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A male classmate taught me, in fact, the standard is very simple: you ask yourself, this man, do I want to follow? With the first feeling, if your heart tells you no, then prove that you mind what he did, don't ask a second time, don't look back, and leave.
If your first reaction is to follow, it means that your inner subconscious is still thinking about his good. Find a calm afternoon, ask yourself, and you'll naturally have a choice. Because people's inner feelings are very complex, no one can replace your inner answers.
I wish you the happiness of finding yourself.
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The damage to a single-parent family and their children is immeasurable.
Since your husband is still in love with you, then live a good life, give him a chance, and give yourself a chance.
The undesirable occurrence of extramarital sex for the sake of revenge can lead to unexpected, uncontrollable disasters, both physically and psychologically!
The extramarital sex affair between the two parties is uneven!! Besides, he has told you about it, for the sake of his sincerity, give him another chance, if he does not change repeatedly, that is the essence of the problem, you can seek legal help appropriately, and now you can wait for the birth of the baby with your husband with peace of mind, and give him a harmonious and happy home.
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It is indeed a difficult problem to understand the pain in your heart. Because of the special circumstances of your current labor, the court will not grant a divorce. If you already have a general direction in your heart, what I can do, I can give you an analysis:
1. Choose divorce. The basis of the existence of marriage lies in feelings, and what can be seen at present is that the relationship between your husband and you has indeed gone wrong, and it is a matter of principle, which is very emotional. If the foundation is broken, how high can the building be built, and even if it is built, it will collapse sooner or later.
Your husband's extramarital sex has become a "fly" in your heart, and even if you endure it now, you will still have a reaction when you think about it sooner or later, both physically and psychologically. Well, long pain is better than short pain. You are still young, and many of the current single mothers are doing very well, and their children are also very good.
Don't worry about the future, I don't think you will compromise for a "long-term meal ticket". What's more, there are several men who have no sense of responsibility who can share the financial problems for the family. If you choose to do so, you must do a good job in a series of issues such as property division and child support.
2. Give up the divorce. That's a lot of work for you. Then you have to forget everything that happened in the coming decades.
Start a new marriage, keep your nerves strong, even if the same thing happens again, you must be able to maintain a good state, have the ability to solve problems at any time, protect your family, and protect yourself, of course, these are easier said than done. The only consolation is that you also have a whole family, so that the child has his biological father by his side. One more word of caution:
If you are afraid of accidents, you can keep the relevant evidence and protect yourself.
Men are mostly animals that think with their lower bodies. This is something you have to keep in mind. I'll tell you a joke: Someone once asked an expert: what color of hair is the most reliable man in the world? The expert answers: White.
As a person who has come over, I sincerely wish you: get out of the predicament as soon as possible and welcome your own happiness!
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fainted, "If I am really unhappy, I can also have an extramarital sexual revenge on him, and no one will mention this matter after everyone evens it out, love the family and the children." ”
You can say that! What else is there to be nostalgic for this kind of man.
It is expected that the child will play around all day long after he comes out, leaving a series of shadows on the child It is better to leave early to save trouble!
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You're giving him one last chance, see if he cherishes it, not all men are careful.
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Hehe.. Just be happy. Don't overthink it. It's too much pressure.
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Summary. Hello, I'm glad to reply to you, what kind of marriage is not necessary to continue: 1. What does a good marriage state look like when you often complain to each other?
Of course, it is two people who cooperate with each other and live their lives together into poetry, such a marriage is enviable, and it also achieves the meaning of marriage. Some marriages are completely two people making do with each other, such a marriage state is very bad, two people live together and look separated, but in fact, they will not live happily. If the husband and wife are in a state of constant complaining to each other, then there is no need for the marriage to continue.
If two people complain all day long in a marriage, then both people are unhappy.
Hello, I'm glad to reply to you, what kind of marriage is not necessary to continue: 1. What does a good marriage state look like when you often complain to each other? Of course, it is two people who cooperate with each other and make life a poem together, such a marriage is enviable, and it also achieves the meaning of marriage.
Some marriages are completely two people making do with each other, such a marriage state is very bad, two people live together and look separated, but in fact, they will not live happily. If the husband and wife are in a state of constant complaining to each other, then there is no need for this marriage to continue. If two people complain all day long in a marriage, then both people are unhappy.
An unhappy marital state is just a drag on each other. The two wild towns are together and enter the palace of marriage, which is to live a better life than before. If each other looks at each other unpleasantly, if each other affects their emotions because of some small things and begins to become irritable, such a marriage ends as soon as possible and gives themselves a freedom.
2. A good marital state of long-term separation should be a good marital state after marriage, a good marital state should be as sweet as ever, and a good marital state should be two people accompany each other and grow together. If the marital status of two people changes and becomes bad, then there is no need to continue this marriage. A good marital state is that two people have been with each other and tolerate each other, and if two people have been separated for a long time and their minds are not on each other, then there is no need to maintain such a marital state.
Because such an emotion itself is not strong and unstable, sooner or later there will be some problems, and in the end both people will be hurt.
3. If you don't work hard for each other, marriage requires two people to work together, and a good marriage state is for two people to work together to create a better future. Life itself is not easy, it will give us a lot of pressure, which is also the motivation of our life. It is actually a very happy thing for two people to live together and work hard to grow for a common goal.
And if the state between husband and wife is not good, Liang Hunger is not willing to work each other, or if one person works very hard, and the other person stands still, then no matter what the situation is, sooner or later there will be problems in such a husband and wife state.
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I don't think it's necessary, two people are suspicious of each other, that is, neither side can give the other a sufficient sense of security, and neither can satisfy the other party. That relationship is full of contradictions, misunderstandings, unhappiness, and even noise, and the result of suspicion is bound to be questioning, once or twice may feel like being coquettish, but no one will like it after a long time. But if you like it enough and can talk about it calmly with both parties, there is still the possibility of being together, and the other side of suspicion is not communicating.
If you're having a good time together. You might as well fall in love, love is not the same as marriage, love is to let both parties feel each other's love, as for the question of whether you can be together in the future, when your love develops to a certain extent, you will have the answer yourself.