the neighbor was angry and demanded dollars from him. At the time, that was astronomical enough to buy 125 egg-laying hens. The boy told his father about the accident and repented.

Seeing his son's embarrassment, the father took out the dollar and said, "I lent you this money, and you will return it to me in a year." After the boy lost his money, he began to work hard.

Finally, after half a year of hard work, he returned the "astronomical amount" to his father exactly as it was. This boy was the later American **Ronald Reagan . He also recalled:

Taking responsibility for mistakes through my own labor has taught me what responsibility is. ”

Indeed, it takes hard work to take responsibility. There are responsibilities that we should bear, not that we can evade. However, there must be certain principles for taking responsibility, and some responsibilities cannot be borne blindly, but must be done according to one's ability.

Before we do something, we need to have a general understanding of the whole thing and correctly estimate our own abilities. Otherwise, you will face unimaginable consequences.

Sometimes, irresponsible things often happen, and they often lead to tragedy.

On May 28, 1982, a train was heading for Kannai, and a railroad worker put the starting machine on the Monotachia route and went to buy popsicles before taking it off. As a result, a train rollover accident shocked China and the rest of the world. As a result, 10 carriages were scrapped.

Three passengers were killed. The cause of this accident is undoubtedly that the worker did not fulfill his obligations and responsibilities.

Responsibility is an expression of integrity. Although it has bitter and sweet, we must all bear what we should bear. When we take the responsibility on our shoulders, we shout: "Carry it and be a strong brave!" ”

You, glorious, not inferior to Baochai, comparable in appearance, not inferior to Sister Feng, and ...... female workers comparable to othersIn the solemn Grand View Garden, you are a strange branch, and it is difficult to talk about strange Baoyu calling you "quiet as a delicate flower shining on the water, moving like a willow supporting the wind".

You, born at the wrong time, prefer to fall in love with the rebellious Baoyu. Heaven has mercy on you and let you go down to the lower realm to repay the debts of your previous life, but why did you strangle a period of epic romance in the old customs of feudal etiquette?

You are kind and true, not as mellow as Baochai, not as shrewd as Sister Feng, you will be willful and presumptuous, but you are frank, righteous and bright, and present yourself transparently in front of the world, and your tears are the only clear spring in the world.

The Buddha said: Bodhi has no tree, and the mirror is not a platform; There was nothing in the first place, where to stir up dust. You clear your heart with a calm and tranquil mind, just as the poem says:

There are flowers in spring, there are moons in autumn, there is a cool breeze in the fall, and there is snow in winter. If there is no redundancy in mind, it is a good time in the world. "Your tears can wash away the filth of the soul, can relieve the troubles of life, can nourish the withered life, I understand, it is because of you Baoyu that you can say that "my daughter is flesh and bone made of water"!

Listening to the bright moon, the murmuring water through the mountains and rocks in the silence, the Mochou Huannu laughing in the bamboo forest and the late returning fishing boat moving the lotus, everything is so fascinating. It's a pity that you can only be locked up in the Grand View Garden all day long, washing your face with tears every day. Bound by feudal etiquette and religion, entangled by love and hatred.

Have you ever thought that the withering of petals is the tears of spring or the retransmission of life? You hold a flower hoe and bury under the flower tree, and you chant softly, "Flowers and flowers are flying all over the sky, and there is no ......one to pity the red incense."Nong is burying flowers and laughing idiots, who does he know when he buries Nong? "Hide your face and sigh lightly, you whisper" The years are long, when will the grievances be closed, and the moon will be thin and the water will flow east......ward"You are a fairy who fell from the sky to the mortal world, so fate does not let you stay in the filthy world.

Daiyu, you are so beautiful, so rebellious and uninhibited, you have your ambition, you have your ambitions, just like the dazzling stars in the sky after the rain, shining with dazzling brilliance, you are the plum that blooms in the harsh winter, you are the chrysanthemum that is far away from the hustle and bustle of the world, you are the dream that the women of that era longed for but could not reach.

You "come with a heart, don't take half a grass to go" your life is like a song to tell the heart, Feihong snow and mud hate time, how can you sing Weiyang? Listen with your head down, the song is not finished, and the tears are full.

You burned your life with your tears, and it became a swan song for the ages. Daiyu, you are a permanent wound in my heart!