Is this a liking or not, and what does it mean? Do you like it or don t like it?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-02
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Focus on your studies, don't focus on him, to figure out if you like him in your heart. Treat him like an ordinary friend, and tell yourself that he is no different from other classmates, and that he will be fine after a long time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is normal to bud in puberty, to be curious and fond of the opposite sex, I suggest you give yourself 5 years, 5 years can prove a lot of things, you can know what is really like between you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think it's counted, do a good job in your hands, and now study first!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This age is not love,,Now you just need to study hard,,, those things are in the future,,, because you are still young, you don't know what to love,,, that kind of love is a normal feeling of adolescence,,, come on,, I wish you progress in your studies,

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I've had a similar experience in the past, and I don't think it will affect anything, and the faint taste of liking can actually promote our growth. As long as you have the right mentality, it will be an opportunity for you to become better. I didn't plan to fall in love when I was in junior high school, but in my second year of junior high school, I met someone I felt comfortable with, and I studied better that year.

    If it feels right, in fact, there is no need to be afraid of anything, just hold on to yourself. Before making a decision, think about whether you will regret it, I don't want anyone to make a decision that I regret like I did. Don't let yourself be left with regrets, it's important that you feel happy and happy, and if you become like who you expect to be.

    May you get better and better!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You don't like him, but you like him at first sight, you are very possessive of him, not as you say "he is not the type you like", but you want to make him more perfect and better, so that he can surpass your previous boyfriend and be recognized by everyone. Love doesn't have to be vigorous, with the different circumstances, the growth of experience, the maturity of thoughts, and the change of mentality, love has a sense of advancing with the times, maybe what you have experienced before is also love, maybe what you have experienced before is not love, just liking, playmates, getting along or meeting psychological needs. Love is not about how much you have talked about, some people can't understand it after talking about it all their lives, you know:

    Only a true wine will make people linger for a long time.

    I don't agree with the idea that liking someone will become love after a long time, and liking upgrades to love because the seeds of love are planted subconsciously and the foundation of love is laid.

    When you fall in love with someone, you will lose yourself, mess up, and be indecided, thinking that the two of you are good like one person, but also afraid that this kind of good is just a flash in the pan.

    So you have to work hard to manage your own love, but don't expect too much, manage too tightly, and the pace is too fast, be yourself, be your true self, learn to empathize, learn to cherish emotions, go with the flow, and come naturally!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    As an alternative, he likes this sister, if the current girlfriend leaves, then the other party is a choice, but at the moment you are his choice.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If a girl likes a boy, she will rely on the boy as her own and will treat the person she likes wholeheartedly. And the attitude is different from other boys. The first manifestation of the difference is to remember more clearly what the boy commands.

    If a girl is interested in a boy, as long as the boy explains something, she will record it in her heart, and occasionally provide you with some surprises. For example, you can do what you like, or give a surprise gift on your birthday. Another manifestation is that he will be very patient and gentle with men.

    Once a girl likes a man, she will be very patient with this man, and her usual savagery will become gentle, and she will accommodate the boy in everything in life. When a girl likes a boy, she thinks about him even after a breakup, and she will contact him from time to time. If a girl breaks up with you, but contacts you frequently and harasses you, it means that she is in love with you.

    Girls like boys' performance and always speak for boys in front of others. When a girl falls in love with a guy, she will often defend you in front of others. If you defend you in front of outsiders, it means that this girl likes you very deeply.

    There are four aspects of a girl's liking of boys, she will remember very clearly what the boy commands, be more patient and gentle with the boy she likes, and constantly harass and contact the boy when she breaks up, and counts or criticizes others.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1. The two of them will be inexplicably nervous when they are alone.

    In front of a person who doesn't care and doesn't matter, people usually behave very casually and naturally. Because they don't have to worry about other people's opinions, just like when they are alone, they do what they want, they don't have too many worries, and their bodies are in a state of great relaxation.

    Until one day they suddenly realize that you are so fascinating, and when they start to like you, their behavior and emotions will become more and more bizarre with the degree of fascination. When you're in person with them or alone, their nervous physical and psychological emotions are the best proof of those thoughts.

    2. I will feel lost when I see him getting close to the opposite sex.

    People may not want to be the person they like in the first place, because you don't know what your affection will turn out for. In other words, you like him, but he doesn't have to be as happy as you are. So, if someone likes you, what they care about most is that you get too close to the other sex.

    People who like you silently must be people who secretly pay attention to you, at first they don't care about their status in your heart, because "silent" means small, means not confident, they will try, through the attempt to contact you, and then rebuild their "confidence" bit by bit. But they will care about the position of others in your heart, because that means whether they will lose without a fight.

    3. There will be a rehearsal before talking.

    When we like someone, we always want to show our best side, if we have the opportunity to be alone with the person we like, we will carefully rehearse a conversation with the other person, thinking about the content of the conversation waiting for the meeting, for fear that we will say the wrong thing and leave a bad impression on the other party, and the mood will be more nervous than the exam.

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