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It's normal, different environments take time to adapt, it's impossible to say that you suddenly said a strange place, and you can adapt to it very well, and you also have your own personal habits, it is inevitable that you will have conflicts with your classmates, but if this thing does not turn around (do not change dormitories) then you only learn to tolerate each other, and find a suitable time to communicate with classmates, just like when you are usually happy together, inadvertently mention these things, it is best to say with a smile, That way, your classmates won't feel rejected by you, and if your classmates can listen to you, maybe they will listen to your complaints.
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This is normal, everyone will not be too accustomed to a new environment when they just enter a new environment However, it doesn't matter, they will always get used to it, hehe.
I live in the same situation as you now, but I'm used to it, so I don't feel anything, and my mentality is the first Oh Remember, you have to change yourself and adapt to the environment.
Hope you get used to it quickly, hehe.
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Of course, this can't be said to be abnormal, just enter the dormitory will be a little unaccustomed, but this is also a workout for yourself, to find its fun in the dormitory life, such as enhancing the feelings of friends, strengthening communication, the girlfriend in the dormitory is the real girlfriend, a good friend for life, think about it from another angle will be much better.
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It's normal, people have to work hard to learn to adapt to the environment, you can't wait for the environment to adapt to you, people who have gone to college will have this experience, but after a long time, the friendship will be better! In the future, I may be able to help you in society.
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It's normal. Everyone's habits are different, if you can't change it, try to think about the good, reject the bad, and don't worry so much. Because you don't have that much time to worry about.
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It's just a matter of habit, it's so normal! Maybe you can try to fit in, and maybe you're not used to living without a dormitory! Hehe...
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This is normal, but once you get used to it, you'll love it. Hehe, I'm just happy and lively together!
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First of all, the dormitory is a place where there is no privacy and can not calm down to study, when there are some low-quality people, you may not be able to bear it, then you don't need to bear to leave as soon as possible, go your own way and let others say go, everyone has their own personality, you don't like a noisy environment, you are destined to be a marginal person, leaving early is the best choice.
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<> collective dormitory is public housing, and collective dormitory refers to the housing where single employees and students of government agencies, schools, enterprises and institutions live. The general types of occupancy include double rooms, triple rooms, quadruple rooms, six-person rooms, and eight-person rooms. Collective dormitories belong to unit housing and are owned by the unit, so this is also a form of public housing.
There are three forms of public housing, the first is directly managed public housing, which refers to the housing that is taken over by the state, rented, acquired, newly built and expanded, and most of which are directly managed by the real estate management department for rent and repair, and a small part of the housing is rent-free for the use of units. The second type is self-managed production by units. It refers to the housing owned by units such as national ownership and collective ownership, commonly known as enterprise property.
The third type of public housing is the housing allocated or rented to the employees of the unit as the property owner. Collective dormitories are the third form of public housing. With the embodiment of economic development, social progress and people-oriented, the current collective dormitory apartment is constantly updated, the facilities are constantly improved, and the environment is constantly optimized.
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Of course, if possible, you can rent a house near the school, so that you can still sleep and rest, and it is also convenient and personal.
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In fact, it is possible to move out, but you have to show the corresponding proof so that you can have a chance.
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Under normal circumstances, as long as it is not during the epidemic, a reasonable application will be approved. But now during the epidemic, the application approval rate is not very high.
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Summary. In response to this problem, there are several disadvantages of living in a dormitory: First, the space in the dormitory is limited, and each person has very little private space, which will affect the privacy and comfort of the individual.
Secondly, the environment of group dormitories is often crowded, which is easy to cause air pollution and affect the health of residents. In addition, the management of collective dormitories is also relatively loose, which is prone to noisy and chaotic phenomena, which affects the normal rest of residents. To solve these problems, first of all, measures can be taken to improve the space of the dormitory, such as increasing the private space of each person, improving the indoor environment, and making it more spacious and comfortable.
Secondly, the management of collective dormitories can be strengthened, such as establishing rules and regulations, strictly enforcing them, and ensuring that the dormitories are in order. In addition, regular dormitory hygiene inspections can be carried out to ensure that the dormitory environment is clean and hygienic.
In response to this problem, there are several disadvantages of living in a group dormitory: First, the space of the group dormitory is limited, and each person has very little private space, which will affect the privacy and comfort of the individual. Secondly, the environment of group dormitories is often crowded, which is easy to cause air pollution and affect the health of residents.
In addition, the management of collective dormitories is also relatively loose, and it is easy to be noisy and chaotic, which affects the normal rest of residents. To solve these problems, first of all, measures can be taken to improve the space of the dormitory, such as increasing the private space of each person, improving the indoor environment, and making it more spacious and comfortable. Secondly, the management of collective dormitories can be strengthened, such as establishing rules and regulations, strictly enforcing them, and ensuring that the dormitories are in order.
In addition, regular dormitory hygiene checks can be carried out to ensure that the dormitory environment is clean and hygienic.
Can you add, I don't quite understand it.
There are some disadvantages to living in a dormitory: first, the space in the dormitory is limited, and there is only a small space for each person, and there is not enough private space, which may affect the privacy of the individual. Secondly, the environment of the dormitory may not be very quiet, because everyone has their own living habits, and sometimes there will be noise, which may affect the rest of others.
In addition, the hygiene of the dormitory may not be very good, because everyone has their own living habits and sometimes there are stains, which may affect the health of others. In addition, the social environment in the dormitory may not be very good, because everyone has their own living habits and sometimes there are conflicts, which may affect the emotions of others. Finally, the safety of the dormitory may not be very good, because everyone has their own habits, and sometimes there are safety hazards, which may affect the safety of others.
In short, there are some disadvantages of living in a group dormitory, such as limited space, unquiet environment, poor hygiene, poor social environment, and poor security. Therefore, when choosing accommodation, you should take these factors into account in order to choose the most suitable accommodation for you.
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University accommodation is to forcibly put several people with different values, living habits, hygiene habits, and character quality levels together. It is inevitable that there is a contradiction, and there is no contradiction is an accident. Besides, no one wants to always take care of others in their lives, for example, I have to play games in the middle of the night on the one hand, and I have to sleep at night on the other hand, and this is how the conflict comes.
And to be honest, no one owes anyone, and it's really better to live alone in a dormitory. However, this is unrealistic in terms of the number of teaching facilities in schools today, and there is no practical and effective solution.
Therefore, I think that any mutual tolerance is self-comfort, and collective life is a word for forbearance, which is not meaningful. If you want to talk about what you have learned, it's really cool to rent a house by yourself.
I don't like to think of conflicts and contradictions as "learning", I hate a lot of roommates, and I hate group life, so I can learn so much.
Edit 1, it is normal for people to divide into groups, not necessarily that others don't like you. During college, in fact, adolescence has not yet ended, and I will pay special attention to the evaluation of others, which is easy to have self-doubt. However, everyone's time is limited, and the people they can get close to are also limited.
Therefore, we are naturally willing to spend time on people with similar interests and temperaments, and in a dormitory, there will naturally be good friends in twos and threes, and there are also people who are alone. You can't be good friends with everyone, because you can't be recognized and liked by everyone, and it may be that others don't have the time or opportunity to be friends with you.
2. To have a good environment, we must first respect others. The university dormitory has a more relaxed schedule than the middle school, but there are also lights-out times. If you want to have a good night's sleep, don't keep chatting after the lights go out.
Roommates may also come from different classes and majors, and their course schedules are different. Some need a lunch break, and some stay up late at night and need to catch up on sleep; Others have to do their homework on the computer.
When others are resting or doing homework, please be quiet. In addition, the hygiene of the dormitory needs to be maintained, if you love to be clean, don't litter; If you can't clean in shifts, don't complain if you do more by yourself, otherwise the work will be unpleasant. What you want is not necessarily what others want, negotiation, start with respect.
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Before I went to college, I went to school on day and never lived on campus.
When I was in high school, most of my classmates were boarding students. I ate lunch and dinner at home, and after the evening self-study, I went home to sleep. At that time, I was especially envious of those students who could eat in the school cafeteria and live in dormitory.
In fact, many students in the class have left home since the beginning of junior high school. They also suffer a lot because they live on campus for a long time, because they are young, because of interpersonal or learning problems. They were also particularly envious of us day students, who could go home every day and eat delicious meals.
People are like that, they don't have the conditions to have what they think is the best.
When I went to college, it was the first time I left home. Fortunately, none of the seven people in our dormitory had any quirks, went to bed on time, and woke up on time. Most of the personalities are more easy-going and tolerant.
After four years, everyone got along like sisters. Although the space is limited, it is inevitable that there will be some discord, and everyone will tolerate each other and the fog will disperse. In addition, everyone was relatively young at that time, and there was no problem with sleeping, and they could sleep until dawn when they lay down.
I remember having insomnia once, because I had an afternoon of kung fu tea with Lin from Guangdong. The strong tea kept me awake all night. The rest of the time, I never lose sleep.
Now that I think about it, I feel a little heartless, and nothing keeps me awake at night.
When people reach middle age, they get less and less sleep. I sleep at home, and at the slightest noise, I wake up, three or four times a night. When you go to bed, you need to be absolutely quiet before you can fall asleep.
Recently, I took a lunch break in the dormitory of the school. The conditions are limited, and it is indeed a little embarrassing for more than two dozen people to rest in one house. During this time, I probably fell asleep once in the middle of the day.
Most of the time, I'm awake. There are too many people, and it feels like the air is not circulating. Especially if someone sleeps and snores, then don't even think about falling asleep.
In addition, I am also worried that my sleep and snoring will affect the rest of others. These two reasons make it difficult for me to sleep at noon.
In short, it is indeed a bit embarrassing to live in a group dormitory, but even if you don't fall asleep at noon, lie down for a while, and you won't be too tired to go to work in the afternoon.
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The most painful thing about living in a dormitory is meeting people who don't agree with you. Of course, we should also be calm and not be too demanding of our roommates, as long as some of his practices do not affect us, we can be considered good roommates. Most of the troubles of adults come from always wanting to change others, always wanting others to be the same as their own thoughts, which is completely unnecessary and should not be, everyone is different, it is very difficult to change, and it is not necessary, because your ideas are not necessarily right, everyone's life experience and family conditions are different.
What you think is right may be wrong in his world, and what he thinks is right may be a little ridiculous in your return, which is normal, not that you are right or right, but different, and the most common thing in this world is difference and difference. It's not scary not to hurt, don't keep thinking about it.
1. Treat each other sincerely.
Entering a new environment is not only nervous and hesitant inside, but also the other roommates. Someone of us has to take the first step to get to know each other, and we should try to adapt to this roommate relationship, regardless of whether we are more cheerful or slower.
The roommate is likely to be the one we will be with for the next few years, so it is extremely important to exchange sincerity for sincerity. For example, if a roommate's hair dryer is broken, we can take the initiative to lend our own hair dryer to our roommate. My roommate forgot to bring her a meal card, so we lent her a meal. Although these are small things, they are a bridge to bring roommates closer.
2. Don't always try to take advantage of others.
Getting along with roommates, just like getting along with friends, can't always let others pay, and you definitely need to take some action. For example, others always share what they buy with you, but you always like to eat secretly and refuse to share it with others. Once such behavior is recognized, the relationship will break down as quickly as possible.
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