The girl whose boyfriend couldn t catch up with him before, took the initiative to contact him, what

1, she is indulgent in the old birds; 2. She just saw that the person who used to be good to her is now good to others, and she wants to know if she has forgotten her, and wants to know if the man still feels for her, so she deliberately q the man, and will say that you are compared with her, and think that you are not her stand-in, but you don't have to be afraid, that is already in the past, as long as your boyfriend is good to you, don't doubt your boyfriend, because if both parties don't trust both parties, then this relationship is not interesting, and it will not last, so you can only trust him.

It may be that the jealousy in a woman's heart is at work, because sometimes what she can't get is the best, and because she has had it, so after experiencing other people, she finds that the one she used to be is the best, and wants to turn back or have an affair with him; Or, she thinks she is better than you, and she is unwilling for him to choose someone worse than her, hoping that he still likes her ......

Since your boyfriend can let you help hang QQ, then he has nothing to hide from you, you don't have to worry about what he will do to be sorry for you, believe that he is measured, not all people like to eat back grass. If you really don't worry, you just tell him about this time, and see what his attitude is, if you have heard that there is no expression in the back, it means that you don't feel anything about her anymore; If your eyes are a little evasive or your expression is happy, then you need to be careful. There are some things that should not be hidden, and it may be better to say so

First, you need to confirm your boyfriend's attitude towards the girl. This is very important, if your boyfriend is already very indifferent to her at all, just treat her as an ordinary friend, then it no longer matters what this girl does to him.

Secondly, it cannot be ruled out that this girl is jealous. After all, many girls will want to possess the care of the boy who used to be very good to her, and now that this care is gone, even if she doesn't like him, she wants to possess it. This is also possible.

She has a boyfriend, which may indicate that she is a girl who knows how to manipulate the psychology of boys. If you have a boyfriend, you will do these misleading things, and you are not a good person. You can be wary of this.

The specific situation still requires you to understand your boyfriend's personality, if you are not strong-willed, this kind of girl may succeed.

Personally, I think you should tell him about the girl contacting your boyfriend and see his performance, which is better than knowing that the girl contacted him when your boyfriend contacted her when you had helped him hang QQ, showing your trust in him and letting him understand that you have not lived up to his trust in you! If you can feel that your boyfriend likes you, then trust him! Since he can give you QQ and let you hang it for him to prove that he doesn't have the idea of splitting his legs (he only uses this 1 QQ number), that girl is a typical representative of wanting to catch the old and indulge!

Yo heh,That woman is a little jian and a little ill-intentioned.。。。 When I saw you beside him, I wondered if I hadn't discovered his charm at the beginning, so I wanted to step in the sideways. In fact, sometimes, men and women are the same, and they feel that what they once had should still belong to them now What is this psychology, I can't remember.

But, though, you can think like the above, but, think about it, as a woman with a boyfriend, you should be more confident, generous, and more arrogant. Think of that woman's appearance as a test for you. You can generously send her your warm and sincere invitation, believing that you have the ability to keep your boyfriend.

If the unfortunate boyfriend empathizes again, then give him a resounding slap in the face, and then walk away firmly and never look back. You have the right to love like no other! Don't forget the demeanor in the face of the test, let anyone be in awe of the demeanor, woman!

There are always fewer good guys, no matter what he is, hold on to your boyfriend tightly, and cherishing is fundamental. Don't let that woman affect you because it's not worth it.

She has bad motives and should be jealous of you.

I think your boyfriend is fine.

She was deliberately going to make a show.

Probably not, everyone can forget something.

In relationships, it was very common for boys to actively pursue girls in the past, but now society has changed a lot, and women can also play an active role in relationships.

Here are some reasons why it is not necessary for a guy to take the initiative in a relationship.

First of all, there is a change in social attitudes. With the progress of society and the improvement of women's status, the status of women in relationships has also been improved. Today's women are more independent, have their own careers and lives, and pay more attention to their own feelings and needs.

Therefore, women can also play an active role in the relationship, express their feelings and needs, and pursue the love they want.

Second, the blurring of gender roles. In the past, men were often considered the breadwinners of the family and society, while women were considered caregivers of the family and society. But society has changed a lot, and the roles between men and women have become more and more blurred.

Therefore, women can also play an active role in the relationship, express their feelings and needs, and pursue the love they want.

Finally, the influence of personal character and experience. In relationships, the division of roles between men and women depends not only on changes in social attitudes, but also on the individual's personality and experiences. Some women may have a more cheerful and active personality and prefer to take the initiative in relationships;

Some men may be more introverted and passive, preferring to play a passive role in relationships. Therefore, the division of labor between men and women in the relationship is not fixed, but depends on the individual's personality and experience.

This change is the result of the influence of social perceptions, gender roles, and personal character and experiences. In a relationship, the division of roles between men and women should be equal, according to the individual's personality and needs.

He pursued it for a long time, was very tired, and saw no hope, so he decided to let it go. To love someone, you need to respond.

Human nature is a normal phenomenon.

Now many boys are not so active when they chase their girlfriends, what is the reason why love has become so luxurious! I think love has to be said out loud, love has to be brave to confess, but what is it that makes people hesitate?

Self-confidence

Now girls are slowly becoming brave, many times girls are very good, most boys will think that maybe girls are better than boys, and then they will not agree to be with boys. This is because boys' self-confidence is not enough, as far as I know, in college, many girls and boys, they are eager for love, but no one is brave enough to confess, because they are afraid of being let down, afraid that the other side will not like themselves. And now there are more men and fewer women, many girls basically have their own boyfriends, it may also be because of long-distance relationships or the development of the Internet, so that long-distance relationships become normal, some boys don't know whether girls are single, so they dare not confess, after all, they usually don't see boys walking beside girls.

I think the reason is because of lack of self-confidence, if the boy is confident enough, even if the confession fails, there is nothing, at least express the thoughts in his heart.

There is no money to fall in love

It is a very sad topic, because the master society has formed such a situation, with boys, many girls are not willing to pay more money, do anything, most of them are boys, and paying money will cause a lot of trouble to the boys' lives. Not all girls are empathetic, most girls only think about spending boys' money together, I don't think it's really like boys, but I think that someone can pay for her material expenses when she falls in love. If the boys who are a little poorer, they basically dare not touch love, afraid that once they fall in love, life will not be solved.

When you fall in love, you have to wait rationally, fate is also waiting for the person who suits you, if you find that you are in love wrong, then break up quickly!

Because some boys are very unserious about their feelings, always with a playful mentality, and some boys feel that girls are very hypocritical now, so they don't want to get used to the problems of those girls, but I think boys like this are not worthy of our liking at all, because they don't understand girls at all.

Because the financial pressure on boys is relatively large now, if they take the initiative, they will spend a lot of money on girls, and boys don't have a lot of money.

Because they don't feel the need to spend so much energy, and today's boys will be very concerned about their own level of dedication, and if they don't get a response, they will feel very tired and don't want to continue to take the initiative.

There may be a problem with the method. It may also be chased by non-people.

Emotional matters mainly depend on fate, if two people are destined to get together, then even if the boy does not take the initiative to find a girlfriend, the girl will also take the initiative to chase the boy. Because he exudes a seductive charm and has something to impress girls. His responsibility and responsibility, his talent and skills, will make girls excited.

There is definitely no lack of pursuit of the opposite sex in their own excellence. As the saying goes: the lover's eye is out of the west. This is to say that boys look at girls, and the same girls look at boys, and there will be: this is the feeling of the prince in my dreams.

The situation you said must be that this boy looks very temperamental, or that he is very good in some aspects, or that he is handsome and in good condition, he doesn't want to do his homework or other girls will like it when they see it, and now girls are very open, not that you have to be shy when you chase it. The society now. Men and women are equal, no matter who is right or whom, as long as you like it or it's worth trying, whether you can succeed or not.

As long as a boy has strong ability, knowledge and humor, he will still be likable if he doesn't come back.

One possibility is that this boy is the kind of passive bai who copies his personality

type, I don't like to take the initiative to find him, and this boy is better than zhi, which causes many dao girls to take the initiative to chase him; There is also a kind of boy who may feel that his conditions are superior, and if he doesn't take the initiative to find a girl, there will be many girls chasing him, so that he has a greater sense of achievement, which is commonly known as "pretending to be forced".

It depends on the conditions of the boy, and in this society, this situation is probably that the man is either rich or beautiful. If it's a student, it's good enough, and this is an era of looking at face and money.

Because such a boy must be very good, a boy with the following characteristics is generally liked by girls.

1. Be assertive.

They are usually obsessed with their own decisions and are not accustomed to just following people's orders. If you are a submissive and silent person in the company, or just a person who does not like the company's environment and does not have the courage to quit and create your own future, there is still a long way to go before you become an entrepreneur.

2. Self-confidence. They generally have a strong sense of self-confidence and sometimes a sense of aggressiveness.

3. A sense of urgency.

Entrepreneurs are usually very anxious to see the results of things, so it will bring a lot of pressure to others, they believe that "time is money, time is efficiency", and they do not like and will not waste precious time on trivial and boring things.

4. Down-to-earth.

Do things realistically, and don't do it sloppily in order to make yourself comfortable.

5. Lofty ideals.

In order to realize their ideals, they do not count the fame. They live a simple and simple life, and often wear many hats when necessary.

6. Emotional stability.

They usually don't like to be in shape and rarely complain in front of people.

This guy is very rational.

In the face of the girl he likes, he just expressed his friendliness.

Because his economic conditions are not very good, there is no guarantee that he can have a good life after being together.

It may be that this boy is excellent in all aspects, and before he could chase the girl, many girls chased him first.

Hello, whether you take the initiative or not has nothing to do with boys and girls.

It just has nothing to do with gender.

Whoever likes whom first.

Whoever pursues him first.

What's there to worry about?

Some boys belong to the non-expressive type, men and women belong to the complementary type, there is always one active and one passive, it doesn't matter.

It shows that the boy is not excellent, has the ability, is more upright, and does not care, so that there will be girls chasing after him.

That's because the boys are very good!

How good it is to take money upside down, don't want a bride price, and play for nothing.

No, if a girl has feelings for you, she will take the initiative to come to you to chat. When pursuing a girl, the other party never takes the initiative to chat with herself, in the final analysis, you are not chasing you yet, and she has not fully accepted you in her heart.

Even if a shy girl is, she will always respond accordingly when facing the man she loves, if she has never taken the initiative to contact a man, but she does not take the initiative to say no, either she is treating you as a spare tire, or, she just doesn't love you enough!

The other party doesn't take the initiative to chat with you, it may be that the other party gave a tactful rejection of your signal, and wanted you to consciously give up pursuing her. So at this time, you should increase your pursuit and think about her in everything, and I think your relationship will improve by then.

Some girls are reserved, even if they have a good impression of you, they will not be so obvious, worried about not talking, you can judge from the speed and content of her reply to you in the chat: whether she is reserved or has no good impression of you.

Girls are a very strange animal, boys' feelings are very simple, like is like, girls are different, girls are more complicated, if girls like a boy, they will not take the initiative to show it, but girls will give you some hints, or some behaviors, so that you understand her heart, for example, girls will be hot and cold to you, girls will dress up before going out to see you, dress themselves up very good, girls want to leave a good impression on you!

If you want to make girls happy from the bottom of your heart in chatting, you first have to be a humorous and interesting boy, and convey your emotions to girls through language and words to create a happy chat atmosphere. Forcibly blackening oneself not only reduces one's own value, but also sometimes makes your atmosphere extremely embarrassing.