Is it wrong for a girl to confess to a guy?

Even if a boy chases a girl, the girl has to deliberately give the boy some problems, it is too easy for the boy not to cherish it, let alone a girl chasing a boy, Khan.

It's hard to say, but Xuan, because the boy already knows that you like him, so it's too easy for you to get, how boring.

If he doesn't reply much, don't talk to him so much. Love is mutual, the girl I like, I treat her like you, people say very little to me. She told me she had no feelings for me.

Everyone's feelings and views on love are different! Do your own principles! It's not something that can be said in a few sentences.

No, it means that you are honest with him, and if he is angry and can't turn his mind, it is his personal problem.

It's hard to say, depending on the other party's concept, it's more troublesome if it's more traditional, and it shouldn't be anything if it's modern.

- Not necessarily a failure. Maybe he likes to be frank.

On the boy's side, the first impression depends on how beautiful you are. Everything else will be considered later.

No, but it doesn't usually happen.

It doesn't matter how he looks at it, he is tired or not.

The boy confesses his love history to you for two reasons:

1. He likes you.

Because I like you, I feel that my previous love life should not be hidden from you, and I want you to know what his past love life was like, and I want you to know more about yourself.

It is possible that he is testing you to see how you treat him, indicating that you already have a certain weight in his heart. If a guy doesn't like you, he won't tell you about his past.

Second, he treats you as a good person to talk to.

Maybe in the process of getting along with you, he treats you as a buddy, and he trusts you very much, so he is willing to tell you all about himself.

Maybe these things have been pressed on his heart for a long time, but he has never been able to find someone to talk to, and then you appeared, just to save him, so that he can vomit quickly.

People who like you:

If a person really likes you in life, he will want to be with you, fall in love with you, enter the palace of marriage with you, start a family with you, and accompany you well to hold hands for the rest of his life.

On the contrary, people who don't like you will not treat you well, nor will they fall in love with you well, and they will not even think about the future with you at all. Even if he is pursuing you now and saying sweet words to you, "I am serious about your feelings", "I have only you in my heart", "I will always love you", etc., all have another purpose, and I am afraid that being with you is just playing, and it will not last long.

To be honest, as an adult, we must know how to be rational when dealing with feelings, don't lose ourselves because of love, and don't think that what the other party does is for your own good. Especially in the following, when a man takes the initiative to say these things, he seems to love you deeply, but in fact he treats you as an outsider.

When the two parties confirm their relationship, whether to confess their love history to each other has become a question worth considering. So should we confess our love history to our lovers? My personal is: it is necessary.

1. Confession means having faith in the relationship.

Imagine if you are insecure with each other in a relationship, and you always suffer from gains and losses, then I think both parties must lack honesty. I am afraid to tell the other party about my love history, and I am afraid that the other party will be prejudiced against me because of this.

In fact, this is not only a sign of insecurity, but also a constraint on oneself. Because you can't let go of the past, it will be difficult for you to invest in a new relationship, so that the other party can't feel your love. Therefore, only if you feel confident in your current relationship, you will be honest about sharing everything about your past with the other person.

2. Confessing means that you have let go of the past.

I believe that the most taboo thing in a relationship is that the other party can't let go of the past, so that in the current relationship, it has been difficult to invest. Life examples tell us that there are many men and women who break up because they stay in touch with their ex, or even remain friends, which makes it difficult for a new relationship to last long.

In fact, most of the reasons for this ending are that when we start a new relationship, we don't clarify the relationship with our ex and talk about our love history. When the other person suddenly knows that you are in contact with your ex, it is sure to have emotional swings, because the presence of any unknown third party can be an obstacle to a relationship.

The first orange sedan one, he feels that he should confess to you. Sometimes, people will recklessly say that I like you because they can't tell the difference between a temporary kindness and a genuine liking. This is not only irresponsible for your own feelings, but also irresponsible for the girl you like.

Therefore, the premise of the boy's confession must be that their feelings for this girl have reached the point of confession. At this time, if he confesses again, it can be regarded as attaching importance to this relationship.

Second, he expresses himself when he has enough confidence in himself. If a boy's conditions do not give a girl happiness at all, even if he confesses, the probability of success in the end is not very high. A boy will only confess to a girl if he is confident enough in his condition, because in this case, the probability of success in his confession will increase.

Thirdly, when the girl he likes is with other boys who are pursuing her, in this case, the boy can't help but confess first. Because boys also feel a sense of danger when they find out that the girl they like is secretly in love with someone else. Under the influence of this sense of crisis, boys may pluck up the courage to confess to the girl they like.

Fourth, and finally, to what extent do boys like it before they confess? In fact, when he feels that the atmosphere and timing are very suitable for confession, he will also choose to confess. Sometimes the atmosphere in which two people are together is perfect for confession, and in this somewhat ambiguous atmosphere, the chances of success in the confession are also great, and in this case, the boy also chooses to confess to their favorite girl.

First of all, the one in love does not need to take the initiative to confess his love history to the other party, and even the word confession is too humble, it should be said that there is no need to take the initiative to tell the other party his love history.

Secondly, if the other party asks about your past love history, you can tell the other party generously and truthfully, there is a key point here, that is, you can't lie.

For example, if the other person asks if they have a history of cohabitation.

If you really have this experience, tell the other person truthfully, yes, it's okay.

The key point here is, let's be honest.

The reason is very simple, most people don't just fall in love, they meet the right person after experiencing a person, and thus enter the palace of marriage.

Everyone will experience some people, some good people, some bad people, and finally become their current self, and in the same way, falling in love with anyone is a past tense, just their own past tense.

We don't take the initiative to say it, because the past relationship belongs only to us, and there is no right or wrong in it, so we don't need to apologize or repent to the current one.

When asked, let's be honest, the attitude here is that I like my current and I am willing to share my past with him, whether it is good or bad, the past is a part of me.

If the incumbent can accept my past, we'll be together well.

If the incumbent can't accept my past, we'll part peacefully.

The words may have been fierce at the time, but I was true to the present, because only the present can accept me as he really is, and only then can he have the ability to spend the rest of his life with me.

Remember, don't lie when your partner asks about your love history.

Because if once a lie is told, first of all, a confession becomes a deception, and some people may say that it is a lie told in order to keep the repentant party, but a lie is a lie, and you did deceive your object in that situation.

The second and most important point is that this lie may become a time bomb in your future life, if it is detonated at a certain moment, the result that the other party cares about plus deception is actually a double blow, and the consequences will be very serious.

But if you tell the truth, it is equivalent to letting two people solve the bomb at the moment, and the two people communicate smoothly, maybe the bomb can be successfully defused right now.

Everyone has their own private space, and if the other party doesn't ask, don't mention it.