Is there any need to keep this friendship?

From between the lines, you can see that you attach great importance to this friend, but people will change, and it is impossible to maintain a simple heart when you are a child until you grow up, and there are no conditions for making friends at that time, because everyone is a pure childlike heart at that time. But when you grow up, a lot of your thoughts will change, depending on the environment in which your friends live, the friends they make, and so on. I think he thinks you're too dependent on him, you're a bit of a burden to him, he doesn't want to ask too much about you, and he doesn't want you to interfere too much in his life.

The friends he makes now are normal, there is no shortage of friends, and you are different, you are disabled, you can't make too many friends, so you are very eager for friends in your heart, especially for this friend who has played with you since childhood. From your description, it can be seen that your friend has not completely given up on your friendship, and the heart is not bad, otherwise he would not be willing to come to your house several times, although the tone is not very good. I think he thinks you're a little clingy to him, he wants to spend more time with his new friends, and if you can let go of your dependence on him, then you can talk to him a little bit and say that you won't have anything to do with him in the future.

If you can't let it go, then you can try to talk to him once, ask him why he has changed, and ask him a few questions: if you didn't have a disability, would you always be good buddies; If you don't have a disability, it's just a matter of a sentence whether to call him out for a meal with your buddy; If you are a normal person, if you don't have a word with him, he won't be disdainful. Tell him that if you are a normal person, you will not make fewer friends than he does; If you are a normal person, you can do everything yourself, and you don't need to trouble him often.

Who doesn't want to be a normal person, it's just that God is unfair to you! Look at what he says, whether he has been touched, whether he has a conscience to find that you can see from his words, as long as he still cares about your friendship, he will be moved, at least the attitude will be better, if his attitude towards you has not changed, I can only say, this kind of person who does not value feelings, why should he cherish it? ? Is it necessary to make yourself angry with him, doesn't he have a slight advantage over you?

My thoughts have been expressed, you should consider and grasp them.

There's no need, he's completely enchanted. Since he is like this to you, you can just let it be, and let's ignore him. You do what you want to do, I think he should take care of you in the future, but if he wants you to do something that goes against common sense, don't agree.

If you really can't let him go, you can observe his life more and see why he is like this, so that you can prescribe the right medicine for this demonic person.

It's very common for this to happen because it's not the same line, and time can dilute a lot.

He needs those who think about the future of life You can understand it from his point of view If you were you, you would choose this way A person can't guarantee that the friendship with his friends will always be the same It is natural to go to the wedding banquet It is also because of the relatives please Your life circle cannot be the same.

The landlord explained very clearly and in detail.

I've watched it twice from beginning to end, and I actually feel it personally:

You're still a good friend.

It's good enough for the relationship between friends.

Putting aside what happened after sophomore year, there is no doubt that he is really your confidant.

What a good method, you actually said it above.

Otherwise, you wouldn't have been friends with him for so long.

It's just that, from what you said above, it is obvious that you are too dependent on your so-called good friend.

Your over-reliance may be offending to him (personal opinion, not on behalf of other people's thoughts).

From what you said later:

His college classmates invited him to dinner, and he immediately agreed, and when his college classmate's friend got married, he immediately agreed to go to the banquet, and his college classmate's relatives needed someone to make up for the class, so he immediately went to make up the class himself. "

It can also be seen that your friend is still so helpful and easy to get along with.

In fact, good friends also need to have the right space, and they also have the right distance, understand?

So, you don't need to get angry or get too careful.

I think the latter paragraph of this is a bit of a gambling element and is not advisable.

You know, a true friend can't just say it.

Friends can not see each other for many years, and they can not be in touch for many years, but it does not mean that it has lost the definition of friends!

A true friend is someone who will only help you when you need it most!

Good fences make good neighbors. Good friends are no different.

When you understand this, you will know whether you want to be friends with him or not.

Personal feelings, personal opinions, I hope not to laugh.

He feels that you are relying on him for everything, relying on him, for him you have no use value for him, and he hates to help you, to sum up a reason, his self-status in front of you is higher than yours, not the equality of friends! So keep your distance, live your life, he wants to find your value and will definitely come back to you, real friend!

You can keep a certain distance from him so that it doesn't hurt your feelings Distance produces beauty.

I suddenly felt how this person had changed, and there was something unsympathetic."

When I saw you say this, I wasn't in the mood to look any further, compassion, you need this? Do you think he should have compassion for you? Do you think he should be honest with you by being friends with compassion?

Two people who don't have anything to do with each other, that's the two-day parallel, that is, you're equal. Friends are hard to come by, forget it.

You treat him as a good friend, but it is not necessary that he will take you like this, and it is impossible to ask him to treat you the way you treat him, people will always change, if he really treats you as a friend, although he speaks very directly, he will not be mean to you. So, let it be! Let it be!

If there is a broken relationship, there will be a close friend...

I think we should understand and respect each other, there are differences between people, don't impose your preferences on each other, although they are good friends, but there are also differences, and friendship is the best to seek common ground while reserving differences.

First of all, we should help each other, and at the same time face problems together, and at the same time, the two of us can also go to the manicure, get the hair done, go shopping, go shopping, go to the movies, go to the game, or go to the amusement park, which can make the friendship between the two people better.

If you want to maintain a good friendship, you must treat your friends sincerely, put yourself in each other's shoes, and prepare a sense of ceremony, so that you can do it.

That little thing between men and women. What can be pure. Why keep it.

Chop constantly. It's still messy. It's this word "love" that can't be understood after the person dies.

Why are you doing it? You can't live happily alone. The ancients said that sincerity is a friend.

Honesty is friendship. Except that it's neither!!

False personalities and false friendships will always be discovered one day, and sincerity is the most down-to-earth road, and often sincerity can move people's hearts more. Consistency is easy to gain the favor of others. False friendship, without false liveliness, will gradually fade; And true friendship will only become more radiant and moisturized after the polishing of time.

So if I had a false friendship, I would end it decisively!

Making friends is like tying your hair, using a rubber band to help you tie a beautiful hairstyle and maintain a beautiful time. When you remove the bands and get ready for a new hairstyle, the good quality bands will come off as soon as they are removed, and the shape is well maintained, and it will be ready for next time. Poor quality rubber bands stick together in the hair for too long, which is not only difficult to remove, but also pulls out the hair that has not been easy to grow at the same time.

The best of both worlds is to use scissors to cut off the implicated hair directly. When I cut it, I found that the rubber band had long been broken, but my hair was sticking to it. This kind of friendship has long since changed its taste, and the meaning of existence is not much, or choosing the right friendship is the best choice.

Many times, we feel that we have to be arrogant, we have to stick a knife in the ribs for our friends, and we have to be righteous enough to drink with our friends. But when it comes to the critical moment, you can see the warmth and coldness of people, and the only people who really care about your body are your family and your true friends. When you drink, you're all brothers and girlfriends, and if something happens, you'll see it all thoroughly.

True friendship does not need to be deliberately maintained, but when there is something to do, everyone can get together when they want to get together; True friendship does not need to be deliberately flattering, but can be each other's truest selves and still be comfortable with each other. True friendship does not need to be falsely concealed, but mutual trust, mutual support, frankness and sincerity. The interaction between people, in the final analysis, is actually a sincere heart.

Life is short, and there is no need to waste it on bad people and things. Everyone should make friends with sincerity for sincerity, so that everyone will cherish this friendship with each other, if it is just to be together to praise each other, show off to each other, full of interests, then such a friendship is the best choice to stop loss in time.

No, this kind of friendship may make me very tired and hate contact with people, so I won't stick to it.

Friendship is the foundation of feelings, and only when the foundation is well laid can there be friendship. Sincere feelings come from both sides, heart-to-heart, like-minded, and a very beautiful relationship, which is true friendship. If both sides are a little hypocritical, as long as they understand each other and let each other go, they can also operate, because there are too many hypocrisies in this world.

Whether hypocrisy can go on in the end depends only on how far it goes.

No, such a friendship is too false and illusory, and there is no point in continuing it.

To maintain a long-lasting friendship, do the following:

1.Be honest with others, and you can't say one thing in your mouth and do another in your actions.

2.You can't take advantage of others, always treat the other party as a fool to take advantage of others, and people will gradually leave you.

3.Both men and women, pay attention to the boundaries and don't be alone, others will gossip, people will be terrible, and it will destroy the friendship between you.

4.Don't borrow money from the other party at every turn, people don't open banks, and if you borrow money more times, people will get tired of you.

5.You can't be ambiguous in ordinary times, especially if you "show friendship" in public, others will misunderstand that you are flirting.

6.Pay attention to your words and deeds, and do not overstep the line in an indescribable way, which ends when the boat of your friendship capsizes.

By doing the above, you can basically maintain a long-lasting friendship!