What should I do if I am calculated by such a person? Thank you

Maintain an optimistic, calm, calm, and happy mood.

Method 1: When you are in a bad mood, consciously change the topic, or do something else, (such as listening, watching TV, doing sports, playing casual games, or going out for a walk, etc.) to distract yourself, which can relieve your emotions.

Method 2: Tell your relatives or close friends about your troubles or even cry, or use pillows, sandbags, etc., to vent the accumulated troubles in your heart, which will also be conducive to physical and mental health. However, pay attention to the object, place, and occasion of catharsis; The method should also be appropriate to avoid harming others.

Method 3: When you want to get something, or want to do something but fail, in order to reduce the disappointment in your heart, you can find a proper reason to comfort yourself, which can help you be realistic in the face of setbacks and maintain a more optimistic attitude.

It is most appropriate to use the tricks introduced in "Thick Black Studies" to deal with this kind of person.

It's really sad that everyone has it!

I can't afford to provoke it, and I can't hide it.

Repay grievances with virtue, no one is guilty.

The heart of defense is indispensable, you suffer a loss and be careful the next time you communicate, and it is easy to change the taste of words in other people's mouths in this era.

You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people.

With this kind of person, no matter what you do or don't do, she has something to say, and after a long time, the people around her also know what kind of person she is. Why should you care what she says?

1. Grasp the weakness of the villain and hold down the villain's dead hole.

In our work, it is essential to guard against villains, and while always keeping a distance from villains, we must find the weaknesses of these villains and master their dead ends, only in this way can we be at a critical moment.

Give the villain a heavy blowback. At the same time, when they know that you are holding down the dead hole, they will not dare to provoke you easily.

2. Improve your ability and status to scare off villains.

Villains are generally bullies and afraid of hard, and if you are a pleasing character, or are relatively weak in the workplace, then villains will always attack you first.

If you want to make the villain go away, the most decent way is to improve your ability and workplace status, so that their means cannot be used in front of you and dare not let you"does not exist"。

3. Appropriate counterattack and intimidation.

Be oppressed and calculated by villains, don't make a fortune quietly.

This will only put himself in a more passive position, and with the first time, the villain will definitely not let go of the second chance.

We don't have to be like villains to become despicable and shameful with some nondescript means, but we must not connive, we must fight back appropriately, and even give villains some necessary intimidation to make them fearful, and also let them know your principles and bottom line.

Finally, I would like to tell you that in the workplace and social life, you not only need to have work ability, but also sometimes need to have good eloquence, vision, emotional intelligence and pattern strategy.

People's hearts are diverse, each has its own scheming, regardless of daily life, or workplace competition, although there is no harm to others, but the heart of defense is still reasonable, so mutual suspicion, the mentality of deception has arisen, and it is good to compete with each other, do not rule out the situation of you fighting for me, malicious harm, the key is to tolerate and communicate with each other, but reluctantly, not everyone is like-minded, regardless of the gains and losses of interests, the mentality is a little flat, and they are low-key in their own life and things, and flexibly adjust their mentality. The way of thinking and the skills of dealing with people, struggle is a must, otherwise bread and love are not guaranteed, gradually improve and enhance the competitive strength, always remind yourself to be calm and composed, do your best, opportunities will always appear, as for the trust of others, get along well or not, not subjective thoughts can change, so, everything is fate, not just divided, waiting for like-minded people to appear.

Follow his calculations and count him, since you already know that he calculates you, it proves that your IQ is higher than his, otherwise it is impossible for you to know that he calculates you, as long as you can see it, it will be easy to do, give him a bend and let him know that you are not a soft persimmon, so that he will no longer dare to calculate you.

The second way is to directly spend his calculations on your affairs, let him know that he calculates you and you know, so that he will not dare to calculate you.

First of all, you have to make sure that you can get out of this round.

Hope mine is helpful to you, thanks.

Don't make deep friends, stop losses in time, and stay away from him. Learn to find a favorable point, so that he has no idea where to start, cultivate a good relationship with the people around him, and do not panic in case of trouble, you can ask for their help. At the same time, we will learn from it, but we will also not forget to be full of hope and sunshine for the people of the world.

If you can avoid it, avoid it, and if you can't avoid it, beware. Chat keeps chat records, and conversation keeps audio recordings. Important things are written down in black and white, signed and fingerprinted. If you don't have kindness, you don't need to have illusions about this kind of person.

When you know who is planning on you, you should not hesitate to cut off contact. People who often calculate others, no matter how well they hide, will always be exposed.

Watch out for her every day, bring a voice recorder or something. Convenient for counterattacking later.

You don't have to endure it, you don't have to hide, you just stay away from the villain.

The person who can cover you is good, and no matter how much the villain calculates, he is doing useless work.

Calculate what you plan, do not move according to the soldiers, cultivate yourself, and fight back in the future.

Grasp the key points and make the truth public.

If there is no conclusive evidence, don't find someone to theorize, just pay more attention in the future.

I advise you to divide early, people who are calculating are often self-centered, often forget the overall situation, selfish and self-interested, and can't suffer a little loss, regardless of men and women, it is difficult to have great development. A person who calculates will never be happy: first, a person who is too calculating is usually also a person who cares about everything.

No matter how generous he is on the surface, deep down he will not be at ease. Calculation itself has already caused people to lose their peace in the first place, and to fall into the entanglement of one thing and one thing. And a person who often loses his peace generally causes a more severe anxiety disorder.

Second, calculating people not only find it difficult to get balance and satisfaction in life, but also cause dissatisfaction and resentment towards people and things due to excessive calculations. Third, people who love to calculate are often clogged up, and can only live in concrete things every day, and are accustomed to looking at the present and ignoring the long-term. What's more, there are thousands of things in the world, and the calculating person is not only calculating one thing, but is accustomed to calculating everything.

Fourth, people who are too calculating are also people who Bi Duhuai wants to get too much. And it is difficult for people who want to get too much to live easily, and often because of excessive calculations, they cause trouble and trouble. Fifth, a person who is too calculating must be a person who always pays attention to the dark side.

He is always discovering problems, discovering mistakes, worrying everywhere, guarding everything, and his heart is always gray. With a person who cares about it, he will not be happy, he will always take some trivial things to settle accounts with you, you can't take advantage of love and marriage, and you will be beaten upside down and said that it is a gold worshipper, and you will break up in the future, do you believe it or not, can he still care about you for the loss of youth?

First of all, dear child, we need to understand the definition of calculation. Calculation is when someone deliberately uses deception or fraud to cause harm or loss to you. It is an immoral act and should be punished.

If someone is calculating you, we recommend that you take the following steps:

1.Stay calm: When we are faced with a tricky situation, it is easy for us to feel nervous or emotional. However, it is very important to stay calm as it will allow you to think more clearly and make the right decisions.

3.Don't blame yourself: it's not your fault that you're being calculated. Don't blame yourself or let yourself get caught up in a state of self-blame. We need to understand that no amount of youth should tolerate such immoral behavior.

4.Ask for help: If you feel that something you are calculating is out of your control, don't hesitate to ask for help. You can ask your parents, teachers, counselors, or ** for help.

Finally, it is very important to remember to protect your own rights and interests. Remember, no matter what happens, you shouldn't feel scared or helpless. Always believe in yourself and you will overcome any adversity.

Good luck!