Is it right for a girl to face these things? If so, what would you do?

Updated on society 2024-05-08
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I understand your pain very well, and you still love him so much in his family, which means that you are really good!

    You can get married a year later, let him learn some skills in normal times, and have a good job in the future, you have to work hard with him, and encourage him more, so that he will be very moved and will work hard!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's good to have a clear conscience yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You think less about it. If you really reach the age of marriage, you can bring it up to him. We're going to live in the city in the future. It's also convenient to buy a house now. Make a down payment. The rest of the knots will do.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Wait a minute, don't get married yet, see how he develops first.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Personally, I think that feelings are important in persistence, in fact, it is not only feelings, everything is like this, living conditions can be created by themselves, and now people have a problem, they always like to look at other people's family conditions, in fact, that can't explain how he is, only how his parents are.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It doesn't have to be a girl's marriage to a man's family, right?

    I don't have much experience, I've never been married.

    But my uncle came to my aunt's house

    Can't you let him come to your house?

    My boyfriend and I are quite in love.

    It doesn't matter, as long as you love him, do you care what others think?

    Do you have to find someone like Jay?

    Either you just endure it for him, or you break up for you

    You can also wait and fight together for another year.

    I hope you can be happy

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Are you married to him or to his house?

    People can change the environment, you just need to buy your own house.

    Although the days may be tighter, it is good that you can be together and you are happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In life, we often feel anxious, such as the tension with our partner makes you anxious, such as worrying about your children's learning and anxiety, such as anxiety about work performance is not as good as that of colleagues, and we may also be anxious that we are old and have nothing to rely on, etc.

    These anxieties make us uncomfortable, but it will not let us go because we are uncomfortable, but follow us like a shadow.

    Actually, we should not resist the generation of anxiety, they are a natural product, it is something that causes our emotional reaction. Emotions don't matter whether they are right or wrong, only whether they are comfortable or uncomfortable, whether they are uncomfortable or not.

    Avoiding antagonism is not the right way, the right way is to accept this normal emotion, and then analyze it, understand it, what is it in life that makes us anxious.

    Anxiety is a kind of internal friction, it shows that you have made a mistake, you have done something wrong, and you have to correct it. This stems from the idea that is ingrained in our hearts, the boundaries that exist in our brains.

    Normally, something happens because they cross that line, which we don't know at the time, but it actually has a shock in our hearts, so it affects our lives like a shadow.

    The event itself is the fuse, the boundaries in our hearts determine our cognition, when our cognition is good, there will be no anxiety, only when the cognition is biased, wrong, or the event itself really harms the individual, anxiety will arise.

    When our cognition is biased, we must adjust our cognition at this time, and the first thing to adjust is our inner boundaries. Partnering tensions happen at some point in every family, and there is no need to make a fuss; If the child's studies are not done well, it is not entirely the child's problem, whether the adults have good counseling; Worrying about not being as good as others at work is the most normal emotion; Worrying about being old and having nothing to rely on is a bit unfounded, and you are not finished in your young age, so you begin to worry about your old life.

    So an analysis, a lot of anxiety is that the boundaries in our hearts have been impacted, these boundaries are like the scale of life in the brain, if we are too fast, we will blame the slowness of life, so sometimes, we need to adjust our scale, let ourselves be in line with real life, not too fast or too slow.

    Some people fight anxiety is to control, to use all their strength to resist it, but these anxieties will be like a flood of beasts, you can't suppress it, you suppress it at one moment, and the next second it will come back, leaving you in endless distress.

    But there are some people who are really powerful, they suppress it, and let the anxiety freeze, but the consequences of this situation are even more terrible, because once this happens, his body will get sick, and this disease is not a minor disease, but a major illness that he has caused himself. Emotions are just a product of nature, and if they are forcibly suppressed, they will be unnatural, and you can see which thing is good for all the anti-natural things in this world. So proper grooming is the key.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Something is wrong On the contrary, the way the other party speaks is even more uncomfortable to listen to, isn't it just a seat Then she can only say that she didn't knowingly pretend to be a good treat Did you still invite the promised treat As for whether the other party eats comfortably or not, it is entirely up to her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This girl deals with things deeply and sophisticated, worthy of admiration, isn't she sitting in the wrong position, what's the big deal, the girl doesn't consider the feelings of others, to put it bluntly, I didn't expect to make this girl feel very uncomfortable, in fact, this girl invited the girl to dinner, with this method of repaying grievances with virtue, the purpose is to slap the girl, so that she regrets what she said, and she can't get off the stage in face, which is undoubtedly a kind of wisdom.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Scheming, not open-minded, creating pressure on yourself, there is no need, a very good relationship is rigid, it seems that there is no preoccupation, mutual understanding and tolerance can increase the sense of trust, and sunshine and cheerfulness can have confidant friends.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    From the word "out of bounds" in her reply, I felt bitter, if it was a real friend, the words that were said by the sports meeting may be inadvertently understood. The two classes were already next to each other, and there was no need to retaliate. Timid and cowardly, he likes to take on some things alone and speaks without opening the skylight.

    Emotional, stingy, and a bit selfish. Sensitive.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What this girl said is quite scathing, that girl's sentence, why are you sitting here in our class, there is no problem with this sentence, whether the relationship is good or bad, there is nothing wrong with this sentence, normal people will ask this when they see that it is not their own class, just say that there is something to come over or something, it is necessary to send a message later to say so much, people don't mean anything, and they think too much about themselves.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Actually, it's nothing, this is that this girl sat in the wrong position, this girl accidentally sat in your place, and then he quickly admitted his mistake, in fact, this is nothing, it's just this girl, there is some carelessness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This girl is very good at handling this matter, that is, it does not affect the relationship between them, and from the side, she lets the girl know that respecting others is equal to respecting herself. aqui te amo。

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is nothing wrong with it On the contrary, the way the other party speaks is even more uncomfortable to listen to, isn't it just a seat Then she can only say that she is not knowingly pretending to be a good treat Is it still invited As for whether the other party eats comfortably or not, it is entirely up to her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This girl who said that she crossed the line is a little self-assured, and it may be that there are too many rules. The second girl should be fine

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Source: funnies) Many boys feel that women have a needle in their hearts, and they are often sentenced to strikeouts in their hearts silently before they can read the girl's hints. In fact, to know whether the female friend in front of you is interested in herself, it is actually very simple, the more of the following actions, the greater your chance of success!

    You will receive gifts from her on various holidays 3will create a special nickname to call you 4She will want to have physical contact with you and will make intimate gestures of touching your body 5

    When anything big happens to her, the first person she'll want to tell is you (source: funnies) 6When she's with you, she hardly looks at her phone, because time with you is precious

    Always don't hesitate to share all kinds of food and drinks with you, even if the straw kisses indirectly 8She'll want you not to be too polite to her 9I like to ask you a lot of personal questions and want to know more about you 10

    She often compliments you or makes fun of youThe body is often standing very close to 12When you're in a bad mood, she'll be the first to know and want to make you happy (source:

    funnies) 13.Occasionally you will find that she doesn't feel like staring at you 14Loved talking to you 15

    When you go out, you are very reserved, I hope to make a good impression on you 16She will have a lot of eye contact with you 17When I am with you, I will often stroke my hair 18

    Unconsciously do the same movements or postures as you 19will look at you with a smile 20The back will be arched because it will expose a small groove (source:

    funnies) 21.Always laughing by your side and never getting bored 22When you sit down, you will drop half of your shoes, which is said to be a sign that girls are interested in you, and you can observe it next time you eat 23

    Blushing often, needless to say As long as you wait patiently and know how to observe and be considerate of the girl's mood, I believe that the time to get off the list is not far from you. Please share it so that more male friends can understand these little hints of girls! Next time, don't be blunt and don't feel Luo!

    Let's go straight ahead!! Original source: funnies

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Use your practical actions to move her, don't talk about it, do it. After a long time, you will succeed, this kind of girl is easy to chase.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    o() o Alas, a woman's heart is a needle, brother.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In fact, there are only four words in the love book: stalking.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I know what you're in now! Just because she doesn't know that she rejects you or hates you proves that you have hope! First of all, don't confess to her or anything.

    Because you have confessed to her many times, it will be difficult for your relationship to develop in the future if she rejects you, so you might as well approach her as a good friend and care for her considerately. When the time comes, tell her everything in your heart, and it will be even better! In fact, this is a layer of window paper, and when your relationship is discovered to that point, it doesn't matter if you confess or not!

    Because of your heart, she understands it, she understands! Wishing you happiness!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If I were this woman, first of all I would be very angry and disappointed, because I believe that my friends will regard me as one of her closest friends. However, when I read this woman's story, I realized that the question behind this incident is not just whether to trust a friend to be honest with him, but how to balance economic development and relationships.

    First, I will try to draw lessons from this experience. Even though this woman didn't expect her friends to scam her, I think a common lesson is that we must always be vigilant and not hesitate to trust people we don't know very well, or who are used to breaking through our trusting relationships. We must regularly check our financial records to ensure that our expenses and incomes are on track, and that we do not regard money as the only criterion of personal worth.

    Second, I think about how to maintain and handle the friendship. I would be very disappointed if my friend betrayed my trust when I spent a few thousand dollars, but that doesn't mean I'm going to cut off that friendship right away. As human beings, we sometimes make mistakes, but we must be honest about our mistakes and find a suitable way to remedy them.

    I would choose to be honest with her, express my disappointment and anger, hear why she did that, and try to find a way to restore our trust and friendship.

    Finally, I try to balance economic development and relationships. Although money is a part of life, we must know that the true value of relationships cannot be measured by money alone. Even if I lose a few thousand dollars, if this friend is a true friend, then this money may be able to give back to myself some sincere emotional experiences and lasting relationships.

    Of course, there are some unscrupulous people in the world who behave beyond what is acceptable, but most people are trustworthy and respectful.

    In short, if I were this woman, I would do everything I could to take positive steps to resolve this matter while maintaining confidence and optimism in the world, believing that there are more good things waiting for me in the future.

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