How do I choose, do I continue. What kind of person should one choose to accompany for life?

I am 26 years old. Married, your story touched me very much, and I have discovered men who cherish their feelings over the years. Let me express my personal opinion:

Emotionally speaking, love can encompass everything, as long as you like it, love her. Nothing else is a problem. If this is the case for you, I advise you to cherish the feelings in front of you.

Go for the relationship yourself. It is clear that you belong to the rational people: the other half's past, knowledge, ability, work.

It will inevitably affect your relationship, and work may not be important. If you know about your past feelings, they may not be reflected in normal times, but whenever you are depressed or quarrel with her, your true thoughts will be reflected. Everybody has a little bit of a plot.

So the best option is not to know. If you feel that there are many common languages, then your intellectual abilities are not far apart. Maybe what you need now is a process of falling in love.

I suggest you think about whether you can really put up with everything about her, and imagine your life after marriage, if you really only need a love process, obviously you don't need to break up.

Listening to what you said is that your relationship can still be a little reluctant, if you want to continue to develop or even get married, you must consider your two family situations and make a decision after considering all the issues. The marriage of Chinese is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families!

Long pain is always more vicious than short pain! I think you should read more books about the concept of love!

The ancients had clouds: those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black.

The kind of person we choose to be with will eventually become what kind of person we will become. If you want to be good and happy, the first thing you should do is to get close to people who are full of positive energy. Because positive energy people can dispel your haze, drive away your troubles, and make you enthusiastic about life.

The effect of energy on us is incredible, when a person with positive energy appears, his magnetic field will drive everything to become orderly and beautiful. And when a person's heart is full of negative energy, it not only hurts himself, but also makes the surrounding magnetic field disordered and bad.

You must have had the experience that some people, as soon as you chat with him, he will start complaining and complaining. Complaining about the bad morning and life, complaining about unhappy work, complaining about unhappy family, complaining that you are not good enough.

In his eyes, it seems that nothing is going well, it seems that everyone treats him badly, and it seems that everything is unjust fate. When they encounter something, their first reaction is not to seek a solution, but to subconsciously complain. There are also some people who are not happy to see anyone, complain about others every day, and point fingers at other people's lives.

Facing life, negative, pessimistic, decadent. Although such a person is not bad, it will imperceptibly hurt other people, and what we have to do is to stay away. Because after getting along with these negative energy people for a long time, you will also unconsciously be contaminated with their bad mood.

This bad mood can distort your perception of the outside world and erode your confidence in life little by little. They will unknowingly steal your dreams and make you become negative, decadent, and as negative as they are.

We should get closer to the people who bring you positive energy, because with people with positive energy, you will be passed on by the other person's good habits, and you will grow into a better person. With people with positive energy, you will find the beauty of life and feel the meaning of life. With people with positive energy, you will grow your own pattern, improve your realm, and accumulate more character.

The rest of your life is not long, please be a positive person, warm people's hearts, and give people hope. Let optimism, positivity, upwardness, kindness, excellence, beauty, and happiness become the main theme in life, be calm in the face of difficulties, and treat life with enthusiasm. If the heart is sunny, there is no fear of sorrow; Be a sunny self, illuminate yourself, and warm others.

Should you be like a god, why choose the person who will accompany you for a lifetime? Jane is blind.

A person who can not only make you happy to Chana, but also make you Feng Feng not hold the silver Qingxin, then he is the right person.

How do you choose the person you will be with for the rest of your life?

A person who can make you happy and reassure you at the same time is the right person.

How do you choose the person you will be with for the rest of your life?

People who meet their own needs and compound their own needs