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Anonymous users2024-02-11Marriage and divorce are two different choices in life, and when some people choose to get married, there will also be some people who choose to divorce for various reasons. It is not the original intention of two people to go on the road of divorce, and everyone is looking forward to getting married and wants to spend this life with each other. Two people may have misunderstandings about each other because of some difficulties in life, and sometimes it is easy to go down the road of divorce.
Often, sometimes one party wants to divorce, but it is common for one party to be unwilling to divorce. So how can the husband get it back if he wants to divorce very resolutely? Let's follow me to see what the solution is.
1. Find out why your husband wants to divorce Marriage is actually a practice, many people's married life is a piece of chicken feathers, why do some people's marriages look that...
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Don't hurt your feelings because of others, it's not worth it. Some things can't be forced, and it would be better to treat them with a proper cold treatment.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09If you have feelings, don't leave, and if you don't have feelings, don't delay anyone.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08What to cry about, it will only make people more annoying you, can't you try to talk about your thoughts when he is in a good mood. Don't get a divorce as soon as you can't fix it. Also, if you don't get divorced, I advise you not to have children for a few years, and wait until your relationship is stable.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07It's better to think about it and think about it carefully.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06As a gay man who has come out, I feel very sympathetic to your situation, because you must have not known your husband's sexuality before you married him. It's not nice to say, he's just cheating on marriage. In my personal opinion, I feel that you should get a divorce.
Due to the restrictions of China's national conditions and the influence of traditional thinking, at least more than 80% of comrades eventually entered into heterosexual marriages, which led to the emergence of another huge group, that is, homowives. Unfortunately, you are now part of this group.
It cannot be said that all same-sex wives are unhappy, but the vast majority of same-sex wives live very depressed lives, live very discordantly with their husbands, and often suffer from all kinds of cold violence.
What I want to remind you is that you don't compromise just because you are a woman, and feel that there is no way to continue life after divorce, everyone is an independent individual, and there is no question of who can't live without whom.
And do not choose to live with patience just because you have children. The happiness of your children is just as important as your personal happiness, and you don't have to sacrifice yourself to maintain this meaningless marriage. And if you live in a false marriage, your children will not necessarily be happy.
If you are reluctant not for the above two reasons, but purely because of love for him, then I'm sorry, I'm going to brutally shatter your illusion that sexual orientation doesn't change.
Especially from homosexual to heterosexual, that's a fantasy, so you must not try to influence your husband through your love. It's cruel, but it's the truth.
I don't know what your actual situation is, but even if you know that your husband is gay, you still want to be with him, and that's your personal freedom.
However, you may never get love in him, and the encouragement is just an illusion. This is a lifelong thing, but it's not as simple as "Zhou Yu beats the yellow cover".
The Buddha said that it is better to demolish a temple than to destroy a marriage. But I really want to be a wicked person for once, and I advise you to give up this marriage.
There is a lyric that says, if you can't hold the sand, it's better to raise it. It's not yours, no matter how tightly you hold it, it's useless, but the more you go back, the more painful you will be. It's better to let yourself go and start a new life.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05It depends on whether you can get by. If you can't get by, you should leave.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04Summary. There are two types of divorce: divorce by agreement and divorce by litigation. Litigation divorce refers to the divorce filed by the husband and wife unilaterally, and the other party does not agree to the divorce, or although both parties agree to the divorce, but no agreement is reached on the division of common property or the custody and education of children, etc., the parties to the divorce litigation may submit a divorce complaint to the people's court, and the people's court generally adopts two ways to resolve it after accepting it:
1.The first is mediation of divorce, which means that the parties to the divorce reach an agreement on the division of property, child support and other issues under the mediation of the court, and the people's court approves the divorce and prepares a divorce civil mediation document as a legal document for both parties. 2.
The second is the judgment of divorce, which refers to the people's court's judgment on the specific circumstances of the divorce case and child support when the mediation is ineffective.
There are two types of divorce: divorce by agreement and divorce by litigation. Litigation divorce refers to the divorce filed by the husband and wife unilaterally, and the other party does not agree to the divorce, or although both parties agree to the divorce, but no agreement is reached on the division of joint property or the custody and education of the children, the parties to the divorce litigation may submit a divorce complaint to the people's court, and the people's court generally adopts two ways to resolve it after accepting it: 1
The first is mediation of divorce, which means that the parties to the divorce reach an agreement on the division of property, child support and other issues under the mediation of the court, and the people's court approves the divorce and prepares a divorce civil mediation document as a legal document for both parties. Side Cave Confession 2The second is the judgment of divorce, which refers to the people's court's judgment on the specific circumstances of the divorce case and child support when the mediation is ineffective.
If a divorce by mutual agreement does not work, then the only option is to divorce by judgment.
If you want him to love you, you can't be so low, in fact, each of us has such a mentality: the more active you are, you don't care, you can't get, or it's hard to get, but you cherish it more, so if you want a person to value you and cherish you, don't always go to "catch up", otherwise he will feel that you can't do without him, and will not cherish you even more, like you, I suggest you still be brave to leave him, because through your description, I can feel, You no longer have a place in his heart, or you are in a dispensable state, what is the point of maintaining such a relationship? You can pay for love, but you can't affect your own life because of someone or something, give up boldly, there will be "giving" to give up this one, it doesn't mean that you don't have anyone to love, don't give up the whole forest because of a tree, and strive to live your own life, only if you are good to yourself, others will be good to you, personal opinion, pure hand, for reference only!
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