Why has it become cold to play with 4 people now?

Hello, because with the change of time, it is true that there will be a lot of things that will gradually change, and the feelings will become a little weaker.

In fact, every relationship needs to be maintained and managed. Whether it's friendship, family, love, and so on. The four good friends who used to play together have not been in touch for a long time because of their studies, work, etc., and their feelings will naturally fade.

But it cannot be denied that there are many examples of people who don't usually contact each other, but they still meet at first sight. But I think that the relationship that is not accumulated on a daily basis is always not as stable and strong as the relationship that is constantly maintained and diligent.

It used to be played by four people and now it has become cold, which means that the relationship between four people has become stranger now, and it is understandable that the daily contact between everyone is becoming less and less, so you don't have to worry about these things.

People will encounter many people and many things in their lives. There are no forever friends. Because the environment changes, friends will lose contact and become estranged.

In fact, everyone's life is busy. Because the time train never stops, we have to deal with too many people and things in our lives. Sometimes I really don't have the strength and energy to deal with too many people.

When circumstances change. A lot of people have become passers-by. When a lot of people don't have a stake in it.

I feel that it is boring to reconnect, because you can't use each other, and the other party can't use you, and it's not interesting for two people to be together. No matter how good the past is, the past is gone. The environment is always changing.

So cherish the good, face the cruel reality, and give up the past. Cherish what is coming.

You have to really know that you and each other are lovers, not husband and wife, not lovers, lovers and lovers are two concepts. Therefore, it is normal for the other party to cheat on you, and at the beginning of your relationship, there is already the inevitability of distrust.

But we've been separated 4 times and still haven't separated, what should I do now?

A person who can ignore his wife! It's good to go back, and the freshness is over.

You can find a time for the two of you to sit together and have a good talk.

You need to describe your boyfriend's behavior.

So see the people like this.

You can roughly judge it.

Your boyfriend is not.

I'm really cold to you.

But girls have a strong sixth sense.

You feel like your boyfriend is cold to you.

There is a good chance that this is the case.

But even if it's true.

This doesn't make your boyfriend less possessive.

Your boyfriend is cold to you, maybe it's just your feelings, his feelings for you haven't changed, it's just that after a longer relationship, it's not as glue as before.

Love can't be, it's always as warm as when we first met, it's just a little dull.

Because boys have a kind of possessiveness, they may really not like you, but they still care about you.

How long have you been talking, friend?

Also cool yourself down for a while, and then talk to him (her), if she (he) is still cold, the two of you are done playing.

Reflect on yourself first, what did you do wrong? If not, then sincerely care about the other party, ask what is wrong, is it me.

What's the matter, if you're in a bad mood, you ask him, there are too many possibilities.

Find out the reason and prescribe the right medicine!

There are two situations, she really doesn't like you, so Bai uses this Fang Yuan Grip Ye style to make you give up, then you will give up decisively. The other is that she wants to be captured, if that's the case, then you still have to give up hail, because I think since you're chasing her, it's hot and cold to you, what's the matter with hanging you (Pi Dong personally recommends giving up.)

Four years is a long time, you can't love each other, the relationship will definitely fade, you have to adjust your distance as much as possible, the distance between you is too far, sometimes it is difficult to comfort Yu Wangfeng to help, for the sake of love, you have to go to the other half of the city to erect.

In fact, it's because it's been too long, to be honest in the past few years, he thinks that you haven't made any money, and then it is estimated that there is no bright future, you know that people are always very realistic, and he also has to think about it for the future.

So men still have to be self-reliant, Bi Pei works hard to make money, and if you have money, you can find a few girlfriends.

Judging from your description, bai, you and your girlfriend have been in a relationship for 4 years, but zhi is that he is unusually cold to you now.

I am thin, and the message is replied to, too.

It's very slow, and it's all seconds before the answer is slow. It's clear that there's something wrong with your relationship, and I think he has a higher demand, and you don't live up to it. I think you need to discuss it with him and ask him about the situation in order to solve the problem you are currently experiencing.

In this case, it is necessary to communicate well with your girlfriend once, there must be a problem, and long-term love must be well communicated.

( Come ) Hey.

Hello, friend.

You're a girlfriend. You're very cold to you now, probably because you're tired. Zhi is actually a good feeling.

After a long time, it will return to blandness, and if at this time, Yubu will pursue the sweetness of the beginning, which is really a very difficult thing.

Because you live together, you can't talk about a lifelong relationship, there will always be a day when you feel a little tired and a little boring.

At this time, you might as well give each other more time and leave more space for the other party. After all, there is a saying - "Little Bie is better than the newlywed", this sentence is not unreasonable, after all, it has been circulated for so many years, and its reason is very simple - let you give each other a little space and time enough, so that you can get back to the heartbeat feeling you had when you were together.

In fact, I would like to say that the older you get, the more you find that there will be a lot of things that will haunt you and make you feel no longer free.

At this time, it is often impossible for us to reply to messages in seconds, and it is impossible to do many things immediately.

For four years, your relationship has been very good. And this time your relationship is a little cold, and it's not a problem between the two of you. It's that two people have been together for a long time, and they will always be tired.

Remember, be sure to give her more time, don't rush to quarrel with him during this time, don't stick to him, take care of her slowly with your care, and she will soon return to her previous state.

Finally, I wish the two of you to be together forever, be happy for the rest of your life, and achieve a happy story.

There must be something wrong, she is dissatisfied with you, or she is in love with him, otherwise she wouldn't be so cold.

Do you carefully sort out whether your words and deeds have affected her, and have her recent words revealed her dissatisfaction with you?

Maybe it's a little annoying and doesn't want to reply, and if you're in a bad mood, you don't want to reply, it's normal.

Your girlfriend has made a very clear message to you. It's that you don't have the financial strength she needs, and she thinks that starting a family with you is a disadvantaged thing for Zen Shen. When women become realistic, it's not a bad thing to roll on Min.

You have to think that not having the right financial foundation will be a waste of your time, after all, both parties will get older. She was able to be in a relationship with you Dazhi for four years, which shows that she still attaches great importance to feelings. Or it means that she now has a better goal to pursue.

Either it means that she has lost confidence in your development potential.

Four years of relationship, if the spine smile is just suddenly cold and indifferent, you can see if Sakura accompanies her if she has something unspeakable.

If there are traces of her coldness, meaning that she has been cold for the past year or months, you should consider whether she has no feelings for you.

Explain that she doesn't like you anymore or has found someone better.

After a long time, you have to take the road of verifying the results of love, and if the time is too long, the relationship is easy to become weaker and weaker. Let's use marriage to stabilize the relationship. If she wants to get married, but you don't want to accept the closed state, that's your fault, no woman in the state will keep waiting.

If you want to get married and she doesn't agree, that's when she can't reach the level of affection for you between you and entrusts herself to you.

I think let's see if you have any problems with yourself, if not, it's on purpose, you just play with your own friends, don't bother.