What s the worst point in life? How far can you get in the worst of your life?

When you go to the toilet, you have to make a noise to scare you.

Eating has become the most worrying thing every day, I can't pay the rent, so I can only borrow to live at a friend's house, and eat one meal a day, which is instant noodles. Running around for a living, looking for a job, coming back late every day, feeling like a piece of waste.

A college classmate came to me and lived with me in a rental house, and both of them had no money. When I was the poorest, I had 1 yuan on my body, and I bought 4 steamed buns and ate them with cold water. In the next month, I borrowed money everywhere and ate boiled noodles in clear water every day, there were really only water and noodles, because noodles were cheap, 1 yuan a handful, and we could eat two meals for 2 people a handful.

This classmate borrowed my credit card to cash out the second year, and then disappeared after the withdrawal, and it has been until now.

Six-and-a-half-month-old son. Left me. I know I'll never get out of this pain.

In 17 years, I lost more than 5 million in business, more than 1 million in debt, my girlfriend broke up, my friends and brothers saw through a lot, and even my family and relatives treated me differently, the woman I loved the most was still the favorite, but she decided to leave me, and she was about to go in for 18 years, starting from 0, starting from scratch, not dying, there will always be tomorrow!

At the age of thirty, I worked hard in the Netherlands to graduate from a doctorate for four years, went home to find a university teaching position, happily entered the marriage hall with my boyfriend who had been in a different place for five years, bought a house, bought a car, and prepared to conceive and have a child, I thought that life would go on so smoothly, I found a huge pelvic mass in seven months of pregnancy, I was found to have non-Hodgkin's lymphoma by emergency caesarean section, and I began to receive chemotherapy two weeks after a caesarean section. I'm holding on, starting the fourth treatment immediately, for the sake of my loved ones, for the sake of my infant child, I have to be strong, this should be the feeling of being knocked to the bottom.

When my mom gave birth to me, because she was a girl, my dad didn't even look at me. They divorced two or three months after I was born, and then my mother also left me at my grandmother's house and went out on my own. I was raised by my grandparents since I was a child, they opened a commissary, made breakfast in the morning, made snacks in the afternoon, and lived a good life, maybe because I lived with my grandparents since I was a child, I didn't feel abandoned by my parents at all.

The good times didn't last long, my aunt went crazy, my grandfather died, and the home became less like home. My grandmother was often bruised by her aunt, and then she couldn't help it, and she was in her sixties and went out to look for a job. Once, on the way back, because the wind and rain were too strong, it was blown into an abandoned ditch by a strong wind.

My grandmother wasn't tall and didn't know how to climb out of a ditch two people high. Walking on the road with a bloody face, no one dared to help, and when he walked to the health center, the doctor did not dare to pick it up, so he simply bandaged it and sent it to the city hospital. Until now, the corners of my eyes are broken.

Eighteen years old, in June, she was a slender and fresh little girl, who had just won a literary prize, was admitted to her favorite university with a reduced score, and was signed by the best company to write an article. is about to enter the peak of life, I have liked literature for 18 years and finally been recognized, I can go from a small county town to the best university in China to study, write articles, and meet the boy I like, it is the best time Wow. At such a moment, which was just one step away from becoming famous as a teenager, a cerebral hemorrhage broke everything.

Although the rescue was timely and the operation was successful, the sequelae were also terrible, and a person who was ready to write articles for the rest of his life became a person with a bloated body, his hair was cut out, he could not understand the language, he could not write, and he could not read, how terrible it was. When I woke up, I asked my mother if I would still be able to write articles in the future, and my mother cried.

At the suggestion of several middle school classmates, I had no way out and chose to take the civil service provincial examination, but after giving birth, my memory deteriorated, and I couldn't remember so many question types. In 2013, I actually passed the written test and entered the interview, but the interview was weak, and the total score was low. After he assured my parents, we went back to Shenzhen again.

Of course, the good days don't last long, but I already have a direction in my heart, that is, I must be independent. If you are not independent, you will not have the confidence to go.

After graduating from school, he came to Hangzhou alone. With 300 hundred yuan, a small bag of clothes, and a pair of cloth shoes. I went to Hangzhou and rented a farmer's house for 120 yuan.

When looking for a job, in order to save money, I didn't take the bus for 1 yuan, and I relied on walking, and walked nearly 15 kilometers at a time. Later, I bought a second-hand bicycle for 60 yuan, and it was stolen in less than a week. Later, in order to survive, I casually found an advertising company to run the business, but I didn't get a penny after working for half a year.

To take a bath in winter, there is only one bathroom on the entire floor of the rental house, there is no water heater, you can only go downstairs to open the water to wash, 2 cents a pot, and you need to use 3 pots of water to wash once. Take a hot shower once a week, and pour cold water on everything else. There was a lot of snow that winter, and it was too cold in the rental house, so I spent 30 yuan to buy a black cotton quilt, but it was still cold.

The neighbor couldn't stand it, so he gave me a broken quilt that didn't work, so that I could barely survive that winter.

When we encounter a major accident or unexpected dilemma in our lives, we may feel very painful and hopeless. For example, a person may feel depressed and helpless if they have lost a loved one or important property in a short period of time. Also, some bad luck in life can also make people feel depressed and hopeless.

For example, some people may experience car accidents or health problems again and again, which can lead to extreme distress and suffering.

In people's lives, many people may experience a wide variety of difficulties and adversities. Some people may experience financial hardship, which can make it impossible for them to pay their bills or the basic expenses of maintaining the necessities of life. Others may face employment issues as they may have lost their jobs or have not been able to find a suitable job.

These dilemmas can have a negative impact on people's mental and emotional state and may even lead to depression or other emotional problems.

In life, we need to learn to deal with adversity and difficulties in order to overcome them and move on. This may include being proactive in solving problems, seeking help and support, and learning from difficult situations to become stronger and more capable. While there may be a variety of dilemmas in life, as long as we are able to cope with them, we can move forward and have a better life.

I have a deep understanding. Everyone is betraying, even blood relatives are grading you and treating them differently.

Then, everything in the house went wrong and short-circuited and broke, anyway, even if you want to boil water to drink, you can go on strike to boil the kettle.

Even if you don't eat, you have to pay for it, mobile phone bills, rent, transportation, water and electricity bills, etc., at this time, you will feel that only money is the closest.

When you get out of the way, you actually feel that health is still important, otherwise, you are working hard for others.

I can't find a job, I have nothing to do all day, I can't afford to eat, I'm in debt, my other half is gradually leaving me, my relatives and friends look down on me, and life is like a kind of torment.

When life was at its worst, my parents couldn't believe that I would suffer; Loved ones can't believe I'm going hungry; My friend couldn't believe that I would be called on for a debt; Strangers can't believe I'll dig through the garbage, and heaven won't believe I'll shed tears. How bad can life be!

In the past, when I was at my worst, eating became a problem, there was no work, and 2 steamed buns were a luxury for a day.

A pack of instant noodles a day, a pack of instant noodles is soaked three times, wearing torn sandals to go to work in Guangdong, in addition to the fare on the body is only 30 yuan, and entering the factory to press a month's salary, so you can only choose to eat instant noodles. It just so happens that in the summer, you don't need to buy a quilt, so you can wear clothes and sleep at night.

Penniless, no rice in the rice tank, no water in the bucket, still owed money, and the job has not been found, it is really miserable when I think about it now.

The salary for work is 5000, and the loan is 4500 per month. I don't dare to quit my job, and I have to think about buying something for dozens of dollars to play.

If you want to have breakfast, you can be taken away by the dog in the end, and by the way, you will lose a new mobile phone!

During that time, the business had just failed, and the body was hollowed out by itself, and the will was on the verge of collapse. However, at this time, for the work assigned by his parents, he had to do something when he was at his weakest, and as a result, he suffered from a serious illness because of this incident, and when he had an acute attack, he almost lost his life. However, what he got was the perfunctory care of his parents and the merciless ridicule of his wife.

At this point, I am bankrupt financially and weakly in my family.

Life will always give you a blow to the head when you don't expect it.

You will understand that there really will be a series of bad things that will follow, and life is never the worst, only worse.

But only when we survive this period of hard years, will we grow, and then stumble and find that in fact, the pants are not so bad, and everything is fine. Good night.

I have experienced the collapse of my inner world, and there is a lot of negative confusion in the process of slowly rebuilding. Have you struggled with the meaning of life, and you have struggled with not knowing what your future holds? I struggled with not knowing what my goal was, what I longed for, and if so, how I could achieve it.

Slowly, I realized that we need a little faith in our hearts, believe in our own beliefs, and believe that the future will be better and better. I also believe that I can establish my own order in the continuous practice of life. Life won't always be bad, there will be good times.

And all we have to do is do what we want to do.

Sports, fitness, competitive sports, **, a skill you are interested in, I believe it will ignite your expectations for life and help you better face the setbacks in life.

Life will never be bad forever, live your current life with peace of mind.

Although a person will really be more free, it is the kind of unrestrained, no one else controls himself, he can do whatever he wants, he can sleep whenever he wants every day, no one will force you, he will eat spicy food if he wants to, and he will drink cold food if he wants to, but this will really make you worse sometimes.

Because no one else controls you, you have been indulging yourself, indulging yourself in life, and there may not be any change in your work, because you can't say that living alone and then your work will be particularly affected, and you will reach a state where you don't even do your work and you are not motivated.

The indulgence in life makes me very bad, just like my cousin used to be, he worked alone in Shanghai, his parents did not follow him to Shanghai, his parents belonged to the hometown still living in his hometown, and then he was alone in Shanghai, in fact, the work is very good, this will not let the people in the family worry.

But his life is really a mess, we sometimes go to Shanghai to see him here in Suzhou, the kind that goes to his house to have a meal, he hasn't looked for a girlfriend until now, in fact, there should be no fixed girlfriend, and he himself is not in a hurry to find a girlfriend, every time I go to his house, all kinds of garbage are thrown everywhere.

Sometimes he is still sleeping when he goes on the weekend, and when the door is opened, there is a smell of smoke, mixed with the smell of men, that is simply, you will see that there may be instant noodles and beer cans on the coffee table, and there will be a sock on the sofa next to it, and then there are all kinds of clothes, really every time I go I have to help him clean up for hours, and the next time I go will be back to the same. He really doesn't know how to take care of himself and clean himself up, it's just terrible, it's terrible.

Super decadent.

A person can be so decadent that he wants to sit when he stands, he wants to sleep when he sits, he doesn't want to do anything, sometimes he doesn't even want to eat, he feels hopeless about everything, and even sometimes he thinks about death and doesn't want to go out.

I had just graduated and was so poor, and I didn't dare to be decadent when my family needed money for cancer. Decadence is the release of stress, it is okay for a short time, not too long, it will make you depressed. It's better to die than to live, life is just once, don't take a little thing as a reason why you don't want to work hard, people who are more tragic than you are very strong to live it, and there is hope in life.

People who are prone to decadence may not have experienced much setbacks, and it is good to be abused by life. ‍‍

The first time I saw this question, I thought of my roommate from my freshman year and let me know that life can be that bad.

She is a little chubby girl, and she looks very gentle and amiable. After living with her for a while, I realized that the gap between girls before and after going out can be so big. Her daily routine is very reversed, she goes to bed at least two o'clock at night, and there is nothing very important, just playing with her mobile phone.

I couldn't get up the next morning, so I chose not to go to class, asked someone in the substitute group to help me get it, and then continued to sleep. Sometimes we go back to the dorm after a morning of classes, and she is still sleeping. After getting up during the day, I use my mobile phone to order takeout and eat, and I don't go out to walk around, and then eat and play with my mobile phone to spend the day.

Day after day, in the dormitory.

She is also a moonlight family, and at the beginning of each month, her parents gave her living expenses, and she began to buy things in ** and chop her hands wildly. As a result, she has no money in the second or third week of each month, and eats instant noodles and junk food every day, causing her to gain more and more weight. And her food is bought all at once, and she buys a lot of things in the dormitory when she goes out.

But every time she goes out, she will dress herself up, put on makeup, and then go out, so some unfamiliar people have a good impression of her.

And the result of her life like this is that she has to take the exam at the end of the semester and she doesn't know anything, so she can only fail the course; She is not thin herself, but she is getting fatter and fatter, and her body is getting worse and worse. After changing dormitories in my freshman year, I met her a few times on the road, and every time I carried things like instant noodles and spicy strips in my hands, the blood on my face was not good, and the dark circles under my eyes became heavier and heavier. Her life is arguably worse than I've ever seen, but she's still living it that way.