Girls who don t have a job are qualified to fall in love

Not having a job is only temporary, as long as you don't want to work for the rest of your life, sometimes work is an opportunity, of course you can't work without a suitable job, I think it will have a little impact on falling in love, of course, some people don't care. It's like this when you're just dealing with someone, if it's already in place, it doesn't matter, of course, I think it's better to have a job, so that you can enrich yourself and be financially independent, and others will care more about you, whether it's a friend or a couple, which is very important. You say that the success rate, of course, has some impact, but it depends on your performance, as long as you are not a lazy person, I don't think others will care about not working for a while.

Of course, you are qualified to fall in love, as long as there is someone you love, you can catch love. Or you can think about it the other way around, if you were someone else, would you like him if he doesn't have a job? What do you think?

Good luck!

Didn't get a job? Still don't want to look for a job?

If it's the former, of course you're qualified, and it's all right for your boyfriend to support you. But if it's the latter, it's hard to say. Take your time, work will always be found.

Of course qualified to pull. It's not like you don't work all your life.

No, it won't. Unless he's a city guy.

They care.

Absolutely

You don't have to think about the success rate.

Let's try it first.

Why not? Is there a relationship between work and love?

Love doesn't seem to have much to do with work

I like it,,I'm a boy,,I don't have a lot of experience in love.。。 Are you a man or a woman??

It doesn't matter if you find a partner and talk about whether you are in love or not.

Yes, I feel that it is indeed more difficult to fall in love after work, mainly for the following four reasons.

The first point, anxiety and stress.

The envy, stress, and anxiety that comes with work can also affect our love life. When we feel anxious and stressed at work, it can be difficult to fully devote ourselves to a relationship. We may become more aloof and closed-minded, and it is difficult for the other person to feel that we are sincere and warm.

The second point is the balance between work and family.

As our careers improve, we may spend more time at work. In such a situation, it is difficult for us to balance work and family, and it is difficult to find time and energy to maintain a relationship. In addition, if we have family responsibilities and take care of our children, it increases our burden, and it is difficult to have the time and energy to fall in love.

Third, there is a lot of time pressure.

After work, most of our time is occupied. From morning to evening, we were almost so busy with work that we simply didn't have time to fall in love. Even if we have time, we may be overtired and do not have the energy to care for each other, and it is difficult to maintain a good relationship.

Fourth, the social circle has become smaller.

After work, our social circle may be smaller because of work. We may only deal with colleagues or clients, and it is difficult to reach other types of people. As a result, we are faced with fewer and fewer choices when looking for a romantic partner, and we may miss out on many opportunities as a result.

So how should we solve the problem of falling in love after work?

First, keep a positive attitude.

We should maintain a positive attitude in work and life. No matter what difficulties we encounter, we should insist on being optimistic, so that we can transmit positive energy in love and attract more people.

The second point is to balance work and life.

We should have a better work-life balance. If work is too busy, we can look for ways to relieve stress, such as traveling, taking a vacation, or catching up with friends. This can help us better adjust our mindset so that we can better devote ourselves to a relationship.

Third, take the initiative to look for opportunities.

Even if we are busy at work, we should take time out to find opportunities for love. We can expand our social circle and find a suitable love partner through introductions from friends or joining social activities.

Fourth, plan your time reasonably.

Outside of working hours, we should plan our time wisely. For example, taking some time out to exercise, learn new skills, or participate in hobbies can not only reduce the stress of work, but also meet like-minded people in these activities and increase the chances of a relationship.

In the face of a girl who has not been in love with Annihilation, you should first be careful, tolerant and thoughtful.

Because she has never been in a relationship, she will lack some experience and will look greener. Sometimes it may be difficult to understand your words and deeds, because there is no experience, some words will not know how to say, or do not know whether to say or not, then she will seem a little dull, or wooden, then you have to carefully experience her feelings, so as to make a correct judgment.

Because it is the first time to fall in love, she may have a natural sense of rejection towards boys, so you have to treat it leniently, she is not really happy with you, but subconsciously protects herself.

And what you have to do is to be warm and thoughtful, to impress her with your sincerity, to move her with your actions, and to influence her with your love, so that you will enter her heart and begin to accept you.

As long as you really like her, you will definitely make some efforts to crack the eggplant.

Finally, I wish you all the best.

Above, look.

It must be pursued with heart, but you also have to understand his preferences, but not blindly stalking.

<> two days ago, I saw such a message in the background. "Teacher, do you think a person has to be prepared enough to have the best love? "Usually I'm very cautious about this kind of question - in a literal sense, I can simply tell her "yes", because almost everyone knows that marriage is essentially worth matching, and only if a person's own value is high enough can he be matched with a better partner, and the more likely he is to have love.

But I know that the proposition itself is misleading. Equally misleading is the fact that many articles published by ** are now published, "Excellent Girls Have No Sex Life", "My Monthly Salary is 30,000 Yuan, I Have No Boyfriend", "In Your Twenties, What You Need Is Not to Get Off Singles but to Get Out of Poverty" ......These articles all point to a similar point of view, that girls must be good enough to be well prepared to meet love, and that when you are in the midst of a struggle, love is a passing light and a luxury that is out of reach.

There is nothing wrong with these ideas in themselves, but the biggest problem with them is that they treat "love" as an independent thing, even opposed to life. This is like the truth of "should you take a leave of absence and quit your job to travel" on the Internet a few years ago, but few people pay attention to it when people are arguing, why does "travel" have to be at the cost of giving up your studies and work?

There are multiple lives in parallel worlds, some people can work from 9 to 5 and wander the world, and some girls can fight in the workplace or in the snow.

Are good girls really not in love? Obviously not, otherwise human genes can only be inherited by people who are not excellent, and it is impossible to develop to today's level. In addition, this group of girls who have listened to similar views are most likely to come back to me after a few years and ask, "I am older now and want to fall in love, but where can I find the right person?"

Or, "I've finally met someone I like, but I haven't met a guy in a long time, how do I talk to him?" ”

Is it okay to talk to hard-working girls who are not in love? The answer, of course, is no. In my opinion, hard work is directly proportional to falling in love, and the harder the better the girl, the higher the quality of the relationship.

When it comes to falling in love, the most important thing is the individual's thoughts and the quality of the relationship. I've seen a lot of girls who can fall in love without working hard, and I've seen girls who put their heart and soul into their work but have met true love. Nothing in this world is so absolute.

But from a macro perspective, the harder you work, the more reluctant you are to fall in love.

For example, most of today's girls can support themselves by going to work. If the family conditions are good, I feel that I am more free and have no burden on myself. If you find a husband, it reduces the quality of life, and you feel that you are at a loss, so it is better not to look for it.

Moreover, you have to face housework, childbirth, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problems, etc., which is daunting to think about. Indeed, today's girls can taste sweetness in love, and once they enter marriage, this feeling is completely destroyed. Today's marriage is like a sanctuary for men, but it is like a shackle for women.

Choosing the wrong husband is wrong in everything, wrong in everything, and the most terrible thing is that it takes you a long time to prove the fact that you chose the wrong person. More and more cases make many girls choose to put their energy into work and put love and marriage at the lowest level. After all, the realization of financial freedom and the value of life has become something that modern girls pursue.

Remember the discussion before? "If there was a next life, would you still marry your current husband? One of the most impressive sentences is, "Absolutely not, I thought that marrying him would be able to escape the wind and rain, but I didn't expect that the wind and rain were brought by him."

It turns out that hard-working girls don't have a relationship to talk about, but mostly disdain to be in love. More Buddha nature girls appeared, love came, and I grabbed it. Love is not there, and I am not disappointed.

I came to this world once, I want to find a confidant, I want to have some value, I want to walk around, I want to think about love or not.

The ideal state of life for everyone is to achieve a work-life balance. A hard-working girl can not only be a strong woman in the workplace, but also be able to fall in love, which is not an ideal state that cannot be achieved, as long as you have a good time arrangement, you can get a work-life balance. How do you achieve work-life balance?

First, do a good job of time management. Do your job well, don't think about what work you haven't done in life. As the saying goes, a good memory is better than a bad pen, every day you record yourself whether it is work or life, and complete them one by one, which will reduce the anxiety in your life;

Second. Attend more events. By learning the organization and meeting different people, you can also improve the hit rate of falling in love.

As long as you know more people, you will have the opportunity to meet the right person and make yourself better, which is a kind of ability, and it is a kind of luck to meet the right person. So you need to participate in the event to be able to increase this luck;

Third, make yourself better and better. Not only to do a good job, but at the same time, one's dress, **, and mental state should also become exquisite at the same time. In this way, we can attract the ideal him.

In order for girls to achieve a work-life balance, they should first manage the time and events in their work and life. Let go of your anxiety first, and at the same time, be able to meet the right people while studying hard. Only by making yourself better, you will meet a better him.

Don't be discouraged, girls have the right to a better life. Not only work, but also a unique love. Make yourself better, and you will meet a better one in the near future.

When I was in high school, even if there was a lot of academic pressure, I couldn't stop two young and fiery hearts. After work, the time is more casual, and even hard-working girls can have time to fall in love.

1.Manage your time.

Although we both have a job, we try to work no more than 8 hours a day. Try to be as efficient as possible and don't procrastinate. If you have a lot of tasks, it's still acceptable to work overtime once in a while.

But working overtime for a long time can't be described as hard work. Rather, it is necessary to make a request to the leader for additional staffing. Hard work is not to work overtime, hard work is to be able to complete all kinds of work wholeheartedly and efficiently.

2.Maintain a good mental state.

It is said that women are made of water, and girls should take good care of themselves after working hard. Go to the gym and get in perfect shape. Go for a beauty and let ** get care.

Apply one tablet** after a late night's stay and make yourself a fat-loss, nutritious breakfast in the morning. Show your best side.

3.Get to know more people.

Some beauties are limited by their relatively small social circle, so they don't meet the right person. My friend A is such a person, he has a delicate life and is excellent at work. When someone introduces him to someone, she will only look at it and refuse, the reason is that she doesn't feel it.

After a long time, everyone felt that she was too demanding, but she was no longer enthusiastic. In fact, there are too few people who can meet love at first sight, and more often than not, you should give yourself some chances. Even if it's a face-to-face conversation.

Girls who work hard should also try to be good to themselves.