There was a guy who liked me, but I hated him to the extreme

Updated on psychology 2024-05-06
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Tell him directly - I hate you, please don't talk to me in the future.

    When he talks to you, you ignore his ......

    When we met, I didn't see ......

    Some boys are just thick-skinned and unconscious, and still tell them what you think.

    You hate him very, very, very much!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You have to get rid of your prejudices against him, have a good talk, and tell him that you don't want to have anything to do with him anymore, maybe you can be friends after getting to know him.

    Or just say to him, "You pester me again, we'll see you in court (I've tried this before, and it works)."

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is advisable to speak to the teacher and tell me tactfully about his impact on your learning. (Don't mention feelings or anything like that). You said open.

    The teacher understands what you mean, but don't hurt the boy's self-esteem, after all, everyone is a classmate. I don't know how old your little sister is now,,, when you go to college, you'll know, there are some things you may have done wrong before,,, friendship of classmates is very valuable!!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Find your brother or someone else to pretend to be a "lover" for you for a while

    It's quite intimate.

    If he doesn't give up, just say that you don't like him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You don't care anyway, it's better to find a handsome boy to scare him

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Scold him to death. If it's someone I don't like, I'll tell him directly.

    You're not my type of person, please don't waste any more time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why do you think so much? Thin woman.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It means that he still likes you very much, but sometimes he is annoyed by what he does to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It should not be liked, if he likes you, he should often find some excuses to come to you, or he will let others bring you a message, or he will say it to your face. If he is not in one of these three situations, you are not the person he likes. Of course, it is not ruled out that he has a girlfriend, but he is still messing with flowers.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The guy who hates you doesn't deliberately establish a sense of boundaries, but simply doesn't want to communicate with you. When there was time for small talk, he would rather stay motionless and be in a daze. Therefore, he will keep his distance from you, and he will not bother to talk to you halfway, let alone inquire into your private life, or show friendliness.

    In most cases, boys also have a strong sense of boundaries, they know what they should do and what they should not do. There may be times when you think that his behavior is frivolous, but in fact he never does it, but he has no way to control himself when it comes to the person he likes.

    That's why he wants to have physical contact with a person, and if it's a person he doesn't like, he may know about the existence of this person, and he won't show up, let alone have any physical contact. Dislike is one of the manifestations that a boy will inevitably exist if he hates a girl.

    Don't ** tears are emotional, your tears are hypocrisy; If others can't learn, they are not proficient, and if you can't learn, they are too clumsy. Not only towards you, but with dislike for everything that concerns you and you. For example, you feel that your city is backward and aesthetically low-end, and you will try your best to pick the bones in everything you like.

    As we all know, for girls who have a little feeling for themselves, if others make jokes between the two sides, the boys will never take it seriously, and will even take advantage of the trend and take it into account. And those who are in a hurry to get rid of the relationship, or even seriously angry about it, most likely just hate you. Pulling yourself and the life you hate hard together, it's an instinct that everyone will be angry.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Step 1: Observe the other person's baseline and see if his attitude towards you has deviated from the baseline.

    What is a baseline? That is, the behavior pattern and inertia of this person, usually when he does not encounter anything or someone in particular, how does he behave? What is his usual personality?

    How does he usually treat his average girl friend? How is chasing girls? What about the people you like very much?

    Note that a man chasing a girl does not necessarily mean that the one he is chasing is "very liked", so look at it separately) Whether he likes you or not, or is liking someone else, these clues are very important.

    When he faces you, does he look and have a different attitude than he does when he faces other girls? For example, he is very noisy and talkative, and he is unusually quiet or shy in front of you. Or maybe he's quiet, but he's trying to say something and share something with you.

    Or as long as you appear on the occasion, his behavior will be very different from usual, such as wanting to behave positively, being handsome, stupid, funny, speaking very loudly, very quietly, acting very steady, quiet, very stiff limbs, etc., as long as he is "a lot different from usual", it is considered to be off the baseline. But it's important to note that "off-line" may be particularly fond of you, but it may also be particularly annoying about you.

    Note: If there is no common life circle to observe on the Internet, then the most taboo is to be in a hurry or judge arbitrarily. Trust me, you're not so short of a boyfriend.

    Step 2: If he likes you, his navel must always face you.

    Some guys are very shy, they don't necessarily take the initiative to approach the person they like so much, but they don't dare to move forward, or they will be shy to look at you, etc., but if they like you, they may not look at you, or they are talking to others, and if they like you, the torso part must be facing you (unless you are sitting side by side, even if his head is turned to the other side). So the first step is to judge the deviation of the baseline, and the second step is to judge whether you like it or hate it, the person who hates it must not even want to face you with its torso, and almost every time you are near or when you appear, it must be close to facing away from you.

    Step 3: Take the initiative or hint to see if there is any change in his behavior pattern.

    No one doesn't like someone they like to approach or show affection to themselves, so once we receive this kind of "encouragement", we will definitely be willing to take the relationship further. So the other party is the same, it is not enough to respond, you must also have "active" behavior to be sure that the other party likes you. The degree of initiative or suggestion must be determined according to the sensitivity of the other party to the interaction between people and the degree of carnivorousness, the more comfortable the person in the love field, the less active the person, and the more sluggish or wooden the person will only receive the ball like an atomic bomb.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's not that the guy you like hates you, it's just that you interrupted the conversation between A and B, so he has a black face. In fact, whether you like it or not, you can only do the right thing in the right place. If you like others, but others don't like you, then don't be sentimental.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can take it slowly, and then look at his attitude, maybe it's special for you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Not necessarily, not by this one thing. It is impossible for a person to hate someone for no reason, is there a misunderstanding between you?

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