Is there a need for the end of the dead love that has been accustomed?

I sympathize with what you are going through, and the root cause is that you don't do it right. Don't think that this old-fashioned question doesn't exist, in fact, the reality is like this, have you seen Zhang Ziyi Lu Yi's "Jasmine", if not, I think you should watch it with your husband, maybe he will feel it.

Please don't care, I really want to help you:

All your contradictions are because he is rural, and rural people are rarely romantic, and he doesn't think that he is wrong not to be romantic, but thinks that you do a lot of things. He quickly adapts to an ordinary life, which you can't. In the hearts of rural people, they think that housework or many small things should be done by a woman, that is, you should serve him.

This is a concept, not something that love can change.

If he really loves you, he should work hard for you and struggle, and the poor children are in charge of the house early for those who have ideals and are willing to endure hardships.

You should think calmly now, life will assimilate a person's mind, and now you still want to change, maybe in another 5 years, you will be like him, without the goal of life, running for life instead of enjoying life.

Here, I don't mean to look down on the rural people in the slightest, I just think that it makes sense to be a good person.

PS: Be sure to see the jasmine.

Maybe communicating with him, it turns out that there are so many differences in everyone's head, the pressure of life makes us change, the original years have to explain and deal with many unknown problems, it turns out that everything is not a simple addition, but the solution of many problems, it turns out that everyone lives in such a contradictory constraint and is hungry.

Divide it, it's not appropriate. It's hard to find if you delay any longer. According to what you said above, it is useless. But if you like him, he must have good aspects, you might as well talk about it.

Divide it. He's been degraded to worthlessness by you.

From a man's point of view, he really can't do it.

It's a little harder, it's still so inconsiderate.

I don't think there's any need to be together.

If it goes on like this, it won't be happy.

What does it mean to get used to it? By what custom? ...The two are not even married....Even if you get married, as long as you don't have children...You can't use "habits" to solve problems....Why are two people together?

For love....For happiness....But with your cousin above, can girls still be happy? Even if there may be love....Does love that is completely full of pain make sense? True love is happiness....Let's separate, I don't know what the man thinks, the woman is really aggrieved....Don't think about what has changed....After so many years together, nothing has changed...Be ruthless, give yourself a relief....

Yes, you have loved each other, don't leave regrets, don't hug too tightly, you won't want to let go.

Love is not there to let go, let go of the side of the smile is a relief, but also a kind of happiness, but also a new beginning and have, in fact, to tell the truth, love has been painful, to completely forget how easy it is to talk about it is impossible, but also to deceive yourself, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up, some people or some things, in the years of inadvertent miss or loss, accidental picking up memories, will be born with a wisp of memory of the past romantic feelings, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, The sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart. When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui.

I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in your memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person who will cry, and the greatest satisfaction is what you give.