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Generally speaking, parents will love the youngest child more, because among the children, the youngest child is relatively weak, and this bias of parents can compensate for this weakness, so that the balance of power between brothers can be maintained, so that children can achieve equal development. Unlike the natural world, most animals will use their strength during their growth period to create more opportunities to gain the love of their parents and get more help, resulting in a situation where the strong are stronger and the weak are weaker. Of course, in some families, the eldest brother or elder sister will sometimes become the leader of the child, acting as the parent's discipline role for the younger siblings, and such a person will also be in a leading position in the future society.
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I don't agree with the view upstairs, the average parents love their younger son more, because they think that the younger son needs to be taken care of more, and it is this kind of thinking that has been passed down from generation to generation from ancient times to the present, and parents can't say that parents are unreasonable just because they love their younger son.
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You evoke my sadness, I have also felt the same way, in the past, my parents were like this, it was really sad, but now we are much better, now my brother is 15 years old, my parents will no longer be as partial as before, maybe children are very likable, adolescent children and parents have a generation gap. You go play with your friends, leave them alone, you have a good time with your friends, you will forget about it, hehe, let time smooth everything out, go high!!
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It's that most parents love the young, because they have great hopes for the young, but they still hope that you can drink your family and get along.
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No, although I am the only one in my family, I know that my parents are not unreasonable people and should communicate with them more.
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The youngest in the family, it was really miserable. Nothing is my turn, I'm 16 years old. My brother (18 years old) has to fight with me for anything, and in the end it will be divided. I can't fight with my brother if he has anything, and he was scolded by my father, and he didn't feel what love was.
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Mainly because the first child doesn't know how to take care of it and feels a little annoying, and then it may not be very good to the boss, and when the second child has experience, he will also compensate for the debt to the eldest when he was a child.
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In the process of educating their children, parents cannot blindly give and do not expect anything in return. Some people say that I never expect my children to provide for me in the future, and I will save enough money to go to a nursing home.
I don't ask my child to give me anything in return.
In fact, there is a misunderstanding of the understanding of pension here, we don't need to pay money, so what about emotional comfort? When you are old and stay comfortably in a nursing home, and you can't see your children all year round, will you miss them, will you hope that they will be free to come and see you? This emotional need is something that everyone needs, and then the child's visit to the parents is also a kind of return for the parent's upbringing.
If the child is young, you just give to him, never ask for it, or even say in front of the child, I don't need your return, I don't need you to support me, etc., it seems unintentional, but the child listens to it and writes it down, and may feel that I don't need to do anything to you, and at that time, the visit will become a luxury wait.
It is best to change the age of the child not to feel sorry for his parents, of course, the younger the better, because the three views are slowly cultivated from an early age.
First of all, it is necessary for parents to see the hard work of their children, for the sake of this family, for the sake of a happier life for the family, what efforts have parents made, for example, parents working overtime, business trips, are for better work, get more labor remuneration, and improve family life. For example, parents cook delicious meals for their children, play fun games with their children, give warm care and care to their children when they are sick, and empathize with their children's mistakes.
Together, how can we avoid making mistakes again and so on.
Second, appropriate requests. Give children appropriate exercise opportunities, let them experience the joy and value of growth, such as letting children do housework appropriately, on the one hand, he can feel that he has grown up and is useful, and on the other hand, he can also understand how hard and difficult it is for parents to help me do these things. At the same time, you can also show weakness in front of your child at the right time and ask for your child's help, at this time the child will have a sense of accomplishment and can feel that his parents need him, then he will try to make himself better.
In short, the process of raising children is a process of gradual letting go, and it is a process of cultivating children to face social life independently. Giving enough warmth and patience, and taking it appropriately, will make children know how to love their parents and the world better.
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Each parent's education level is different, the education level of the parents is very low when they are young, and then their own family does not give the edification of love, so naturally the parents are imperceptible. Or feel that the child needs to be free-range, does not need to be used to it, and the discipline is too strict.
It is also related to the emotional world between parents, and the maintenance between parents is not in place, and the bad attitude is involved in the child.
It also has a lot to do with economic relations, and if the family is very wealthy, the material and emotional gifts will be a little more. The child naturally feels very happy, many things can be satisfied, if he is not rich, the child has nothing, and when he compares with the next door, he will feel that he is not favored.
Of course, it varies from person to person, these, but also need to be subject to the actual situation, parents generally love their children very much, may not be the right way to educate, do not know how to get along with you, you can communicate with parents more, communication is the solution to the problem. Don't blame your parents for being bad to you, first of all, look at what you have done for your family.
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I think there are almost no parents in the world who do not love their children, children are the crystallization of two people's love, is the expectation of two people for the future, in the children can see each other's feelings, children are an important factor in maintaining a family.
Parents give their love to their children, and children are the continuation of their lives and the sustenance of all their feelings. It's the flesh of the mother.
Some parents do not feel sorry for their children for the following reasons: First, such parents are selfish and greedy for pleasure, and do not feel sorry for their children. Even though his children are living in difficulty, he also puts forward various needs to his children for their own enjoyment.
Second, parents are living in a difficult situation, and they have no extra thoughts to feel sorry for their children. In order to make a living, he went out to work, so that his children became left-behind children. Third, the marriage fails, and the children are also the victims.
Some parents do not feel sorry for their children may be related to the character of their parents, some parents dote on their children, some parents do not like to pamper their children, this is determined by character, it is the nature of parents to love their children, only the love of parents is selfless, although some parents do not seem to love their children on the surface, they are actually loved, but their feelings are not exposed.
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Why do some parents love their children so much? Some parents who don't love themselves also have a causal relationship between people, maybe it is the cause and effect of the previous life, but no matter when, as long as you change yourself, you will change everything.
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No, most fathers love their children.
The love of parents is embodied.
1. Nurturing love.
The grace of nurturing is greater than the grace of birth, raising children, educating children is the embodiment of parents' love for children, and children will also feel the full love of their parents in the process of growing up.
2. Care for children's physical and mental health.
Physical and mental health is important as children grow up, and every parent wants their children to be healthy and healthy. Therefore, they are very concerned about the physical development of their children, because the health of the children's bodies is more important than anything else, and the older generation says that the body is the capital of the revolution.
3. Think about your child's future.
The most important thing about your future in this world is your parents, because they are the ones who gave birth to you and raised you, so they are always concerned about you and your future.
4. Encouragement and support.
Or do good deeds, and many parents will praise and encourage them. Because parents want to see their children do more good things. Their encouragement and support also made the children more motivated.
5. Respect children and make them more confident.
Respect children's privacy, respect some of their choices, respect children's views on certain things, and let children be more confident in front of everyone and show themselves assertively.
6. Tell children some principles of life.
Parents who love their children will tell their children some rules for dealing with others. Let children understand the importance of self-discipline on the road to growth. And so on, there are many manifestations of parental love in Sen's.
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Father's love is like a mountain, and fathers are generally not good at expressing their feelings for their children, but there is never a shortage of love for their children!
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Because they feel that if their parents treat them badly, they will not be good to them, and if they are not good to their parents, they will not let their children be good to themselves. This creates a vicious circle. ...This is because people have feelings.
They will feel that their parents are not good to them, then they will not be good to their parents, so this phenomenon will be formed. Absolutely out because your parents don't hurt you, and you won't hurt your parents. So I don't hurt the child.
Such people are selfish, they do not know how to honor their parents. ...。 This is because people are selfish, they don't think about the hard work of their parents, they only think about their own interests, so they don't do good to their parents.
Such people are selfish, and they don't know how to honor their parents. ...。 This is because people are selfish, they don't think about their parents' hard work, they only think about their own interests, so they don't treat their parents well. ...。
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