How do I get out of this fruitless emotional entanglement! 5

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Did you tell the girl that you were married at the beginning? If you are a man in charge, you will still choose the family. But you can also choose the relationship you want now, I think if the girl's parents knew that you were married, would they agree to their daughter marrying you?

    However, if you choose this relationship, you may be rebuked by your conscience, do you think you will really be happy in the future? Think again! The world is unpredictable, you can be so sure that the current girl can always be in love with you!

    Since you have a wife, there will be another relationship, I think everyone is the same, and you will be someone else. I advise you to live a good wife! Don't worry about other people's youth anymore.

    Be a good husband and father!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The most basic thing for a man is to take his own responsibility! Now that they have a family and have 2 children, give them a husband and a father! It's just a relationship, and if you grit your teeth and let it go, it will become a memory!

    Don't think I'm saying it lightly, I'm also gritting my teeth and letting go of a relationship! Don't delay one and delay another! If she lets go of her relationship, she can still be happy, but if she lets go of her family, she will be unhappy as a woman and 2 children!!

    Which is more important, think clearly, and minimize the damage I hope you can make a good decision!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I may not be as old as you, but I have someone around me who has arranged marriages in the past.

    She is now in her 40s, divorced once, but this second marriage, and considering the children, she dealt with it again, and she was not happy, she was good to her own children, and the man was also good to her own children, so I want to say that if you really love her, and she is really able to accept your children (do you want to divorce a child), and will not say that you will have your own children in the future, it will be bad for your children (if you are married and still want children), then you should divorce, although it is persuaded and not discouraged People may say that you are bad, unfaithful, and so on, but I think happiness is more important than anything else.

    Maybe you are really on the wrong boat If you have time to watch the TV series "Halfway Couple" You must finish watching it You will naturally have the answer Sun Honglei and Chen Xiaoyi played.

    I wish you a good home one day sooner.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    A responsible man will choose a family and learn from the heroes of the twin guns, uncle

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. When facing this situation, first of all, it proves that there is still a lot of nostalgia for each other in my heart. It is also impossible to completely forget the previous feelings.

    But it may be that there are some irreconcilable contradictions between each other, so there are some struggles in the heart. In this case, the heart must be entangled, on the one hand, because there are contradictions with each other, and on the other hand, because the feelings are relatively deep and cannot be separated.

    However, I can also feel some struggles in my heart, and I am not so determined to let go of all my feelings immediately.

    Hello dear, when facing this situation, first of all, it proves that in my heart, I actually have a lot of nostalgia for the other party. It is also impossible to completely forget the previous feelings. But it may be because there are some contradictions between each other that cannot be reconciled, so there are some struggles in the heart.

    In this case, the heart must be entangled, on the one hand, because there are contradictions with each other, and on the other hand, because the feelings are relatively deep and cannot be separated.

    When faced with this situation, the teacher feels that there is still a communication problem, you can actively communicate with the other party, and both parties work together to find out where the problem is.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1. Your man is a good man, if you miss it, you will never find this kind of man who can tolerate you and love you.

    2. If you are still so calculating, tantrums, and unreasonable, you have only one way to break up.

    3. In my opinion, he beat you, you completely deserve it, even I can't help but want to get angry and want to hit someone 4, you love him more than him, your love is to think of ways to hurt him, to make him sad Your so-called love is to think of ways to destroy the people who love you.

    I'm speechless, and I don't expect you to adopt it.

    Think about yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It doesn't matter if you are in a relationship with someone who has many differences in life habits, you should be cautious about getting married and think about whether you can tolerate each other's differences for a long time.

    If you really love someone, you will be willing to change for him. If a person goes his own way in front of him and ignores what you don't like, then he doesn't love you. So if.

    If you don't care enough about him or he doesn't care about you enough, then you don't love him or he doesn't love you, and don't think that you are careless or believe that he is careless. Meet yourself really.

    Lovers, cowards will also become brave, and in the same way, careless ghosts will also become careful.

    Learn to look at each other with an understanding and appreciative eye, instead of caring for each other with self-righteous concern, and careless ghosts will become careful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The landlord is a little unreasonable. Why didn't I see you reflect on yourself throughout the article? I can't stand this kind of just want others to understand me, and I am so domineering and rude to others.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You also believe in the things of the stars...! Actually, you have your own problems......You also have to learn to be patient, two people together can't have him accommodate you...! I think you're also a big problem.

    My boyfriend and I were arguing all day long when we first started together...It's good now.........I used to have the same attitude as you...But now I'm smart...I don't talk when I quarrel, I pretend to be aggrieved and sit aside, and after a long time, he will sometimes take the initiative to talk to me...I can't help but talk to him first, and then he will ask me why I have a nervousness, and then you will explain it, why don't you wait until there is no quarrel to solve the problem...Your score is very small....I didn't want to answer you, but I knew you would be sad like that...Just tell you about the experience, I hope it will help you ......

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm still young, and the relationship issues are more complicated, but I feel that the two of you don't communicate enough, and most of them are quarrels caused by misunderstandings. But it's not right to hit someone.

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