My boyfriend lied, and my boyfriend lied to me

Updated on psychology 2024-05-16
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First of all, trust between two people is a must, otherwise the more time together, the more deception, no one wants to live in lies all day long, and no one makes lies all day long and does not feel tired. If this continues, sooner or later!

    You don't have to ask him how he used to be, everyone has privacy, if you keep asking him, he will feel uneasy, fearful, it's human nature, there is no why. You're in love with him when you knew him, not his past, so be tolerant and don't ask about his past.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Men should never lie to someone who loves you, because men lie for their own good.

    And when a woman lies, she feels good for her lover.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe I'm afraid that you will mind, for your own good, so I won't say it. Boyfriends and girlfriends should trust each other and understand each other! I hope you all have a good ending!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's hard to say. Perhaps. Probably not. Let's see who your boyfriend is. What character.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe it's not worth mentioning, maybe I'm afraid that you'll be sad, as long as he's good to you now, why care about his past?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As long as he treats you well now, why bother

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Break up early, it's his nature! If you blindly distort and seek perfection, then you will live with his lies for the rest of your life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why don't you talk to him, maybe he will understand!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary. Kiss Glad to answer for you, oh dear; If your boyfriend lies, you can give him a chance Oh kiss ; First of all, you should learn not to debunk, in any case, this is your greatest respect for him, because in the case of everything is still undecided, this is also the respect for the relationship between you, because once many things are broken, the relationship of trust between each other will be destroyed, even if this matter is resolved in the later relationship, but you have never been able to go back to the beginning, which is more than worth the loss for you, so you first turn a blind eye and do not break the harmonious atmosphere between you. And if you expose it directly, it won't do you any good, so in the face of your boyfriend's lie, smart girls won't expose it from the face, and this way can also make the other party let down their guard, what if the time is right for him to confess to you?

    Kiss Glad to answer for you, oh dear; If your boyfriend lies, you can give him a chance Oh kiss ; First of all, you should learn not to debunk, no matter what the cover holds, this is your greatest respect for him, because in the case of everything is still undecided, this is also the respect for the feelings between you, because He is a lot of things once broken, the relationship of trust between each other will be destroyed Even if this matter is resolved in the later relationship, but you have never been able to go back to the beginning, which is more than worth the loss for you, so you first turn a blind eye and do not break the harmonious atmosphere between you. And if you expose it directly, it won't do you any good, so in the face of your boyfriend lying, smart girls won't expose it from the face, and this way can also make the other party Wuqing let down his guard, what if he confesses to you when the time comes?

    The boyfriend and girlfriend who is understanding The man went back to his hometown and said that he would come back from the high-speed rail on the night of the 3rd and promised me that he still ran to search Sakura to play mahjong at night in his hometown Lie to me and don't tell me clearly that he wants to go back to Shiqing Cong on the high-speed rail Not yet, like this, men still need to understand the development in the further difference.

    In that case, I don't think it's necessary, dear.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. Hello, the best thing to do if he lied to you is to be indifferent to him first, make him realize the seriousness of the matter, and then find an opportunity to talk to him properly. Because couples should not cheat on each other in the first place, and they should not hide anything from each other.

    I hope mine is helpful to you and I wish you a happy life

    What to do if my boyfriend lied to me.

    Hello, the best thing to do if he lied to you is to be indifferent to him first, make him realize the seriousness of the matter, and then find an opportunity to talk to him properly. Because couples should not cheat on each other in the first place, and they should not hide anything from each other. I hope mine is helpful to you and I wish you a happy life

    My boyfriend and I have been together for three or four years, and now we live together, and then we were going to get engaged for the Chinese New Year this year. But the conditions at my boyfriend's home are very bad. His own conditions are not good.

    It didn't take long for me to start working. It's been more than two months. Now it's in a state of no money.

    Because I'm in the network, I don't have any income for a month or two. I used to rely on my boyfriend to make a living. He's working hard.

    The 20th of this month. He asked his boss for a little money. I gave it all to me.

    A female colleague in their company sent a transfer of 200. Later, I'm going to take a look at the chat history between my boyfriend and this female colleague. But no chat history is blank.

    Occasionally, we exchanged work questions. There are no other topics. Records have not been erased.

    Then on the 20th. After the subject gives me the money. Asked me again for 300. There are 100 that are used for work. I looked at the record and it was normal. There is also the fact that this 200 is transferred to this female colleague.

    Emptied the chat history.,That's definitely what I don't want you to see.,I think the 200 he transferred should have a lot to do with this female colleague.,But I don't want you to know about it.。

    You should ask him directly, after all, they have already talked about marriage, maybe it's just a misunderstanding, maybe it's a human relationship, the subject said to me on the 20th. 200 is needed for work, but I looked at my phone last night, and this 200 is not used for work. It was transferred to this female colleague.

    But the subject lied to me. He said what the work needed. Spend on work. But I looked at my phone usage history last night. Didn't spend on work. Why did the subject lie to me?

    I just don't understand why the chat history of my partner is blank with another *** and this female colleague. The WeChat transfer change shows that two 100 yuan were transferred separately to a female colleague. It actually shows that there is a transfer of money.

    Why is the chat history blank. Is my partner lying to me about something?

    It may also be that he has never talked to that woman at all, and you also said that he has a job number and daily life, which is also possible.

    Transferring money may also be some personal contacts, but he was afraid that you would think too much and didn't tell you, and you also said that he was working very hard, so he shouldn't have other ideas, mainly because he is usually good to you during this time?

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