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Anonymous users2024-02-10Was the "last time" more than a year ago or after that?
Personally, I think your girlfriend is quite assertive and can make her own decisions on such a big matter as buying a house. Is it a single parent?
Judging from her performance, she is a very insecure person! In fact, she doesn't have to tell you this, or she can tell you directly, it's nothing.
The key is why she said she bought a house some time ago, and now she says that she has lived there for more than a year. She wants to surprise you?
Heck, that's hard to guess, it's nothing. It's just that she will tell you everything, but she will cut it first and then play it.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Who paid for the house?
Maybe she's not secure about you yet.
You have nothing to do with her more and communicate more.
People are emotional animals, but they need to communicate more.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Maybe he doesn't want her house to be a factor in your relationship, because many men will also pursue women because they have a house, so he wants to avoid this factor.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Women are indeed masters of acting, and they are also vain. I've experienced it myself, but no matter what, if you love her, don't be disgusted by her artificiality. I recommend you to read a book called "The Little Prince", and the story told in it is the story of the rose and the little prince who also love vanity.
500 times of looking back in the past life, in exchange for a passing of the present life. 500 times in the past life passed by, in exchange for an encounter in this life. 500 encounters in the past life in exchange for an acquaintance in this life.
500 acquaintances in the past life in exchange for one acquaintance in this life. 500 times of acquaintance in the past life, in exchange for a love in this life.
But the Buddha also said that there are times when fate must be there, and there is no time to force it. No matter what, try to maintain an optimistic attitude towards her and love her. Being able to walk together is fate. There's no need to speculate on her heart, because that will only depress you.
Remember, love is not possession, even if you can't be a family, you can be a brother and sister.
This is what I have summed up these days because I did a stupid thing and knew she was acting, but I went to expose her anyway. But what's the point? Not even friends.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06That is to say, she wants to live with her mother, and then deliberately said this to see if you oppose it, you have been tricked! I'm afraid there will be problems in your relationship.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05I want to see if you have filial piety, or worship money.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Say that you do not exist in his heart.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03Distrust: If you don't trust your girlfriend, then you may be suspicious of her words and actions. This could be because you have past conflicts or trust issues between you, or because you have been hurt in a past relationship.
2.Anxiety: If you are worried that your girlfriend will betray you, then you may develop unnecessary anxiety and suspicion.
It could be because you've had a similar experience, or because you care about the relationship. Closed back to envy.
Love is two people to understand each other's character, family, living environment, way of processing, values, etc., from what you said, she values how much money you save, she should save more than you, or the standard in her heart is to ask you to save more than her, or more than she thinks, so it forms a different way of understanding two people, she is measured by how much money you save, which causes greater pressure on your heart. This shows that you lack the necessary communication and exchanges, and you should talk to each other about what you think in each other's hearts and how what kind of impact what you say will have on each other, and find a way to express yourself that is acceptable to both parties. >>>More
Communicate with someone to teach you, find a topic to talk to her, analyze her words carefully, try to understand her heart, discover what is deep in her heart, don't close your heart too tightly, you can share some things with her, so that she will think that she has a very important place in your heart.
Hehe, it's normal, everyone wants the other party to be a blank piece of paper, hopes that they are the first person to draw the first stroke on this paper, everyone wants the other party to belong only to themselves, whether it is the past, the present, or the future, it is just their own, love is this - possession. However, I would like to ask, are you living in the present or living in your boyfriend's past, the past is gone, and you should be thankful that you are together now, you know? Every one of you who inadvertently passes by is the guy called "happiness", don't always live in someone else's past, don't use the past to hurt the present, it's not worth it, what you're doing now is like an excavator-style love, when you know a little thing, you want to know more, so just know a little, dig a shovel, when you know it all, you may find that you have dug a big hole, at this time you want to climb up too difficult. >>>More
Through your description, I came to this conclusion, you do manual work all day long, the income is not good, and your girlfriend spends her youth at home all day, and the emotional game takes time, and your girlfriend just meets the conditions... I think if you can't change the working environment in a short period of time, you still have to share it with her, and the long pain is better than the short pain.
Either you have a strong personality, and you always hope that what belongs to you will always belong to you alone, and there is absolutely no room for the second; Either you love her very much, you care about everything about her, you will take every bit of her to heart, you don't want her to have too much contact with others, afraid that she will be bullied, afraid that she will be taken advantage of by others. In fact, after all, if two people really like it, they should restrain themselves and trust each other.