What do you think about competing for friends?

Children are like this, they see what others play and what they want to play. If the age difference between the two children is relatively large, maybe their interests will be different, it will be better, if the two children are of the same age, then there may often be a competition for a friend, in fact, educate the children to play together, so it is good.

There are many such situations in kindergarten, because there are always a few children who are particularly likable, I think that if you often scramble, the child will develop a selfish problem, and will become self-centered, and clearly tell the child that the other party's things can not be grabbed, if you really like it, you can play together.

Guide children to establish correct concepts and be willing to share. Only children tend to be self-centered and don't share with others. Parents should guide their children to know how to share with others, so that they know that sharing does not mean loss.

When children can clearly feel the love from their parents, have the right standard of judgment, and are willing to share it with others, they will no longer complain about their parents' partiality, and they will no longer have strong competition for favor.

My child is in kindergarten and others to grab friends, my god I can't believe it, I think the child is not wrong! The key is the guiding education of the hometown! I have seen children from abroad, and they are very different from children at home in this regard!

Their children really rarely compete for favor! It may be that their parents think that "once the child develops the bad habit of "competing for favor", and when the child grows up, once the child "falls out of favor", it will be difficult for the child to behave correctly"! By that time the child has grown up and it will be difficult to control himself!

Often it is "ruining" children!

When there are several children in the family, parents should guide the children and friends to live in harmony, tell the children that all the toys can be played together, and the children should know how to share with others when they have good things, and share one happiness into two happiness.

To tell the children, to play together, don't rob, in fact, this is related to the child's personality and family education. My child used to like to grab things, but through us adults, she reasoned with her, saying that it was someone else's thing, and she had to go through someone else's permission to play, and she had to learn to share her own things. Just say it a few times.

I think children mainly rely on the guidance and education of their parents.

The two of them are usually very good, my brother belongs to a relatively mild type, and he never provokes conflicts, but because of this problem, rob me, that's right, I'm the baby in the middle, I have a conflict in a few minutes when we meet, and we eat together, I take the bowl she usually doesn't use for my brother, and I start to grab it again. I think it's good to talk about it, I usually say to my daughter, let's play together, I'm yours and my brother's, and then it's fine.

My little niece is three years old, and she has been competing with her brother for favor since she was more than two years old (my son is two and a half years older), as soon as I sit down, I immediately look at my brother's eyes, and then squeeze in front of me and lean against me, or if my brother stands next to me, she will immediately climb on my lap and sit upright, and she will come down when my brother is gone. Later I said that it doesn't need to be like this, Mom loves you two and then it's fine.

3 In life, we will always encounter some conflicts of interest, we think it should be our own, but others also hold the same idea, which will force us to make a choice, whether to give up this part of the interests or continue to persevere. For me, this choice will still be decided according to the importance of the interests and the different characters I am fighting for, so I will talk about it in detail below.

If this small benefit was still more important to me at that time, then I would spare no effort to fight for it, no matter who argued with me. Of course, first of all, I will make my point of view and position, show how important this thing is to me, and hope to let them know the reason and inevitability that I will continue to persevere.

If they can't afford to lose so much, then it's probably me who is looking at the wrong person, and they are disappointed, but I believe in my own vision and I believe in my friends.

If this little interest is not very important to me, then I will consider the other person's usual practice. If the other party is a person who likes to take advantage of small advantages and usually has a bad attitude towards other people, then I will not choose to give up, I will use this opportunity to let them understand that not all people will let him get a little advantage, and no one can get anything out of thin air.

In short, if this small part of the interests were not so significant to me, I would not choose to stick to them. Sometimes, we always inadvertently get opportunities and lose opportunities, maybe this is an opportunity for me, even if it is not an opportunity, it is also a sublimation of my heart, which can make me more sunny.

But if it means a lot, then there is no negotiation, and I will definitely stick to it, after all, I also want to live, as long as it means a lot to me, I will get it!

Since it is a particularly small thing, then we don't have to grab it, people who are reluctant to make small profits will never become a big thing, and you can see how this person's character is, it is the kind of person who must be compared, and he likes to compete with others for interests.

Those who have done great things know that they are willing to give, and they can only get if they are giving. Since you are reluctant to make some small profits, what do you do to do big things, even if we don't have the ability to do big things, you can also see what this person's style of doing things and attitude towards making friends is through his desperate efforts to fight for this small benefit, he must be selfish and don't know how to be humble.

If you continue to associate with this kind of person, it will only cause disputes and quarrels on interests, and in the end it is you who suffers a loss, so if you have to grab a little benefit, then you will have to grab everything with others in the future, and this kind of person's interpersonal relationship must not be particularly good, just because he likes to grab some benefits from others.

But while you give up competing with him for interests, you have to let him clearly know that it is your own generosity, disdain to compete for this little profit, and have a tough attitude, so that he can't think that you are honest, loyal, and good to bully, or you will not be able to climb on your head in the future.