Why didn t Jiang Wen s mother reconcile with her son in her life?

Because Jiang Wen is a person, she is very stubborn, and she doesn't pay attention to many things.

1. An alternative family relationship model: the father is not at home, and the mother takes the children in the family alone. Jiang Wen was not called Jiang Wen when he was a child, and his name was not obtained by his family. When Jiang Wen's brother was born, his father happened to be away from home, and his mother forgot to name him, and the doctor who delivered the baby named him Jiang Xiaojun.

Interestingly, the younger brother was also treated the same, when the younger brother was born, his father was not at home, and his mother forgot to name his younger brother, so he named Jiang Xiaobing with his brother Jiang Xiaojun. In fact, the elders of the family have already given the name, Jiang Wen and Jiang Wu, but they have never had a chance to change it, so they are used to it, until they transferred to Beijing at the age of 10, and they immediately changed it when no one knew him. Although Jiang Wen's mother is a teacher, teaching and educating people, and she is full of peach and plums, she doesn't seem to care much about her own children.

Today's Jiang Wen has gained fame and fortune in the film and television industry, and there is an endless stream of people around him, he has done one blockbuster movie after another, but he has never been able to "mess with" his mother. Even though Jiang Wen became famous, he never received praise and understanding from his mother, which also became an eternal pain in his heart.

On the surface, the relationship between Jiang Wen and his mother seems to be forever incompatible, always full of contradictions. But one is not good at expression, directs and follows the heart, and educates the child in his own way; One lacks self-confidence, works hard, and wants to be valued and praised. One doesn't want to speak, the other doesn't want to listen.

There are no mothers in the world who don't love their children, and how many children hate their parents, it's just not enough for outsiders.

Because Jiang Wen's mother has always mistakenly thought that she could sharpen her son's heart shape in this way.

It may be that there are some misunderstandings that hurt the mother, so she does not reconcile with her son.

The contradiction between the two people is too deep, and no one is willing to take the initiative to cause this deadlock.

It may be because they have too many misunderstandings, so there is no need to reconcile.

Jiang Wen and his mother actually have no major "contradictions", and there is no "reconciliation".。It's just that my mother is gone, and there are too many leftIt's a pityThat's it.

Jiang Wen's mother used to be a ** teacher. It is generally believed that the person who is a teacher will teach children. Not really.

The more it isSomeone who is a teacher, the more afraid of being lectured badly to their own children, thereforewill be more strict with children than the average person

In addition, Jiang Wen is the eldest son in the family, and his mother is even more demanding.

When the director won an award, in the eyes of his mother, isn't it all as it should be? AgainI'm afraid he's proud, naturallybehaved very indifferently

ActuallyThe relationship between the average man and the mother at home, how muchIt's a bit of a diaphragm。Especially some boys with introverted personalities. When he was young, he had his own opinions, and when he was young, he was not sensible, and sometimes he would dislike his mother for being old-fashioned and outdated.

On the street, unlike daughters, they like to hold their mother's hand.

Between mother and son, there is no contradiction at all. It's just that because of this and that relationship, there is less time to spend alone. It's all thereSecretly and silently care for each other, never say it

Jiang Wen is oneArtist。HisThe inner emotions are richer than ordinary people

For example, when he filmed a family drama. Maybe he can't help but think: Why can't my mother be as close to me as the mother in the play?

Although, he does have emotional needs in this regard. But as the eldest son in the family, he had to travel for life. Even if you go home, you willBecause of the majesty of the motherAs a result, he did not dare to act closer

So,his needs, the character is forbearingMother, naturally, I can't feel it。If you don't feel it, how can you give the right feedback?

Generally, when a loved one dies and survives, there will always be many regrets in their hearts。People who value feelings will always blame themselves, and they always feel that there are a thousand words in their hearts, and they don't have time to say them. That's why he felt that he wasn't good enough to satisfy his mother.

ActuallyIt's not that his mother refuses to "reconcile" with him。JustWalk suddenly, too late to express.

Hello! Speaking of which, there are two reasons:

First, an alternative family relationship model.

The father is not at home, and the mother is alone with the children in the family. Jiang Wen was not called Jiang Wen when he was a child. The name is not given by the family.

When Jiang Wen's brother was born, his father happened to be at home, and his mother forgot to name it, and the doctor who delivered the baby named Jiang Xiaojun. Interestingly, the younger brother was also treated the same, when the younger brother was born, his father was not at home, and his mother forgot to name his younger brother, so he named Jiang Xiaobing with his brother Jiang Xiaojun. In fact, the elders in the family have already chosen the name, called Jiang Wen and Jiang Wu, but they have never had a chance to change it, so it is called habit.

It wasn't until he was ten years old that he transferred to Beijing, and when no one knew him, he immediately changed around. Jiang Wen's mother is a teacher who teaches and educates people, and she is full of peach and plums, but she doesn't seem to care much about her own children.

Second, the mother is very strict.

This may be the way of educating mothers in Chinese-style families, loving mothers are more serious and strict mothers can educate good children, as a teacher, you can't beat children, but as a mother, some almost harsh daily norms still make Jiang Wen tremble.

On the surface, the relationship between Jiangwen and his mother seems to be always incompatible, always full of contradictions, but one is not good at expression, directs and follows the heart, and educates the child in his own way, the other lacks self-confidence, works hard, and hopes to be valued and praised, one is unwilling to speak, and the other is unwilling to listen. There are no mothers in the world who don't love their children, and how many children hate their parents, it's just that outsiders don't know.

What contradiction can there be! It's just that some mothers have a long relationship with their children, and their mothers-in-law and mothers feel kind, and some mothers are more strict with their children, so that their children are afraid of new children and dare not get close. In fact, their love for their children is the same.

Reconciliation or non-reconciliation, only the parties understand best, what outsiders say that there is no reconciliation is not true, and there is no reconciliation between mothers and their sons in the world.

The main thing is that they are all good at face and do not have the posture of bowing their heads first, so they can only continue to stalemate.

Jiang Wen's mother is a teacher, teaching and educating people, and she is full of peach and plums. Treat Jiang Wen with general force, and never cry or cry. This strange way of solving problems has created Jiang Wen's alternative character in the future.

Jiang Wen's mother felt that in order to manage the three children well, the eldest must be managed well, Jiang Wen, as the eldest son, managed well, and the rest was easy to handle, so Jiang Wen and his younger siblings encountered different treatment.

Jiang Wen seems to have never been recognized by his mother, and his mother will not encourage and praise him.

Mom has a very self-reliant personality, and she always knows what kind of person Jiang Wen needs to become, but she rarely cares about Jiang Wen's feelings. The serious and stern way to treat Jiang Wen is as it should be. Jiang Wen also understands that although he tried his best to improve and failed, it means that Jiang Wen has no complaints about his mother.

It's hard for this clean official to cut off family affairs.

It is difficult for Qing officials to judge housework! So don't have to give your opinion!

Jiang Wen's mother, because it was difficult for the young officials to cut off the family affairs, only they were cleared, why did they not reconcile with their son in their lives.

Because Jiang Wen's mother has passed away, she cooled down back then, and had an extramarital affair with Liu Xiaoqing, her mother was angry, and later his mother didn't have a chance to see his son succeed, and he would forgive his son Jiang Wen in the spirit of heaven.

Because he was afraid of dragging down his son, he didn't have contact with his son for the rest of his life.

Jiang Wen's extramarital affair with Liu Xiaoqing offended everyone, including his mother, so her mother would never forgive him for the rest of her life.

The character between mother and son! It's all very tough. The kind that doesn't give in to each other.

We all want to give our highest praise, our heartfelt blessings, to our mother. But in fact, many things in this world are not as beautiful as imagined. I was abused by my biological mother in my childhood, and no one who has had that experience would have felt that way.

That pain will affect and stay with you for the rest of your life, and you may never be able to get out of it.

It's hard to explain this, after all, it's someone's housework, and it's hard for outsiders to see clearly.

It shows that his mother is a righteous person.

Because Jiang Wen has no differences with his mother, he doesn't need to reconcile with his son, because the mother and son have a deep relationship.

In this life, the most important people are nothing more than your parents, your family. Although it is said that people nowadays have a lot of pressure, they all say that adult life is not easy, and the more responsibilities you have, the more stressful you are, the easier it is to collapse. Nowadays, people always have a very strange phenomenon, they would rather give their good feelings to strangers than to their own families, so they give their worst side to them, so that there will be more or less disputes, contradictions, and misunderstandings with each other.

Frankly speaking, you are born as a human being, you can really give you warmth when you are in trouble, the people you care about are always your parents, family members, they can do everything they can for you, you don't want them to be cold, give them the best temper for the rest of your life, live up to them, even if there is a crisis in your life, they will accompany you through the current difficulties.

It is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, and it is not something that outsiders can understand.

There was no conflict between Jiang Wen and his mother, so there was no reconciliation。Jiang Wen himself once said in an interview that the biggest failure in his life was the relationship with his mother. "My relationship with my mom has always been bad, and I always wanted to get along".

Lately I've been wondering why it's not good, I really want to get along."

Friends said that he gave money to his mother and bought a house for his mother, and his mother was very kind. Jiang Wenwen met and bought a house for his mother in the city, but Jiang Wen's mother was not happy, and she was very unhappy to live, so she lived in a wooden house in her hometown, which made Jiang Wen depressed. After Jiang Wen was admitted to the Chinese opera, he took the notice home, thinking that his mother would be happy, but his mother took a look at it, and threw the notice aside, saying that there was still a basin of clothes that had not been washed, so hurry up and wash the clothes.

Jiang Wen didn't know how to make his mother happy when she saw her, and she really didn't know how to deal with it.

It is said that the mother is harsh, but it is not. The younger brother Jiang Wu took the Beiying exam, but he failed the exam three times. When his mother knew that she didn't reproach him, she said a word of encouragement:

Don't worry, son, you'll definitely be able to pass next year, you're the best. Come on, help me cut the tofu. "Mom is very strict with Jiang Wen.

Jiang Wen also seems to have never been recognized by his mother, or even if he is approved by his mother, his mother will not encourage and praise him.

Many critics of the party always talk about Jiang Wen's family problems and the relationship between mother and child. The relationship between Jiang Wen and his mother always seems to be in trouble, always full of contradictions. In fact, this is not the case.

A person who is not good at expressing love will only follow her heart and educate his children in her own way. A lack of self-confidence, single-minded struggle, wanting to become smarter and stronger to be affirmed by his mother. One didn't say anything, the other wanted to hear it.

That's all. There is no mother who does not love her children, and there are several children who really hate their mothers.

Maybe there are a lot of hidden secrets behind it, and it's hard for outsiders to understand such things.

He and his mother have not reconciled all their lives, and the reason is that they have different cognitions.

Jiang Wen should have made a mistake that his mother couldn't forgive, otherwise, his mother wouldn't be a person who was connected to his flesh and blood.

This should be a conflict between mother and son, so the mother is unwilling to reconcile!

Because he has a conflict with his mother that has not been resolved, that's why he is like this.

Maybe something bad happened with my son, so I didn't reconcile.

That's because Jiang Wen has some practices that make his mother feel cold.

The main reason is that he doesn't know how to get along with his mother, so the relationship has not been good.

It's really too undeserved, and no one can know the romance behind it.

1 daughter, born to a French ex-wife. After two children.

Whether it was born to a new wife, whether the boy or the girl forgot it.

It's not that they don't want to reconcile, it's probably been too many years, no one can open their mouths, there is no conflict between their mother and son, and after all, blood is thicker than water, how can there be a lifetime of hatred, maybe waiting for an opportunity.

Jiang Wen grew up in his grandmother's house since he was a child, his mother experienced 2 marriages before and after, and remarried to the second man's family after giving birth to Jiang Wen, I don't know if it is related to Jiang Wen's father or his identity as the eldest son, his mother has been very strict with him since he was a child, and he is a little unkind. Other people's mothers don't forget to care about their children when they look at them, but Jiang Wen's mother never gives him a good face except for being harsh.

His mother was a strange-tempered person, and Jiang Wen had already done a good job.

Jiang Wen and his mother had a stiff mother-son relationship when they were young. Later, Jiang Wen once portrayed a rough mother figure in the autobiographical film "Sunny Day", and it is said that his mother was depressed for a long time after watching the movie. It may be for this reason that the relationship continues to ossify later.

Although Jiang Wen's mother is a teacher, teaching and educating people, and she is full of peach and plums, she doesn't seem to care much about her own children. There is no conflict between Jiang Wen and his mother, so there is no reconciliation.